Ive been asked to marry my cousin

[abdikarim86]

do you mean a fake marriage to get her a green card ?

yeah pretty much

Cool, don't do it...tell your adeer sorry but no can do.

why shouldn't he, i've seen it happen many times here
if he is helping out a cousin get to the west, there aint nothing wrong with

[FAH1223]

why shouldn't he, i've seen it happen many times here
if he is helping out a cousin get to the west, there aint nothing wrong with

the whole principle of lying is wrong and the guy is married already... he can get years in prison for polygamy

I honestly think the reason we Somalis have a lot of shid going on in the West is because of scams like these.

Theres always another way to come here, lying about it will make you pay down the line and you don't want to do that.

[kambuli]

Coolpoison,

Here is my genuine advice...Tell your adeer, that you can't do it as it is Illegal

[CoolPoisons]

kambuli ma asaga yeelaya

walahi i wish i never picked up that phone call

[ms.naliaa]

why shouldn't he, i've seen it happen many times here
if he is helping out a cousin get to the west, there aint nothing wrong with

the whole principle of lying is wrong and the guy is married already... he can get years in prison for polygamy

I honestly think the reason we Somalis have a lot of shid going on in the West is because of scams like these.

Theres always another way to come here, lying about it will make you pay down the line and you don't want to do that.

Totally!



Plus, the Feds are watching Somali ppl like crazy right now....hed be stupid to do it at this time!

[AbdiWahab252]

Ku biyo biyeeso.

[abdikarim86]

forgot you americans had the FBI on your backs
hadaba CP ignore my advice

[Enlightened~Sista]

cousin baad tidhi? war there are people who get asked to marry their own father& brothers & uncles etc !


btw fah wallahi mar marka qaarkood..sidaad ufakarto baan ka yaabaa..you are sometimes quite heartless ...wallahi if u were desperate ...hungry penniless ..miserable with life in Somalia you would have done the same!!

[kambuli]

Coolpoison,

Walaal, the choice is in your hand:

1. Go to jail and revoke your "sharci" whatever it is or

2. Tell your uncle big "NO"...

If I were you I wouldn't take any chances....Waa bilaa adeer, he has to know better

[Nabeela]

There is a chance that the FBI is reading this thread, Coolpoison you are in danger.

[FAH1223]

cousin baad tidhi? war there are people who get asked to marry their own father& brothers & uncles etc !


btw fah wallahi mar marka qaarkood..sidaad ufakarto baan ka yaabaa..you are sometimes quite heartless ...wallahi if u were desperate ...hungry penniless ..miserable with life in Somalia you would have done the same!!

Whatever, the ends don't justify the means.

Going to prison for fraud and polygamy and all that other crap is not worth it.

Sorry if its not the rosy tale you want to hear, but its the truth. Lying is not the way to go about it, there are OTHER ways...HONEST ways of doing things.

[Enlightened~Sista]

Well there is only two options FAH..maxaad isla yeelyeelaysa??

to get a visa to visit America..or to do these fake marriages/tahrib

do u think these people havent thought of doing it the legal way? they have and have been denied..and this is what leads them to do it the illegal way.



desperate people do desperate things ma maqli jirtaay?

[FAH1223]

Well there is only two options FAH..maxaad isla yeelyeelaysa??

to get a visa to visit America..or to do these fake marriages/tahrib

do u think these people havent thought of doing it the legal way? they have and have been denied..and this is what leads them to do it the illegal way.



desperate people do desperate things ma maqli jirtaay?

just cause its desperate doesn't mean its right

[Ka darag]

ive seen people from the UK do that ...

[Enlightened~Sista]

Well there is only two options FAH..maxaad isla yeelyeelaysa??

to get a visa to visit America..or to do these fake marriages/tahrib

do u think these people havent thought of doing it the legal way? they have and have been denied..and this is what leads them to do it the illegal way.



desperate people do desperate things ma maqli jirtaay?

just cause its desperate doesn't mean its right

I never said it was right...and im certainly not justifying it...just being understanding.You dont have to come down hard on those poor people.