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HELWAA wrote:You cant compare a cadaan woman to somali.Naagaha soomalida sida degaaga ayey wax oo dhalaan.Habeenka ay 40tan baxdo ayaa mid kale laga gaarsinaya.Baruurti hore oo dhicin bay to kale sii foolaysa.Most white women have goals in life they plan every step in their livs, they get back in shape , go back to work etc etc while most soomali women become best friend with baasto iyo bariis iyo sariirti xagay iga xigta.No family planning what so ever.....WAA JUST UUN XABAD BAC WAYNE AH DHAC..DABDO HA SII FIDO..No EXERCISE...NO HEALTHY FOOD.....HAMBADA CIYAALKA KA DHARAG SEEXO.Habeenkiina waa tafadal yaa cami.

family planning is a must walahi...

Helwaa, my habar yaro after they had kids all worked out and stay in shape... eat organic foods and stuff... my lord it was and still is like healthy living central with them

abdi, ur a dream hubby

btw, yesterday one of my mother's friends passed away from childbirth. they did emergency c-section on her to take the child out because by the time she went to the hospital she was alreadyin dyin. today 7 children are without their mother, and thank god their father is a good man, but the entire community is already makin plans on how the children will b taken care of and who husband will have to marry!! the moral of the story is....it's good to have children, but sometimes havin too many children is not good. u never know whether u'll alwayz b there for them. 2-3 is fine, but 7? ages 6 and down?

We as Somalis don't have the problem of pregnancy fat..Only I believe 5% would have that problem. All the Somali women that had babies are just fine.. Koley Reer Virginia ma qabaan problemkaas..

zulaika wrote:

HELWAA wrote:You cant compare a cadaan woman to somali.Naagaha soomalida sida degaaga ayey wax oo dhalaan.Habeenka ay 40tan baxdo ayaa mid kale laga gaarsinaya.Baruurti hore oo dhicin bay to kale sii foolaysa.Most white women have goals in life they plan every step in their livs, they get back in shape , go back to work etc etc while most soomali women become best friend with baasto iyo bariis iyo sariirti xagay iga xigta.No family planning what so ever.....WAA JUST UUN XABAD BAC WAYNE AH DHAC..DABDO HA SII FIDO..No EXERCISE...NO HEALTHY FOOD.....HAMBADA CIYAALKA KA DHARAG SEEXO.Habeenkiina waa tafadal yaa cami.

family planning is a must walahi...

Yep it's a must...jirkaaga iyo naftaada inaad ka fakartid wayaan.Somalia atleast jaariyad baad qabsanaysay amba reerkina ku caawinayey laakin halkan inaalilaah adiga iyo ninka ayey timuhu kugu cadaanyan.


Fah


Habaryaraha dad iska shaqaynaya bay haayeen laakin dadka qaarkood organic waxay tahy maba garanayan...may isku quudhayaan ba ka horaysa.

Suga,

AUN to your mom's friend.


All I need are 3 to 4 at most. Anything beyond that is way too much.

I do agree its best to have children while you can. A friend of mine delayed having children and marriage cuz of her career, finding the perfect guy only to find the right man but she was told that she had cysts in her uterus and they had to remove it. Now she can never have any kids. But her husband still loves her and has not left her.

amiin abdi. ilaahay ilmahaas ha u gargaaro masaakiinta.

i've alwayz wanted lotz of kids, but im reconsidering

Suga,

Reconsider. Once I get my 3 to 4, I am going for a vasectomy

suga_n_spice wrote:abdi, ur a dream hubby

look at this silly little girl.

suga_n_spice wrote:some of the ladies i know complain that if they breastfeed, the sista's will head south

LOOOOOOOOL THE SISTAS

abdi, bisinka

E-S. maxaa kugu dhacay abaa? why r u ( )

Suga,

I wouldn't want more kids at all. its safer and more reliable than other family planning.

AbdiWahab252 wrote:Suga,

I wouldn't want more kids at all. its safer and more reliable than other family planning.

true, but abdi gettin a V is just extreme as far as im concerned.

Suga,

Not as extreme as waking up one day so happy the last born, Jimcaale has graduated from college and I am feeling great that I am all set because the kids are grown up and are now on their own.

Mrs. Abdiwahab comes to me and says, "Hey darling, guess what ? I am pregnant !"

Another 21 years of raising a kid instead of enjoying retirement

AbdiWahab252 wrote:Suga,

Not as extreme as waking up one day so happy the last born, Jimcaale has graduated from college and I am feeling great that I am all set because the kids are grown up and are now on their own.

Mrs. Abdiwahab comes to me and says, "Hey darling, guess what ? I am pregnant !"

Another 21 years of raising a kid instead of enjoying retirement

thats why my parents had all 4 of us within a 5 year period and after that, never had kids again