Your take on children?

[SultanOrder]

Yeah, I do come off as more intelligent and mature than them, I speak better english too.
but you shouldn't judge me in comparison to BV eventhough shes inteligent for her gender.

I get what your saying wallahi, because when your young you have so many illusions and ideals of how you want things, its hard for you to consider others point of views. So your divorced now?

[Koronto69]

Waan ku gartay, sxb.

Yh, man. Divorced since 2007 and living a peaceful life for the first time in years. There's life after divorce and it can be a bliss, makes the ladies even find you a bit more interesting with their "ooohs" and "aaahs". If it don't work the first time, try again and if you're making each other miserable, call it quits. Its not like you're co-joined twins or some shit like that, cut your losses short & find whatever makes you happy again, brotherly advice. And always seek Allah's guidance in every decision you decide to take.

No woman is worth your happiness & no woman is worth a hassle, take it from me.

[SultanOrder]

Amen to that brotha

[Koronto69]

Helwaa,

You pretty much summed it up there. I actually had an appointment with my school therapist on Monday, but that won't be necessary now that you've filled that role.

How can I ever repay you for your service?

[Mad May]

@these two

[Hyperactive]

Do any of you have any? If not, how often do you think about having kids? Do you wonder what type of a parent you'd make and what type of a relationship you'd have with your kid(s)? Do you try to learn parenting skills from watching others around you and either by reading about the issue e.g. Bill Cosby's "Fatherhood" series? I'm sure there's a similar series for "Motherhood" as well. What are your main fears about having kids? Is it a matter of finding the right person to have them with, a matter of timing, financial worries of not being able to care for them or just not wanting them? Do you ever have fears of not being able to conceive?

Finally, what is the best age to have children in your opinion?

my biggest fair is not being awalad salah ah.
as some one said: awladokum akbadukum tamshi fil arth= your kids are your liver walking on the frloor. means it hurts you if anything happened to them.