Re: Somali Marriage never bonds
Posted: Sun Feb 22, 2009 5:26 pm
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Re: Somali Marriage never bonds
Posted: Sun Feb 22, 2009 5:28 pm
Re: Somali Marriage never bonds
Posted: Sun Feb 22, 2009 5:30 pm
I would respect & love my husband but my family who raised me and the mother who carried me would come first. 
Re: Somali Marriage never bonds
Posted: Sun Feb 22, 2009 5:35 pm
SnS:- lol, saas ii dheh! Abaayo, nimankaan dhibkooda Ilahay ha naga leexiyo.
Samatr:- Go eat some more odkac..
Samatr:- Go eat some more odkac..
Re: Somali Marriage never bonds
Posted: Sun Feb 22, 2009 5:37 pm
firefly
I've already consumed my daily share, but I wouldn't mind going for seconds.
I've already consumed my daily share, but I wouldn't mind going for seconds.
Re: Somali Marriage never bonds
Posted: Sun Feb 22, 2009 5:39 pm
amiin abaa
Re: Somali Marriage never bonds
Posted: Sun Feb 22, 2009 5:42 pm
babygirl,
Your mum only raised your for 18-20 yrs while this man might take care of you for another 60yrs. When your mum was raising you, she only gave you what she wanted to give you, which bed she was willing to buy for you but the husbands gives you the choice to eat whatever you want, sleep on whatever bed you want and also quinch all the thirsty " you know what I mean"
Your mum only raised your for 18-20 yrs while this man might take care of you for another 60yrs. When your mum was raising you, she only gave you what she wanted to give you, which bed she was willing to buy for you but the husbands gives you the choice to eat whatever you want, sleep on whatever bed you want and also quinch all the thirsty " you know what I mean"
Re: Somali Marriage never bonds
Posted: Sun Feb 22, 2009 5:49 pm
SnS:- Ameen sis.
Samatr:- I'm so jealous right now.
Samatr:- I'm so jealous right now.
Re: Somali Marriage never bonds
Posted: Sun Feb 22, 2009 6:03 pm
Minneapolis Mayor wrote:Why is it that When Somalis get married, they never consider themselves one. I mean the girl still consider her family more important to her than her husband and she does everything to Make her family successful financially on the expense of her her husband? The Cidayda and Ninka islaameed still exists. I am not saying we should't help other people but it should be " us first then everybody else later right?"
When the cadaan gets married, The women would tell her mum " we don't have, we can't avoid, we would do this, we would save this" we, we , we , we ,we all the time. but somalis is like cidayda this , cidayda that.
Because we are just waiting for you lot to mess up. Key lesson - never alienate the people who will help pick up the pieces.
Re: Somali Marriage never bonds
Posted: Mon Feb 23, 2009 12:58 pm
wow mini p preaching about how marriage should be...cajiib.
Re: Somali Marriage never bonds
Posted: Tue Feb 24, 2009 9:52 am
please don't begin with "when the cadaans"Minneapolis Mayor wrote:
When the cadaan gets married, The women would tell her mum " we don't have, we can't avoid, we would do this, we would save this" we, we , we , we ,we all the time. but somalis is like cidayda this , cidayda that.
we ain't cadaan now are we?...