Secondly, not all girls are hiding jareer and high foreheads lol some wear it to fit in with other Somali girls...there is a clear division in the muslim community between hijabi's and non hijabi's...and there are further divisions between said groups. Many Somali girls fit into the hijabi girls who dress this way, doesnt make them bad people, they are just a clique...only Allah knows about their intentions.
Thirdly, I agree that hypocrites are rife in the Somali community and many young people use that as an excuse to go against diinta...I see that as hypocrisy, but a girl doing what she does in the 'open' open is honest...because she would've already done it openly, just not in front of those she knows. At this point she is able to gain help from people she knows, her parents are aware and can advice her...I hate the way people think its hiding a sin when in fact you are in public doing the same shit in front of people you dont know...
How do you propose that they need role models when a lot of these kids have such great parents 24/7 around them...at least a great mum...they just need to be spoken to in a frank manner...its too tempting to hide shit from Somali parents because of the way they flip out
