Re: Somali girls and being gold diggers

Executive · Post by **Executive** » Tue Feb 03, 2009 11:51 am

sadeboi wrote:but then again if you have nothing else to offer might as well trying buying affection/love whatever you want with money right

Good point, Couldn't agree more

Madd_Scientist_ · Post by **Madd_Scientist_** » Tue Feb 03, 2009 11:51 am

I don't know any gold-diggers

SummerRain · Post by **SummerRain** » Tue Feb 03, 2009 11:52 am

zulaika wrote:
Ismahan123 wrote:Wa ruunta ee ya ku yiri nimaankan naag aad ka xil baxey kareen madaxa gasho. More often they are the ones oo dhibka isku keenayo ileen been aye isku sheegayan, gabdhana wey luugonayaan.

these days, ninku hadi la dhaho war kirada iyo cuuntada so iibi waxu ku layahay naagta wa gold-digger.

I can smell a lying broke a.ss from a distance though.

hotra i was talking about the early stages of courtship and not even in marriage laakin can u imagine if your husband calls you a gold-digger?? bal ceebtaa eeg, nin oranayo hadal ceynkaa ah waa mas'uul ka carar. lol.

remember the moto in marriage for girls...: "what's mine is mine and what's yours is mine"

I keep that saying very close to my heart.

Its quit embarrassing wallahi. I have seem women who complain about their husbands not providing for him, I really don't see why she is sticking around. Shuqul sareerta ...mid lugaha uu daqayo aye heelikarta

Starscream · Post by **Starscream** » Tue Feb 03, 2009 11:56 am

sadeboi wrote:...but then again if you have nothing else to offer might as well trying buying affection/love whatever you want with money right

true...no harm to be pragmatic. like when u do something f-ed up, that ur not even articulate and creative enough to sweet talk ur way back to her heart, thats when a lil bit of cash money comes in handy.

who said love aint politics?

Ladane21 · Post by **Ladane21** » Tue Feb 03, 2009 11:57 am

Zul/Ismahan,

Ku lahaa "what's mine is mine and what's yours is mine". Wallalo we're in 21st century. You can't be my wife if you can't provide your own 50% of household expense.......

SummerRain · Post by **SummerRain** » Tue Feb 03, 2009 11:59 am

Ladane21 wrote:Zul/Ismahan,

Ku lahaa "what's mine is mine and what's yours is mine". Wallalo we're in 21st century. You can't be my wife if you can't provide your own 50% of household expense.......

Diinta Islamka so baaro aniga naac naacda modern woman ha ila imaan.

Samatr · Post by **Samatr** » Tue Feb 03, 2009 12:07 pm

zulaika wrote:
Ismahan123 wrote:Wa ruunta ee ya ku yiri nimaankan naag aad ka xil baxey kareen madaxa gasho. More often they are the ones oo dhibka isku keenayo ileen been aye isku sheegayan, gabdhana wey luugonayaan.

these days, ninku hadi la dhaho war kirada iyo cuuntada so iibi waxu ku layahay naagta wa gold-digger.

I can smell a lying broke a.ss from a distance though.

hotra i was talking about the early stages of courtship and not even in marriage laakin can u imagine if your husband calls you a gold-digger?? bal ceebtaa eeg, nin oranayo hadal ceynkaa ah waa mas'uul ka carar. lol.

remember the moto in marriage for girls...: "what's mine is mine and what's yours is mine"

If that's the case, women who have that mentality should have no problem being treated like they are useless, and should be talked down to since they are useless.

I've heard of supporting your wife but whats mine is mine and what's your's is mine will only work on a retarded husband.

kulaha what's yours is mines, wallahi that type of mentality reminds me of the wife on that show "married with children." and we all know her status as a woman.

Gifted · Post by **Gifted** » Tue Feb 03, 2009 12:11 pm

What exactly qualifies one being a golddigger? I believe it is someone that is after money, and ONLY money. The majority of women want other qualities including a nice income.

I personally don't think there is anything wrong with that, but I also believe a women should not rely on a man for financial stability.

