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if you can't afford to get married, don't*Nobleman* wrote:Not sure if i understood fully. But fear of finance and responsibilty of marriage outweigh threat of commiting zina. Boys should try and also get married young cos the ages between 17-25 can be very challenging in terms of resisting sin.
Men need to worry about their age too. They need to get married. Xalal is better than Xaraan/Zinna... 
Iyagii ayaa haddeer iibsanaya nimankii haddii loo baahdo Dhaga Bacayl wrote:Kambuli,
In that case I’m for sale!
Xaraashbaan diyaar u ahay saaka!
What responsibilty? All she has to do is wash a couple of dishes and ensure that she feeds her man edible non-poisonous food. If her man happens to be one that fires live rounds, she will still have nine months to go before giving birth to her first child (by which time she'll be 19). If her man happens to be the kind that hits the bullseye everytime, she'll still have another nine months (plus the time she was recovering from the first child) before giving birth to the second (by which time she'll be 20/21). If her man happens to be the type that always gets three lemons on the fruit machines, she'll still have another nine months (plus the recovery time from the second child) before giving birth to the third (by which time she'll be 22/23). Now if she's married to an insatiable monstor that goes on to hit her for four, five and six I am sure we can all agree that she'll know all she needed to know about responsibility by then.HELWAA wrote:18yrs old girl is not ready for such responsibilty huuno.Ducaysane209 wrote:Suga Delic if the woman passes 28 without getting married then she will properly be labelled a " Gumays "
so xalimos have 18-28
thats a space of 10 precious years to find a man.
HELWAA wrote:Ducays
18yrs girl is not mentally developed yet...i would't advice any girl to get married at that age....maxaa nin iyo caruur da'da oo so arkey..skuulkeeda ha iska dhamaysto oo maskaxdeedo ha dhisanto.Guur wax lagu degdego maaha.
Just look around ..how many marriages survive the first year?
Paddington Bear wrote:What responsibilty? All she has to do is wash a couple of dishes and ensure that she feeds her man edible non-poisonous food. If her man happens to be one that fires live rounds, she will still have nine months to go before giving birth to her first child (by which time she'll be 19). If her man happens to be the kind that hits the bullseye everytime, she'll still have another nine months (plus the time she was recovering from the first child) before giving birth to the second (by which time she'll be 20/21). If her man happens to be the type that always gets three lemons on the fruit machines, she'll still have another nine months (plus the recovery time from the second child) before giving birth to the third (by which time she'll be 22/23). Now if she's married to an insatiable monstor that goes on to hit her for four, five and six I am sure we can all agree that she'll know all she needed to know about responsibility by then.HELWAA wrote:18yrs old girl is not ready for such responsibilty huuno.Ducaysane209 wrote:Suga Delic if the woman passes 28 without getting married then she will properly be labelled a " Gumays "
so xalimos have 18-28
thats a space of 10 precious years to find a man.
HELWAA wrote:Duc
Hablaha soomalia waxa ugu wacan guurka degdega waa ka orodka kilmadan..GUUN...badankoodna waa wax mahaysato.Hadii ay halkan joogi lahayeen midna nin may guursten walle.
PB
Inantu ma digaagad baa...?
kambuli wrote:Suga_delic, has a point
But some men believe that as long as he is a MAN he can get a very young wife because he is a man..Like back home where an old 86yrs old could marry a 17yrs old girl...
Women are educated now, they earn as much money as men or more...There is no such thing as Guumeys
