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Re: How To Handle Toxic People!

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BlackVelvet wrote:^^ Yeah it's hard to remain optimistic and cheerful when you take a good look around the world. I have the worst mood swings lakin as long as they dont involve taking others down with you I think there is room for a quick recovery :mrgreen:
Exactly! I have really bad mood swings too. Anyway, someone seems to be wanting to make you toxic caawo...lol
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lol. A lotta of magic flying around in this place for sure. :lol:
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:lol: Tell me about it, I just got banned :x :lol:

I feel like an old school Snetter now :clap:
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BB AKA BV BEHAVE NAYAA :twisted: :roll:
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I had to stand up for my rights :up:
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Re: How To Handle Toxic People!

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BlackVelvet wrote:
Galmeygaag wrote:
2ndtoNone wrote: How to Avoid Becoming A Toxic Person

Avoid engaging in the behaviors toxic people exhibit. If you find yourself unconsciously engaging in such behaviors and you are unable to stop doing so on your own, invest in some relevant self-help books and/or seek the assistance of a friend. If all else fails, seek professional help from a psychologist or social worker (THE GREATEST SOCIAL WORKER OF ALL IS THE HOLY QUR'AN ).
very true indeed.

we are all toxic someway or another, inshallah Allah will forgive us when we correct ourselves.
Tuug laqabtey tala maleh :shock: You should have just left it with the other nick :lol:
what are you talking about ? if you want my attention just be normal, why accuse me of things ?

i am not toxic but i am equipped with a lethal RM Carab, if you piss me off i will strike you sending you to a place where you will be fat and depressed. now, do you really want to end up drinking your own breast milk for comfort ?
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I immensely dislike people that make LISTS. :mrgreen:
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Re: How To Handle Toxic People!

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Galmeygaag wrote:
BlackVelvet wrote:
Galmeygaag wrote:
very true indeed.

we are all toxic someway or another, inshallah Allah will forgive us when we correct ourselves.
Tuug laqabtey tala maleh :shock: You should have just left it with the other nick :lol:
what are you talking about ? if you want my attention just be normal, why accuse me of things ?

i am not toxic but i am equipped with a lethal RM Carab, if you piss me off i will strike you sending you to a place where you will be fat and depressed. now, do you really want to end up drinking your own breast milk for comfort ?
Multi nicking oompa loompa what random threats you dish you out. Hakuna matata try a new nick and see how long that one lasts :ugeek:
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Re: How To Handle Toxic People!

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qoraxeey wrote:
2ndtoNone wrote:
The Sociopath:The Sociopath completely disregards the rights and feelings of others, and is incapable of experiencing remorse, shame or guilt.

that used to be me , like 3 years agp

lakin alhamdulilah , I'm a better person today :)
Masha Allah, walaal i'm happy about the improvements you've made and hope you keep it going till you acheive the ultimate goal ( complete submission to Allah ).

Paddington Bear wrote:I immensely dislike people that make LISTS. :mrgreen:
the above is an example of what The Generally Malcontent (a type of a toxic person!) may say

The Generally Malcontent:The Generally Malcontent finds dissatisfaction with everything and makes a point of never being happy...
How to Avoid Becoming A Toxic Person

Avoid engaging in the behaviors toxic people exhibit. If you find yourself unconsciously engaging in such behaviors and you are unable to stop doing so on your own, invest in some relevant self-help books and/or seek the assistance of a friend. If all else fails, seek professional help from a psychologist or social worker (THE GREATEST SOCIAL WORKER OF ALL IS THE HOLY QUR'AN ).
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I use jokes to manipulate my friends.....which I realize is wrong....I will try to detoxify myself...good post...
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i laugh at them and walk while they expecting respond from me.

that's what i do here in somalinet too.
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Alhamdulilaah I'm nothing like those people :up:


Laakiin I know far too many people like that :down:
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Re: How To Handle Toxic People!

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2ndtoNone wrote:

Paddington Bear wrote:I immensely dislike people that make LISTS. :mrgreen:
the above is an example of what The Generally Malcontent (a type of a toxic person!) may say

The Generally Malcontent:The Generally Malcontent finds dissatisfaction with everything and makes a point of never being happy...
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No. No. Really, I dislike people that make LISTS. They show a clear lack of imagination. Not that I need to tell you this, after all, you probably copied this LIST from somewhere else, which is worse of course. [Mr Green]
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Re: How To Handle Toxic People!

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Good topic man. :up:
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