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married life is not boring it is you make it if your husband is boring that you have a boring married life if not i would be fun .

We're only human, we're bound to get bored after a while. I don't think married life is different. Marriages, once they get passed the 'honeymoon phase', tend to lose the passion and excitement that existed at the very beginning.. hence why some people would say it's 'boring'. But a marriage requires commitment. If you're not mature enough for the task, you shouldn't get married.

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Baby girl be my wifey, you the only one that can make my life complete

Sereana,

You need to spice up Your marriage by stop being such a cousin ___. You're like 5 generations same subclan

It's halal.

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i am a married woman for almost 2years and i am not happy about how things are after marriage. my husband always picks up on mistake and i get annoyed by that and start urguing with him every time he does that. he calls me hard headed , lazy and mistake maker. i am really fed up of him focusing on my mistakes and calling me all these names. i know myself and i do admit that i do delay things but i do have my own reasons. anyway i am asking an honest and sincer suggetion from all of you. and plz if u don't have one don't botter suggesting anything bad . waleykuma salaam

Asma,

You should try to make the marriage work. You married each other for a reason, so it's better to at least put in the effort and make the marriage work rather than give up. You've already pointed out your own faults and I'm sure your husband has his own faults, so you should both work on those faults and try to minimize your fights and arguments. By the way, everyone argues, what matters is not letting those arguments escalate into something major. I am by no means a relationship expert, but I believe it's always better to try instead of giving up. If he hasn't abused you in anyway, you should try to make it work especially if you have children together.

You guys must be sick. To be married is prosperous. Once you are a girl you will need to be at home and bear kids and take care of them. Even if you are educated and have degree level you will once need to form a family so that you can be a Muslimah mother of many offsprings. Ofcourse it is bit different than when you were single but then you are secure by now.

That M word just freaks me out. People please don't rush to marriage, first get engaged to ur boy/girlfried and move in 2ghther, if yall can make it through engagement than yall'll make it through marrige...if not than he/she is not for u.
No wounder why so many somali marriges fail cause they rush to marriage. Don't get married cause ur desprate, want to have kids, or ur biological clock is ticking. Wheather ur 18 or 75 there is someone out there for u, know that person inside/out before u make the big stap.
Peace out.

Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE

that is the worst advice ever


inshallah i will marry my second wife before i get 25, i have good genes and i want to help somalia by making patriotic smart babies who grows up to be like Hyperactive and Fah

Good luck with that (typical Somali man ) u'll ended in the home care alone U want to get married just to spread ur seeds, what a loser( ) Why can't u marry one woman and have a one happy family instead of streching urself?

walaaley some men in this world claim to have s.e.x 14 times a day, and i think i might be one of them and why cant i be happy with 2,3 wifes, i see myself traveling a lot and it would be convenient to have a lovely family by my side where ever i am

there are not enough men in this world to give each women one husband for herself, now somalia men:women ration is much more in favour of women due to the 20 years of civil war, the ethiopian vs somali war prior and the number of good men seem to be under low low....so if you smart you will pre-book for a wife number two before is too late

[quote="snoop12"]walaaley some men in this world claim to have s.e.x 14 times a day, and i think i might be one of them and why cant i be happy with 2,3 wifes, i see myself traveling a lot and it would be convenient to have a lovely family by my side where ever i am

there are not enough men in this world to give each women one husband for herself, now somalia men:women ration is much more in favour of women due to the 20 years of civil war, the ethiopian vs somali war prior and the number of good men seem to be under low low....so if you smart you will pre-book for a wife number two before is too late[/quote]
14 times a day u must have a lot time in ur hands dude. If ur freak than find a freak heva like u, like they said Shimbir walba shimbir kisi ladula". Do u really expect ur wife to wait for u while ur traviling and tying the knot with another woman..hell to the no, she will mess around. Later on don't be like "Oh she cheated on me blah blah". damnn it u made her to cheat on u. I know I wouldn't led my man to travel alone, we either travel 2ghter or stay 2ghter. We all know what these guys do when they travel( )
I can't blame u, that is every boy's fantacy.
"if you smart you will pre-book for a wife number two before is too late"
Sorry I am already taken