Would you be pissed?

[zulaika]

2 damn years and she don't even know something that vital?....she should be pissed at herself for DOQONIMO!!!!

[ms.naliaa]

Ladan...its not the fact that he has a kid...but the fact that he kept it hidden...



AW:
you aint kenyan homie...and u sure cant calim anything if the kid becomes successful.


Zuli:
ummm...way to go taking the mans' side....shoulda known ms. stepford...lol

[zulaika]

Zuli:
ummm...way to go taking the mans' side....shoulda known ms. stepford...lol [/color]

who said i'm taking the dude's side??......part of the problem lies with the female here huuno..for allowing herself to remain in a relationship for 2 years without fully knowing her partner's history...his rap sheet per se ... what's so wrong in acknowledging that.

[Cawar]

Hold it right there Nalia, there is a big difference between lying and not sharing every information with someone you are dating.

Maybe she never asked him, maybe it never cma into their conversation..etc etc..

I personally would have told her @ the first date, cos I would love my child too much not to mention him/her..but he may have his reasons..

[Serena]

There is a difference between lying and omitting information, but not that big of a difference. In this scenario I would be pissed, but depending on the circumstances I might be able to forgive him. If I couldn't forgive him, I'd move on.

[Murax]

Horta its funny How 99% of these threads start off with "Okay, My Friend...."

[sadeboi]

murax right..especially with nailia...


but nailia.. I don't see a reason to inform women I date about my child either...only one I want to marry!

[ms.naliaa]

Horta its funny How 99% of these threads start off with "Okay, My Friend...."

lol....ya...so?

murax right..especially with nailia...


but nailia.. I don't see a reason to inform women I date about my child either...only one I want to marry!

I dont start off my threads with "my friend..." you should chek urself at the door next time homie...

back to topic:
Yes, you should inform the person ur dating if you have children.
If I have a bambino/a...it would be the first thing I would say when a man approached me

[Buhodle-Gurl]

Ummm...I think..I know your "friend". Is her name Ayantu by any chance?

[Babygirl-]

Yes, i would be he was dating her for 2 years and didn't tell her woow he is untrustable.

[The_Emperior5]

So my friends been dating this dude for 2 years...and she found out yesterday that he has a kid....

my frist reaction was wtf

then I was like

and then
Im sorry girl....

told u he was an ass!

how did she found he is a kid i mean she is dating him for 2 years
or was it a boi in a big mans body

[Addoow]

Told you all men are asses

I wouldn't be able to date a guy for 2 years without doing a background search..

oouch!! that is a bit harsh.what if he told you he has a grown up kid?

[womenofdreams]

wooow a child marshallah thats good on his behalf but not to inform me about this he gotta go.... Plus never date a man for that long 2 years waaxa isku shegaysaan?

[ms.naliaa]

So my friends been dating this dude for 2 years...and she found out yesterday that he has a kid....

my frist reaction was wtf

then I was like

and then
Im sorry girl....

told u he was an ass!

how did she found he is a kid i mean she is dating him for 2 years
or was it a boi in a big mans body

Kid lives outside the city with her mama.....they never corssed paths...until one his boys spilled the beans to some chick who knew the g/f well.......

Yes, i would be he was dating her for 2 years and didn't tell her woow he is untrustable.

I knew he was an ass from the begining.

[Mr. Yungnfresh]

it's her fault, she should have asked