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Kolombo why are you in a hurry tommorrow is not judgement day so take your time

Kolombo wrote:When do you think is a good time to propose to someone?

when your pocket is deep.

zulaika wrote:

Kolombo wrote:When do you think is a good time to propose to someone?

when your pocket is deep.

gold digger ......priceless. 8)

zulaika wrote:

Kolombo wrote:When do you think is a good time to propose to someone?

when your pocket is deep.

Alla tana lacag bay ku waaltey..inaalilaah

zulaika wrote:

Kolombo wrote:When do you think is a good time to propose to someone?

when your pocket is deep.

A woman after my own heart

AW & Patriot,

Funny thing is, I know all about not rushing & shit, but I'm acting on instinct here. Don't you guys sometimes feel like taking a leap without looking? She's worth it, walahi. She's pure diamond.


Cali_Gaab,

No clue, yet. We shall see.


Zulaika,

How deep are we talking here?

LOL@ helwaa,

naa i got me own money...mama know how to make the dough. but still i believe the farax should come financially equipped.

Abdiwahab, do you still have hopes of getting married one day considering the fact that you have reached that age where you now can only marry single 30+ year old women and those who have been disowned by their family?

AW & Patriot,

Funny thing is, I know all about not rushing & shit, but I'm acting on instinct here. Don't you guys sometimes feel like taking a leap without looking? She's worth it, walahi. She's pure diamond

Man there are at times when you cant make decisions first its good differentiate btw when you are qoqsantahay iyo when normal especuialy in subjects pertaining to marriage material.

If your mental state is ok at that time then how is her deen & beauty?

Patriot,

I'm not a horny 15 year old, awoowe.

That phase of my life is behind me. These days, its become a mandated requirement for couples to date, before getting married. With dating comes immoral activities, that's what I'm avoiding. I don't plan on re-visiting my past sins.

What's wrong with checking out a potential mate, if you like her & her family, just proposing?

Kolombo wrote:

Zulaika,

How deep are we talking here?

- #1 on the list.....does he have debt and how big is it.

- #2 he should have a GOOD PAYING JOB , but doesn't necessarily have to be of the "higher education" persuasion", just make the dough and lots of it(legally of course)

- #3 he should have a savings account with enough money those for rainy days

and finally a woman should watch her man's spending habit very carefully, even when he spends on her. trouble for him is trouble for you eventually.

AbdiWahab252 wrote:

zulaika wrote:

Kolombo wrote:When do you think is a good time to propose to someone?

when your pocket is deep.

A woman after my own heart

Kolombo wrote:Patriot,

I'm not a horny 15 year old, awoowe.

That phase of my life is behind me. These days, its become a mandated requirement for couples to date, before getting married. With dating comes immoral activities, that's what I'm avoiding. I don't plan on re-visiting my past sins.

What's wrong with checking out a potential mate, if you like her & her family, just proposing?

You can make the dating xalal you go to ask for the fathers hand after you see that she does like you ...then if things go well then go ahead.

Zulaika,

Gotcha.


Patriot,

That's the plan, insha Allah.

Almost Jumu'ah prayer here, later.