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Gedo,

Tell us your full name..So the girls may be warned about your intention of getting married 3 wives

Emperior, quote " by then alot baan dhaxlay and i will do alot of traveling inshallah hadu ilahay yidhaho
By then i will have a new shirkad"

Waa ayo qofka aad aastay Balaayo ku heshay miyaan ku dhahaa Intaad sugeysid dhaxal ka kac jaadka oo shaqayso...

Shirib wrote:Finish school
Get married
have kids
either work for a good company or start my own
go to hajj

Add that to my list!!! im going for my "honeymoon"

The_Emperior5 wrote:Re married slaan cusub my uncle says to me son 10 sanadood ba slaanta wala badala.
Moved to another city
Have a new car
by then alot baan dhaxlay and i will do alot of traveling inshallah hadu ilahay yidhaho
By then i will have a new shirkad

Leasing is the way to go.

To Be
XAAFIDU AL QURAAN
Build Orphanage schools throughout Somalia (I already started the first one)

kambuli wrote:Gedo,
Tell us your full name..So the girls may be warned about your intention of getting married 3 wives

kambuli,

Why do I have to tell every girl about my intentions? I would only tell the girl I was married to, or the one I was planning to marry. I don't think it's anybody else's business.

However, I would be totally transparent and I would not marry a woman secretly without telling my wife. I don't agree with that

Gedo,

You are right walaal, you don't have to tell every girl about your 'Gododle" intentions.. But when would you tell the girl you want marry about your intentions? After she falls in love with you or before hand..Because it is not fair for any girl to court her and make her fell in love with you :love: and then VOILA..."Do you want to sahre another women with me"

GedoBoy

Don't listen to my habaryar Kambuli.

You can marry as many women as you desire without seeking permission

My Awowe had married 9 women during his lifetime

If all works as planned, I am upgrading next year

Gedo_Boy wrote:

kambuli wrote:Gedo,
Tell us your full name..So the girls may be warned about your intention of getting married 3 wives

kambuli,

Why do I have to tell every girl about my intentions? I would only tell the girl I was married to, or the one I was planning to marry. I don't think it's anybody else's business.

However, I would be totally transparent and I would not marry a woman secretly without telling my wife. I don't agree with that

Kambuli don't discourage the young man

Dude,

Been kusoo xara geli runa ku dhaq......

Its normal back home to be married more then one woman. Hadhgeysan nagahaan "Western brainwashed" ah

Do your thing ina adeer

AbdiWahab252 wrote:GedoBoy

Don't listen to my habaryar Kambuli.

You can marry as many women as you desire without seeking permission

My Awowe had married 9 women during his lifetime

If all works as planned, I am upgrading next year

AW lemme upgrade ya

kambuli,

I even brought up this issue even before I got engaged, because I thought it was fair especially because it was something I had been thinking about for a long time. Not that I plan to do it, but because if it occurred I always expressed my interest.

Even if I were to do it, I would not take a very young girl as a 2nd wife, it would almost certainly be a widow or a divorced women with children, because if I did take a 2nd wife, even though it is for my own reasons, I would feel compelled to do something for society as well. You could call me selfish or whatever, but that is my outlook.

SDM,

Saxiib, don't be afraid of marriage. Find a woman who agrees to nikkah misyar or nikkah mutah


GedoBoy,

DIVORCED women with children Why do you want someone else's baggage.

have some self respect and upgrade to a 22 yr old

Ayantu.

Just let me know which part of Tdot u are from

Gedo-Bay,

You have very good plan. I wish I was 20 years younger, I would have done the same.

Aw252,


That was just an example, I think I meant a widow with children, or even a woman who was deceived and married a loser, it's not her fault. A lot of men around the world just marry a girl somewhere in the world and divorce her in a few weeks or months.

Even with Somalis you'll see a guy who married a 17 year old, and she's divorced in a couple years. Sadly, in our types of cultures the chances of that type of girl re-marrying are very low. So should she live life condemned to never marrying again?

Gedoboy,

Saxiib, I am opposed to taking care of someone else's baggage And if you are going for it, might as well make her please your physically.

Child birth wrecks a Xalimo's body and after no. 2, thats it

And you don't want wife # 1 to get any cuqdad if you upgrade to a garoob with children or an older woman.

Its easier for her to understand if wife # 2 is a stunner

P.S. Don't become a SOCIAL WORKER ! Leave that to Xidigow & other Garoob Social Workers

Allahu alam