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mahdi, waan ku gartey walaal, lakiin soo uma fiicna waaridka in ee ilmahooda choiceka iyaka siyaan?

i think life experiences are essential, and what better way then to find ur own soulmate. ma fiicana in aad waaridkaa daraadii qof u guursato aadan ku faraxsaneen. iska dhaaf guur ee, xitaa the shukaansi process

Caasi waalid That we all agree...

But there are issues:

1. I have noticed that the waalid themselves have the tendency to abuse those kids that are baari... In many instance I saw a mom calling for one girl to do all the work in the house while another one is just sitting and the mom is like..Taasi wax ma maqasho...

2. Sometimes the waalid themselves are ciyaala suuq even though they are waalid...For example a mom who is chewing kat 24/7 or who is "maraado" aka isla wareegto...But wants to tell her daughter the right from the wrong is

3. In some cases the waalid has bad advice..as they don't know anything about certain things..like education etc they may make wrong choices for their kids...

What is important for a grown-up kid to learn how to maneuver around the parents ignorance without provoking them..One hs to be very smart

Sugar, waa runtaa laakiin ogsoonoow now days it is very hard to tell who is telling the truth about their shukaansi both ragga iyo Dumarkuba wey kala daran yihiin and are very fake about their real life, marka waaridka wax ka yaabiyey ayey arkeen ee haloo dulqaato.

Bal u fiirso waxaad arkeysaa dhalin yaro badanoo ku leh waa la iga qariyey waxaasoo idil iyadaa ama isagaa mas’uulka ah furiinkan, why people can’t be real about their life, that is why many parents have lost trust of this generation and are becoming marriage agents

K, borobiyo!

waaridka mar mar weeka daraan oo wax kasta xad ayeey leeyihiin. like u said, some parents take advantage of their baari children to the extent where they dictate every aspect of their love life. mar kasta waxaa fiican waaridka ilmahahood in ee kalsoonida baraan. ma lihi yaan la maqal waaridka, balse waxaan leeyahay ilmaha iyakoo waaridkood u daga nugul bee hadana nolashooda raacan karaan. for instance, this guy im talkin about, even though he disagrees with his parents he makes excuses to the point where everything they say is "right"

mahdi, haa walaal waa runtaa. runti waaridnimada waxaan moodno ma aha. it's truely a tough job. aniga ilmaha aan dhalo waa u caqliyeeyn lahaa, lakiin faraha ayaan ka qaadi lahaa.

SnS, Waaba nin nasiib badan ninku, kuwa waxaa jira waaridkood dhahaan war heedhe inkaar qabe gabdhaha reeraha beenta iyo lugooyada ka daa.

Laakiin with this busy life Qurbaha, people are still strangers to each other even though they may dated years, only god knows what is best for us.

Suga,

Wallaahay I know this women who has many grown up boys...She told all the boys to be truck drivers instead of getting good education..The husband is the most intelligent educated man but he files after his wife which is a disaster..She puts the family in a project after a project all of them a disaster... Taasoo kale ayaa lagu sheegayaa waalid..maxay waalid ka ogtahay waa luggooyo fowqal lugooyo for the whole family

caasi waalidnimo waxa waaye inaad waalidkaaga xaqiisa u diido..laakin waalidka oo xaqaaga ku duudsiinayo hadaa tiraahdo waa diiday caasi waalidnimo maaha ...aniga they are times i say NO to ma dad...and he has to understand it..ma kastay like one time sheego gabar aa ku guurinaa ii keenay i told him duqa iga khalee maku heysto camal , adiga maad ku labaysatid hadii gabarta ka heshay . aniga markaan doono ayaan guursanaa cidaan doono ayaan guursanaa he dint talk to me for months than wan heshiinay he said abti adigaa xoriyadaada leh...i told him aabe xaqeyga ha i duudsiin ....marka sometimes u gota say NO hadii kale yes badan bilaa mustaqbal bey ku dhigaysaa

K, taas hooyo ma aha. acuudka. ma aayaa taloow?

CW, that's exactly my point. sayin 'no' to ur parents does not and should not make u an caasi. at the end of the day it's u who's in it not ur parents.

i just got milk up my nose and all ova my diric

Sweet & Sour,


Anigana rag aan aqaan ayaa ayakoo xaasleh beey gabdhaha ugu shekeyaan in naagta eey qabaan lagu qasbay....iska jir kuwaasna sis

suga_n_spice wrote:K, taas hooyo ma aha. acuudka. ma aayaa taloow?

CW, that's exactly my point. sayin 'no' to ur parents does not and should not make u an caasi. at the end of the day it's u who's in it not ur parents.

true said..@ end of da day u are da one whos gona end up wif thingz u are not happy wif it..so its better to say No sometimes at some point in life if u feel unhappy

Ka darag wrote:i just got milk up my nose and all ova my diric

adiga, u have the symptoms of an areebo. ish

sdm, waa la socdaa walaal. honestly i don't blame anyone who's in that type of relationship, balse waxaa ka fiicnaan lahaa in ee ragga diidaan inta ee nolol aan raaxo iyo jaceel laheen ku jiri lahayeen.

CW, exactly. besides, gaining experience and findin ones own soul mate is essential later in life. because that way, u will learn to handle all problems on ur own without worryin about who u'll disappoint.

SDM, amuu ninkaan yahey saaxiibkaa since you all live the same area



Ka dharag, I am not surprised your name is ka dharag milk and meat, too much calories equal to go to the gym and get shape

mahdi01 wrote:SDM, amuu ninkaan yahey saaxiibkaa since you all live the same area



Ka dharag, I am not surprised your name is ka dharag milk and meat, too much calories equal to go to the gym and get shape

amuuba isaga yahay!

mahdi, hilib and caano make u strong no fat

suga_n_spice wrote:

Ka darag wrote:i just got milk up my nose and all ova my diric

adiga, u have the symptoms of an areebo. ish

sdm, waa la socdaa walaal. honestly i don't blame anyone who's in that type of relationship, balse waxaa ka fiicnaan lahaa in ee ragga diidaan inta ee nolol aan raaxo iyo jaceel laheen ku jiri lahayeen.

CW, exactly. besides, gaining experience and findin ones own soul mate is essential later in life. because that way, u will learn to handle all problems on ur own without worryin about who u'll disappoint.

wtf is that?