SOMALI PARENTS STRUGGLING TO KEEP THEIR CHILDREN SAFE FROM..

[surrender]

^ is that what you tell yourself every night before going to bed, after you hang about in parks with pockets full of knife and weed?


that is all ok, is somali girl's fault?

war, somali girls whether they bad, good, smoke shiisha, drink alcohol or wear hijaab. do care for their families. they work hard for their families in the best of their abilities.


for example i knew this one girl, she use to smoke, chill with boys and even go clubbing, but at the end of the month she use to send money to her family back home from her cleaning job.

i use to thin that was sweet of her.

her brothers on the other hand wear in jail, diported and street hood.

there is no way in hell that a somali guy who uses drug, and drink alcohol would send money to his family.

no way!! is a fact!! i put my name on it!

they too tired at 2am they go to bed and they are not to bee seen untill around 5/6pm when they carry on from where they were before.



where as guys some of em i knew back in london you to dissappear for three or four days, never call their families to let em know how/where they are.

[Newboy]

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for example i knew this one girl, she use to smoke, chill with boys and even go clubbing, but at the end of the month she use to send money to her family back home from her cleaning job.

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ok this thing doesnt define a good muslim somali gurl but from your weak examble i see someone who is losing thier way of live trust me......" woman shoud be at home or in the grave" my man once said that ..if you know what ma syaing

[surrender]

^well your man must of had bad experience, but thats not a bad example. is good example of someone who's bad.


yes she's no way near being a perfect xalimo, but she did, for her family what her three brothers couldnt and didnt do, and for that i always had respect for her.

in my view; somali girl or women are silent heroes walahi.

they deserve to be so

[Newboy]

surrender ... alright lets make this one some like "boys vs gurls" there are lost of somali peeps who are caught in the mix but somali famo worry more about the lil gurls than boys....do you know why?

if oyu now whqt am saying

[surrender]

no i dont know why? enlighten me!

anyways where im from, and how i was brought up, is the guys that are big worry right now!

[Oxy-]

Surrender that example is actually quite common !!

The most trashiest love girls somehow still manage to help their family in whatever way possible.
I think its more 2do with the fact that somali girls are more responsible with their money in comparison to somali boys.

As much somali girls can be "secret heroes" as you put it, they can also hold a massive part in the somali cummunity reputation.

I know that most somali girls (from where am from are decent) but this 1 girl decided to sleep around, in particular with jamaicans. Now every jamaican who knows of her, assumes all somali girls are easy.

[surrender]

^ oxy your right.

somali girls have got massive part in the somali cummunity reputation. we can either put our community down to the gutter, or pick it up by staying true to our culture.

but somali girl are more responsibile than guys that a fact.

there is no way in hell that somali drug dealer will stay connected with his family back home and send em money.

but we both need to play our parts in our communitites, we cant blame each other, forever.

[Cisse Westlake]

surrender

you life in fantasy land

westernized dhoocils sending money back home is a myth.

the only woman who really care about the somali comunity is the older generation. they the ones who send money back 8)

[surrender]

surrender

you life in fantasy land

westernized dhoocils sending money back home is a myth.

the only woman who really care about the somali comunity is the older generation. they the ones who send money back 8)

o please, save you breath. somali girls are way more hardworking than guys. your the oe with the fantasy in your head.

somali girls do care for their communites

[Cisse Westlake]

^^

come to bham and I will show you how they care for their comunity
all they do talk about is lil wayne and neyo


ps somali boys are big time waste I aint even defending them either

[surrender]

birmigham is different story, i've been there, my cousins live there. the place is taken by bunch of so called "wadaads"

dont get me wrong i have nothing against them, but they are way too controlling over their females.

man the craziest somali girls in the uk are from b'ham.

you wona know why?

because of their fathers. for crying out loud. my older cousin who lives there. he will tell you he's own mouth that a bus driver told him...

that there was this girl, she was wearing hijab. top to bottom with niqaab and the whole lot. got on the bus, went up stairs. he looked/checked her via the CCTV right in front of him.

what he saw was anyways she got change, there and then. wixii oo dhan ay iska bixisay

came her stop. she came down looking like them typical black girl; with fake hair, blonde of course, skinny jeans, stilettos and fake nails. you name it, she's got it!!

he couldnt imagine one could get such a make over on the bus in less than 15 minute. NOW thats what you call make over.

i even seen them on bull ring shopping centre.

was in primark one day when two girls came in, brought some stuff, went to the back and got changed, came out looking fly!!!

to cut long story short them girls are forces to do such acts.

walahi speak to them in your mouth if you dont believe me.

i spoke to one girl, said to her if you dont wona go malcaamad why frettin' allow it! i gotta do it for me dad innit! she said.

damn!! and these girls are 16+ are you for real

b'ham is one crazy place, is mini afghaninstan going on.

them parents need to stop FORCING their kids, and NEED to make friends with their children. at the moment is their worst enemies.

[DisplacedDiraac]

^I actually agree with you, On the bit were you say the parents over force their daughters.
I've never been to Bham, but i hear stories.

I thank Allah we decided not to move there.

[Cisse Westlake]

wtf reer london acting like london is such great place. bham has slags and somali crackheads
but nothing compared to london.

[surrender]

hey i wasnt defending london, i just wrote i missed the place. lets not play the compare game.

[Cisse Westlake]

bham home of the religious and pious somalis 8)