why are home Wreckers are mostly Women?

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Captain

Well you can't really call them hypocrites if they're doing it because it's something encouraged by the deen. Besides some of them think that they're doing the other woman a favour because she'll remain married and still have a husband. I don't really understand the logic of it but there are happy co-wives out there.

[ms.naliaa]

Ms.Nalia, you have valid points, but come on it wouldn't take you a week to discover if a guy is married. If a guy hides that he's married, most likely he wants one night stands(in most cases). If he really wants to marry you, he'd break the news to you right from the get go

Okay, yea I would totally know when a man is flaking....some women have that basic instict in them.
But there are woman who blindly go into relationships and not really think abou it, and are sweapt in the 'honeymoon' phase of it all

[Captain24]

Captain

Well you can't really call them hypocrites if they're doing it because it's something encouraged by the deen. Besides some of them think that they're doing the other woman a favour because she'll remain married and still have a husband. I don't really understand the logic of it but there are happy co-wives out there.

What The diin hasn't encouraged marrying more than one wife. It just an optional and it has strict rules

[1nemansquad]

..because women are naturally evil cept for my mom's ofcourse

[FAH1223]

WELL most of them are whoring themselves out

[Captain24]

WELL most of them are whoring themselves out

Helwa waxay u carartay weeye waxaaas

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Captain

Well you can't really call them hypocrites if they're doing it because it's something encouraged by the deen. Besides some of them think that they're doing the other woman a favour because she'll remain married and still have a husband. I don't really understand the logic of it but there are happy co-wives out there.

What The diin hasn't encouraged marrying more than one wife. It just an optional and it has strict rules

Well that's your opinion Captain. I can say that it's not shared by most religious scholars who mostly marry more than one wife.

[zulaika]

lol@ this pathetic excuse for a topic.

takes two to tango.

Are you sure you are not bringing grudges from another thread last week?

No,
but say for arguments sake I meet a married man and he does not disclose this info ot me. Is it my fault that he didnt tell me the truth? Of course not.
If I start dating him (not knowing) is that also my fault? Again, no!
So whose the home wrecker in this situation?
The man
Its always the mans fault cause he persued a woman other than his wife.
I just dont like that ur putting the blame on the woman thats all...i think its a load of B.S.

true we can't always blame the other woman(provided she was "unaware" he was already married)...but we can't deny that there are women who know a man is married and intentionally pursue him. my problem is with those women.

bottom line...remember one thing...a man who "engages" in such acts is a man who's been given that option. marka horeba why is the other woman making herself "available" to a man who's already been taken?

[Cawar]

bottom line...remember one thing...a man who "engages" in such acts is a man who's been given that option. marka horeba why is the other woman making herself "available" to a man who's already been taken?

Because.. first, women out number men ..and more importantly..most of these women want to have what the other women have..
And last...They think that since a man is married...then he must be good or capable of providing security, responsibility..whatever you wanna call it..
thats how these women are wired to think anyways...lol

[ms.naliaa]

true we can't always blame the other woman(provided she was "unaware" he was already married)...but we can't deny that there are women who know a man is married and intentionally pursue him. my problem is with those women.

bottom line...remember one thing...a man who "engages" in such acts is a man who's been given that option. marka horeba why is the other woman making herself "available" to a man who's already been taken?

I dont know Zuli.
Maybe in some sick form these woman think they have been given a challange and failure is not an option.
But why do you say "a man whose been given that option" I dont believe a woman would hand over (a good man) like that.

[Captain24]

Ms.Nalia, Zuli is right, If a women don't show appreciation and self-worth to her husband, she's opening the door for all those "sheep in wolves clothes women" to take him away

[ms.naliaa]

Ms.Nalia, Zuli is right, If a women don't show appreciation and self-worth to her husband, she's opening the door for all those "sheep in wolves clothes women" to take him away

So, in your opinion a man cheates becasue his woman didnt treat him right?
It cant possibly be that hes' a jerk who 1 is not enough for him?
Excuse me if I vomit at your sentiment.

[Captain24]

Well, when marriage is destroyed, women would lose the most, so they should maintain the relationship more . How many single mothers have you seen struggling to find another man?

[ms.naliaa]

Well, when marriage is destroyed, women would lose the most, so they should maintain the relationship more . How many single mothers have you seen struggling to find another man?

Why would they have more to lose?
They are single MOTHERS because they are RAISING the children the man walked out on. You're bascially saying they have to do X times more in a relationship and if not, they will be penalized for raising the children.
But then again...ud tell your sister to go back to her abusive husband so nothing that comes out of you surprises me.

[FAH1223]

WELL most of them are whoring themselves out

Helwa waxay u carartay weeye waxaaas

well, its true