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Ilaheey hana caafiyo, Gossip is really bad I don't do it that much.. but I once had an associate sheydaan ah not even from my city baal maxaa ii baraay!! who would gossip about people infront of me or over the phone and would tell the others I said it, while the same person act's innocent & accused me of gossiping about them ... I am like you know what I don't know you like that let's keep it that way...

gossip makes the world go round

Folks,

Telephone made it easier for those eager to do gossip and malice...Before only limited people used to have the access of the long distance calls as they were expensive..But now, wow..from continent to continent...few bucks...for hours...

Ilaahow noo naxariiso oo jidka toosan nagu toosi...

K,

horta, wax baad sheegtaa mana dhameystirtid walaaley. maxaad maqashay taloow?!

Aar Suugaa iigu daran

Ma waxaad rabtaa inaan haddeer idhaahdo:

Ilaahay ha iga cafiyee waxaan maqlay xxxxxxxxx

Qob moos ah maad ii dhigee

dee waxaan rabaa in aan ogaado waxa kaa yabshay

Kambuli,

Believe me somali women shy about people more than they shy about God. Why do you think they Go with men who they think would not know their people or would not know the people they know and do the Nasty with others who they think won't say something about them to people they know.

I told you garoobs in america do illegal haram sex 70% more than virgin girls. Why because pple say something about them.

Marka yaan indhaha layska camayn casirkaan. hadii aan wax layska sheegi laheen naago inta hartay hawada ay galaayaan. how many times did a somali girl told a man Meeshaas heemarsiin soomaalibaa joogto ee xaafadaha cadaanka nagee is if allaah is not in the xaafadaha cadaanka. ama diid ama yeel but runta allaah igu jecel. somali women stay pure because pple would say something about them not allaah would punish them. that is why they change when they come to the west.

hanad_mn wrote:Kambuli,

Believe me somali women shy about people more than they shy about God. Why do you think they Go with men who they think would not know their people or would not know the people they know and do the Nasty with others who they think won't say something about them to people they know.

I told you garoobs in america do illegal haram sex 70% more than virgin girls. Why because pple say something about them.

Marka yaan indhaha layska camayn casirkaan. hadii aan wax layska sheegi laheen naago inta hartay hawada ay galaayaan. how many times did a somali girl told a man Meeshaas heemarsiin soomaalibaa joogto ee xaafadaha cadaanka nagee is if allaah is not in the xaafadaha cadaanka. ama diid ama yeel but runta allaah igu jecel. somali women stay pure because pple would say something about them not allaah would punish them. that is why they change when they come to the west.

been maadan sheegin. gossip keeps women in check

did kambuli sleep with abdiwahab?
gossip is when you lie about the person's behaviour/character. telling a true story aint gossip.

somalis kill each other for qawiil and stupid reasons in somalia. is that gossip?

suga_n_spice wrote:

hanad_mn wrote:Kambuli,

Believe me somali women shy about people more than they shy about God. Why do you think they Go with men who they think would not know their people or would not know the people they know and do the Nasty with others who they think won't say something about them to people they know.

I told you garoobs in america do illegal haram sex 70% more than virgin girls. Why because pple say something about them.

Marka yaan indhaha layska camayn casirkaan. hadii aan wax layska sheegi laheen naago inta hartay hawada ay galaayaan. how many times did a somali girl told a man Meeshaas heemarsiin soomaalibaa joogto ee xaafadaha cadaanka nagee is if allaah is not in the xaafadaha cadaanka. ama diid ama yeel but runta allaah igu jecel. somali women stay pure because pple would say something about them not allaah would punish them. that is why they change when they come to the west.

been maadan sheegin. gossip keeps women in check

usheeg abaayo. Men love to be gossiped about. a gossip about a man sleeping around makes him proud and would want him to keep doing it but if a woman hear ayadoo laga sheekeenaayo, she would stop. Meeqaa Qaxbo xan kusoo hanuuntay. believe me if I would know Islam the way I know about women, Sheikh cali suufi would have come to me for religious advice.

American-Suufi, are you really okay in the head? I told you give me your info, I'll for some help. Saan Caadi mahan.

Kambuli Salaam abaayo, Amiin. It really is destructive.

All you are telling us is, let the girls be whores and don't talk about them. The reason why our girls are straight is because they don't want to be gossiped about. If they don't care about gossip like the cadaan, they would be having sexy in the street.

No, you are incorrect the women who fear Allah swt know respect and status is not tied up in any way with her physical appearance or social skills in relation to men... Rather it is concealing and reserving her beauty and sexuality, her feminine charms and favours solely for the man that she marries... hence why you would not see a god fearing sister " having sexy in the street." (your words)

hanad_mn wrote:Kambuli,

Believe me somali women shy about people more than they shy about God. Why do you think they Go with men who they think would not know their people or would not know the people they know and do the Nasty with others who they think won't say something about them to people they know.

I told you garoobs in america do illegal haram sex 70% more than virgin girls. Why because pple say something about them.

Marka yaan indhaha layska camayn casirkaan. hadii aan wax layska sheegi laheen naago inta hartay hawada ay galaayaan. how many times did a somali girl told a man Meeshaas heemarsiin soomaalibaa joogto ee xaafadaha cadaanka nagee is if allaah is not in the xaafadaha cadaanka. ama diid ama yeel but runta allaah igu jecel. somali women stay pure because pple would say something about them not allaah would punish them. that is why they change when they come to the west.

Subxaan'allah... In these types of cases you are dealing with a ‘bad apple’ rather than a ‘straight girl’ (Allah swt knows best) Consequently this invalidates your alleged comment earlier

“our girls are straight is because they don't want to be gossiped about”

How are they straight? Better yet how is the whole notion of naming and shaming working in her favour when you then said the following

‘Why do you think they Go with men who they think would not know their people or would not know the people they know and do the Nasty with others who they think won't say something about them to people they know.’

Problem is... lots of people like you believe that this whole concept of naming and shaming is going to do wonders... instead it is a fear tactic which in the end becomes another form of a failed ‘reverse psychology’...

Qofka ceebtiisa asturtiid ilaahey swt adna bu ku asturaya...