Right guy/girl Wrong time

[HELWAA]

Helwa miskax dhagax,

Of course there is a free will xabiibti, otherwise, there is no point in working hard, if our fate is predetermined. Allah, being almighty, know what decision you are going to make, but the decision is yours ultimately

Aniga xabiibti iguma oran kartid..


Adigu caloosha ku jira ayaa already noloshaada dhan la qoray...

The Prophet csw said, "Allah has appointed an angel in the womb, and the angel says, 'O Lord! A drop of discharge (i.e. of semen), O Lord! a clot, O Lord! a piece of flesh.' And then, if Allah wishes to complete the child's creation, the angel will say. 'O Lord! A male or a female? O Lord! wretched or blessed (in religion)? What will his livelihood be? What will his age be?' The angel writes all this while the child is in the womb of its mother."

Hadith - Bukhari, Narrated Anas bin Malik

[Executive]

Captain

I know she is a good girl

[Macaaney_1991]

3. Walk away, if it's meant to be it will be

[Beenaale_No1]

I would pursue her, but wouldn't change my plans for her.

[1_londoner]

Walk away maybe...

[S-D-M]

The biggest chance you can take is not taking a chance at all

[Cinque Mtume]

If she's perfection, it would be a shame to walk away. Pursue her, but if it turns out to be at the expense of urself, abort the mission ASAP.

People abuse the word calaf. Pursuing is part of calaf, not opposite. It was also meant to be for you to pursue her...or not. I agree, shyt can be confusing, but u get my point.

[SummerRain]

I dont know.

[Enlightened~Sista]

Let's say you met a person who fits your definition of perfection. However the timing is anything but perfect because you're not ready either financially, mentally, physically, spiritually, emotionally or due to career, studies e.t.c. If you were in a position such that you either had to go for it with this person or life would lead you into two different directions what would you do?

1. Hit the road and run

2. Change your plans and take a chance

3. Walk away, if it's meant to be it will be

Or something else?

NO 2

[The-Screw]

been there, done that. i was willing to take a chance but she walked away only to return when it was too late. perhaps that's what they call calaf these days eh.

[shaamboo]

hit and run

[Ka darag]

errrrmmmmmmm wait until it is the right time?

[black velvet]

Some people are willing to uproot their whole lives for mr/ms right, I always wondered if they're madly inlove or just mad

[Shirwac_1]

Definitely take a chance in a heartbeat coz this person could be your soulmate thats why its a golden
opportunity in your life right now. About changing plans such as career is untouchable for both of you. If it clicks
all you getta do is make some udjustments for example get nikaax to make it legal boyfriend girlfriend but no kids
until you complete your goal then build the house.

[Paddington Bear]

If you're really as career minded (not to mention single-minded) as you claim, you will continue on doing what you are doing (study, work and all that). You will not marry the girl but, instead, you will start spreading little dirty rumours about her to ensure that she never gets married. Something like telling the world that she has a bad reputation or zits on her bottom, etc.

When you have done your studying, working, getting yourself ready or whatever it is that is stopping you from getting married today, you will return to her and marry her. She could not possibly refuse a successful man like you (what with the rumours that were spread about her and the lack of any suitable suitors). Better still, she will worship the ground you walk on because you rescued her from an eternal life of spinsterhood and loneliness. It's a win-win situation.

Go for it my friend. Tell the world she has AIDS.