Executive · Post by **Executive** » Tue Feb 03, 2009 12:16 pm

Gifted wrote:What exactly qualifies one being a golddigger? I believe it is someone that is after money, and ONLY money. The majority of women want other qualities including a nice income. I personally don't think there is anything wrong with that, but I also believe a women should not rely on a man for financial stability.

You are one of the few girls if not the only girl below the age of 25 on snet and yet you are more mature then most of them. wtf

SummerRain · Post by **SummerRain** » Tue Feb 03, 2009 12:17 pm

Executive wrote:
Gifted wrote:What exactly qualifies one being a golddigger? I believe it is someone that is after money, and ONLY money. The majority of women want other qualities including a nice income. I personally don't think there is anything wrong with that, but I also believe a women should not rely on a man for financial stability.

You are one of the few girls if not the only girl below the age of 25 on snet and yet you are more mature then most of them. wtf

Thats b/c cambuulo aa lagu so koriye.

Gifted · Post by **Gifted** » Tue Feb 03, 2009 12:20 pm

Thanks Executive

, but I'm still very naive, there is still alot that I don't know.

loooool Ismahan, you know I was forced to eat that when I was young, oh the pain, I still remember.

zulaika · Post by **zulaika** » Tue Feb 03, 2009 12:25 pm

Samatr wrote:
zulaika wrote:
Ismahan123 wrote:Wa ruunta ee ya ku yiri nimaankan naag aad ka xil baxey kareen madaxa gasho. More often they are the ones oo dhibka isku keenayo ileen been aye isku sheegayan, gabdhana wey luugonayaan.

these days, ninku hadi la dhaho war kirada iyo cuuntada so iibi waxu ku layahay naagta wa gold-digger.

I can smell a lying broke a.ss from a distance though.

hotra i was talking about the early stages of courtship and not even in marriage laakin can u imagine if your husband calls you a gold-digger?? bal ceebtaa eeg, nin oranayo hadal ceynkaa ah waa mas'uul ka carar. lol.

remember the moto in marriage for girls...: "what's mine is mine and what's yours is mine"

If that's the case, women who have that mentality should have no problem being treated like they are useless, and should be talked down to since they are useless.
I've heard of supporting your wife but whats mine is mine and what's your's is mine will only work on a retarded husband.
kulaha what's yours is mines, wallahi that type of mentality reminds me of the wife on that show "married with children." and we all know her status as a woman.

waan kuu soo duceynayaa in uu Alle Peggy Bundy oo kale kusiiyo....aamiin dheh.

AyanTu · Post by **AyanTu** » Tue Feb 03, 2009 12:30 pm

I don't know why ya'll are talking about gold diggers with these broke farax's!!!

Realize they spend their time on SNET, how can u think they have time or funds to be
complaining about such things.

No gold= No gold diggers.....understood?

Time wasted.

Samatr · Post by **Samatr** » Tue Feb 03, 2009 12:32 pm

Suleekha
Taasi waa inkaar eebbe ka baq, maxaad ii inkaaraysaa?

I don't have to worry about ending up peggy bundy, I've recently found quite a rare catch much like myself and we share much of the same beliefs alhamdulilah.

I see you got my point, a man should be able to support and not worry about becoming bankrupt.

Warsan_Star_Muslimah · Tue Feb 03, 2009 12:58 pm

WAKE UP BROTHERS!

This saying is mandated by ISLAM, this is her RIGHT as a MUSLIM WOMEN, the fact that you try and encroach upon it, is frankly disgusting.

Allah has made you men the PROVIDERS, this means that EVEN if she is RICH, under no circumstances is she obliged to fufil your role as the MAN of the house (which means providing for the income of the household). Be men, go out and get jobs, that is Islam.

In my opinion there is no such thing as a Gold digger in Islam, you are free to marry anyone under the sun who is muslim just because he/she is RICH (yeah men can marry a women for her money, again yeah there are women money - you know the dollar...dollar, bling bling), however you'll find out that money is nothing when it comes to happiness.

This is a serious issue in the Somali community, because some faraxs now believe that it's duty of the government to provide for their families!

I don't think any sane lady should stay with a man who can't pay for a simple meal!

Wasalaam.

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