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BV

So you dont mind that ur husband drink coffe with his female friends and spend time with them ?

NO

Helwaa As long as he's home at a reasonable time why not?

BV

Marka ninka maanta oo dhan naago la soo qosliyey ee waxa oo doono la sameeyey ayaad habeenki so xaraysaniysa guriga..cajiib...well hada single baad tahy laakin markey xaqiiqado timaado ayeyno arki.

black velvet wrote:Helwaa As long as he's home at a reasonable time why not?

yo must be one in million to say that.

HELWAA wrote:BV

Marka ninka maanta oo dhan naago la soo qosliyey ee waxa oo doono la sameeyey ayaad habeenki so xaraysaniysa guriga..cajiib...well hada single baad tahy laakin markey xaqiiqado timaado ayeyno arki.

Helwaa, i do not believe that man and women can be just friends, at begining it starts as friends and ends as luvers.

Kuush

You're right a man and woman can never be friends cus the shaydaan is always there.

A muslim man is not allowed to socialize with onther woman whos not his wife, mother or sister.

black velvet wrote:Surprised by all the no's

Depends though right? How close, how often do they speak...There are so many different types of friends. As long as she is not the call-late-at-night-and-play-PS3-with friend then why not? Appropriate boundaries

i like to see you say that when you married! hadaadan ul lahor fariisan ninkaaga waan arki doon-naa!

I am the jealous type, I know that, lakinse why would I be offended by a man having a life outside of marriage to me? Surely that is something attractive. I would not appreciate random females calling him at unsociable hours asking for favours as though they were his little sister lakin catching up with friends, exchanging news/ideas is healthy.

I would hate to become a female who sits at home waiting for a man to make her happy and cure all her insecurities, that is too much of a burden on anyone. Share in each other's lives not become each other's lives is my motto

HELWAA wrote:Kuush

You're right a man and woman can never be friends cus the shaydaan is always there.

A muslim man is not allowed to socialize with onther woman whos not his wife, mother or sister.

There is a reason why our religion prohibited socailizing between man and women who are not related.

i lost alot of good female friends cuz an accident intimacy that i had with them which was unplanned

man and women can not be just friends,,,

i once become friend with a girl and she was already in relationship with farax and they were planning a wedding,,but the girl start to have feeling for me,
markii dambena qofkii daaqada ayey ka saartay aniga ayaa miskiinki kala wareegay. anigana after 1 year xariif kale ayaa igala wareegay,

My friend (female) who I have been friend with almost 14 years got married and she gives me a call once a while. I sometimes ignore her phone call cause she will sometimes called me while her husband is their and I feel a shamed talk to someone's wife even thought she is a just friend. The husband is okay with it, but I'm not cause I wouldn't want my wife calling other man who is not me or Family member.

Diyeeshaha_Tolka wrote:man and women can not be just friends,,,

i once become friend with a girl and she was already in relationship with farax and they were planning a wedding,,but the girl start to have feeling for me,
markii dambena qofkii daaqada ayey ka saartay aniga ayaa miskiinki kala wareegay. anigana after 1 year xariif kale ayaa igala wareegay,

What goes up must come down

black velvet wrote:I am the jealous type, I know that, lakinse why would I be offended by a man having a life outside of marriage to me? Surely that is something attractive. I would not appreciate random females calling him at unsociable hours asking for favours as though they were his little sister lakin catching up with friends, exchanging news/ideas is healthy.

I would hate to become a female who sits at home waiting for a man to make her happy and cure all her insecurities, that is too much of a burden on anyone. Share in each other's lives not become each other's lives is my motto

Aimen! Plus I'd prolly be out catching up with an old friend too so is all good.

S-D-M wrote:

Diyeeshaha_Tolka wrote:man and women can not be just friends,,,

i once become friend with a girl and she was already in relationship with farax and they were planning a wedding,,but the girl start to have feeling for me,
markii dambena qofkii daaqada ayey ka saartay aniga ayaa miskiinki kala wareegay. anigana after 1 year xariif kale ayaa igala wareegay,

What goes up must come down

looool waa iska caadi ciil uma qabo ,,xaqeyga waan ka qabaa

Diyeeshaha_Tolka wrote:man and women can not be just friends,,,

i once become friend with a girl and she was already in relationship with farax and they were planning a wedding,,but the girl start to have feeling for me,
markii dambena qofkii daaqada ayey ka saartay aniga ayaa miskiinki kala wareegay. anigana after 1 year xariif kale ayaa igala wareegay,

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