Mr.H wrote:Hello fellow Snetters!
I'm getting married on Sept 19th. I'm 35, she's 31 and very beautiful. Since I've been chasing money for the past ten years, I decided it's time I settle down and have a family. Also, I am debt free

so I can afford to marry, honeymoon, travel and enjoy life with her. God Bless

Mr. H, I kindah forgot to say something about this the first time around. Especially as people are still stuck with the whole age thing, but just wanted to add Kudos for saying that ur now
debt free, and able to do whatever you want with your money. The unsaid good thing about marrying an older gal (NOT OLD, OLDER) is that by now she's prolly done being the career woman, has a coupla extra bucks in her account, ready to fully settle down without feeling unaccomplished as opposed to some 18 yr. old who'd just graduated from High school, had put aside any hopes of College/Univeristy, or fun life things to be with you. Who'd prolly wake up every morning thinking what she could have done different. Being debt free, (i'm assumin Student loans and such?) def. is a factor of sorts for making it, as a friend of mine has told me that most Somali marriages (or ANY marrigae at all) usually fails due to finances or lack there of.