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Re: Would you be pissed?
Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 11:01 am
by zulaika
2 damn years and she don't even know something that vital?....she should be pissed at herself for DOQONIMO!!!!
Re: Would you be pissed?
Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 11:25 am
by ms.naliaa
Ladan...its not the fact that he has a kid...but the fact that he kept it hidden...
AW:
you aint kenyan homie...and u sure cant calim anything if the kid becomes successful.
Zuli:
ummm...way to go taking the mans' side....shoulda known ms. stepford...lol 
Re: Would you be pissed?
Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 11:45 am
by zulaika
ms.naliaa wrote:
Zuli:
ummm...way to go taking the mans' side....shoulda known ms. stepford...lol
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who said i'm taking the dude's side??......part of the problem lies with the female here huuno..for allowing herself to remain in a relationship for 2 years without fully knowing her partner's history...his rap sheet per se
... what's so wrong in acknowledging that.
Re: Would you be pissed?
Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 11:53 am
by Cawar
Hold it right there Nalia, there is a big difference between lying and not sharing every information with someone you are dating.
Maybe she never asked him, maybe it never cma into their conversation..etc etc..
I personally would have told her @ the first date, cos I would love my child too much not to mention him/her..but he may have his reasons..
Re: Would you be pissed?
Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 12:19 pm
by Serena
There is a difference between lying and omitting information, but not that big of a difference. In this scenario I would be pissed, but depending on the circumstances I might be able to forgive him. If I couldn't forgive him, I'd move on.
Re: Would you be pissed?
Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 12:21 pm
by Murax
Horta its funny How 99% of these threads start off with "Okay, My Friend...."
Re: Would you be pissed?
Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 12:22 pm
by sadeboi
murax right..especially with nailia...
but nailia.. I don't see a reason to inform women I date about my child either...only one I want to marry!
Re: Would you be pissed?
Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 1:06 pm
by ms.naliaa
Murax wrote:Horta its funny How 99% of these threads start off with "Okay, My Friend...."
lol....ya...so?
sadeboi wrote: murax right..especially with nailia...
but nailia.. I don't see a reason to inform women I date about my child either...only one I want to marry!
I dont start off my threads with "my friend..." you should chek urself at the door next time homie...
back to topic:
Yes, you should inform the person ur dating if you have children.
If I have a bambino/a...it would be the first thing I would say when a man approached me
Re: Would you be pissed?
Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 2:22 pm
by Buhodle-Gurl
Ummm...I think..I know your "friend". Is her name Ayantu by any chance?
Re: Would you be pissed?
Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 2:24 pm
by Babygirl-
Yes, i would be he was dating her for 2 years and didn't tell her woow he is untrustable.
Re: Would you be pissed?
Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 2:24 pm
by The_Emperior5
Re: Would you be pissed?
Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 2:27 pm
by Addoow
black velvet wrote:Told you all men are asses
I wouldn't be able to date a guy for 2 years without doing a background search..
oouch!! that is a bit harsh.what if he told you he has a grown up kid?
Re: Would you be pissed?
Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 2:32 pm
by womenofdreams
wooow a child marshallah thats good on his behalf but not to inform me about this
he gotta go.... Plus never date a man for that long 2 years waaxa isku shegaysaan?
Re: Would you be pissed?
Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 2:36 pm
by ms.naliaa
Kid lives outside the city with her mama.....they never corssed paths...until one his boys spilled the beans to some chick who knew the g/f well.......
Babygirl- wrote:Yes, i would be he was dating her for 2 years and didn't tell her woow he is untrustable.
I knew he was an ass from the begining.
Re: Would you be pissed?
Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 2:50 pm
by Mr. Yungnfresh
it's her fault, she should have asked
