SNet daters and married lot, question

[Shirib]

Shirib,

When you stop shukaansi and dating let me know. I will find you the finest looking Sacad woman between 18-21 for you.

Abti I'm just waiting to get my degree, and a steady job

[BlackVelvet]

She opens the door for me. And carries me to the bed.
She doesnt mind to do aslong i give her a shelter and food.

Damn she carries you to the bed

[BlackVelvet]

I support gender equality. "To each his own door"...that's the slogan.

So you'd cook your own afur and clear your own plate. 50/50 all the way?

[BlackVelvet]

im none of these people

lakin this is an intresseting topic. BV

bal aan aragno wuxu dadweynaha so qoro

When you do get married what would you like?

[BlackVelvet]

Certain women, 'the emancipated type' actually take offence to any form of chivalry. Having said that, its quite corny and not very urbane to open doors for women in this day and age. Treat them equally! That is what they want somaha?

"?" indeed. All women are different, there is no 'they'

[BlackVelvet]

Blackvelvet,

Dating is haram

Besdies the fact that this not about me dating, isn't your statement just a tad bit hypocritical

[BlackVelvet]

Open the door-aa?
Isn't she capable of opening her own door?

So you would be insulted if your hubby (or potential hubby) was to do that?

[Basra-]

bb aka voltage aka oxy


u r weird.

[BlackVelvet]

I don't date so much, but I would find it weird if after parking the car and I get out and I'm half way to wherever were going and I turn around and I think I lost her, just to find out she didn't know that pulling the handle is the way to open the door.

I hold the door for everyone when it is appropriate.

I'm more fashioned and I have a different type understanding of chivalry than the western one.

@ 'I don't date so much' more like, not at all?

What about when she's entering the car and at a restaurant with the chair?

[AbdiWahab252]

BV,

Wanawake ni wajanja


Shirib,

If I had settled down when I graduated university and got a job, my kid would have been a teenager But instead I dated endlessly and now I am too old to run after a kid.

[surrender]

oo gabadha albaabka loo furayo magacmo la'dahay? i understand if shes disabled, the door was too heavy or something, laakinse is bullshit to expect a man to hold the door you, or to pull out the chair. there are certain things in life married or not, romantic or not, that men must do for women and this isnt or shouldnt be one of them. Ilaahay kuma kalifin and we shouldnt too.

[marcassmith]

Certain women, 'the emancipated type' actually take offence to any form of chivalry. Having said that, its quite corny and not very urbane to open doors for women in this day and age. Treat them equally! That is what they want somaha?

"?" indeed. All women are different, there is no 'they'

Very impressed with the attention to detail. There is some semblance of actual intelligence lurking in these boards after all.

Non-Somali women.

But I am all for Somali woman.

[BlackVelvet]

BV,

I open doors and all that stuff

Nice, did you decide to just be like that one day, what/who influenced you?

It's a nice gestuRe, but certainly not expected.

Would you be happy if it was a regular occurence or would it annoy you?

[BlackVelvet]

Certain women, 'the emancipated type' actually take offence to any form of chivalry. Having said that, its quite corny and not very urbane to open doors for women in this day and age. Treat them equally! That is what they want somaha?

"?" indeed. All women are different, there is no 'they'

Very impressed with the attention to detail. There is some semblance of actual intelligence lurking in these boards after all.

Non-Somali women.

But I am all for Somali woman.

Why thank you.

Your last comment is interesting. In which way do you think Somali women are different to the non-Somali women, in terms of 'emancipation'?

[SultanOrder]

I don't date so much, but I would find it weird if after parking the car and I get out and I'm half way to wherever were going and I turn around and I think I lost her, just to find out she didn't know that pulling the handle is the way to open the door.

I hold the door for everyone when it is appropriate.

I'm more fashioned and I have a different type understanding of chivalry than the western one.

@ 'I don't date so much' more like, not at all?

What about when she's entering the car and at a restaurant with the chair?

Not anymore

But I'm pretty good with ladies so I don't need to do any of that. But the thing is I'm already 'normal' or 'pleasant' to be around with, not those weird dudes who don't know how to have a pleasant convo without making the girl feel uncomfortable.

With me, I would only do that to set the mood for a memorable evening out............. with my wife or soon to be.

other than I think my motives would be put into question istaqfurallah