black velvet wrote:Madd I understand that and I might be more empathetic if I knew the circumstance lakin the fact will always remain a lie is a lie, haram is haram, illegal is illegal. I don't see the point of feigning ignorance to 'safeguard the means to which you've been accustomed to' sounds like gold digging on a gangster to me
everyone lies bv, everyone also knows what's xaraam and what isn't, they know right from wrong. the issue is finding out
why a person decided to lie etc. no-one said anything about being ignorant to what he's done/doing but the question is what will you do when you find out? "the means" isn't a gangster, but it could just as well be your husband. would you not safeguard him in the sense that you'd actually try and find out why he did what he did? what the circumstances were?