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Re: It is natural for men to marry two wives +

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grandpakhalif wrote:If ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly with the orphans, Marry women of your choice, Two or three or four; but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one, or (a captive) that your right hands possess, that will be more suitable, to prevent you from doing injustice

Allah SWT does not start with one but Allah SWT starts with TWO, THREE, FOUR

In another ayat Allah says

Ye are never able to be fair and just as between women, even if it is your ardent desire: But turn not away (from a woman) altogether, so as to leave her (as it were) hanging (in the air). If ye come to a friendly understanding, and practise self- restraint, Allah is Oft-forgiving, Most Merciful.
I got a relative with 3 wives and he's doing alright but personally find it weird. ;)
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la ilah ila allah maxamed rasul allah
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Granpa how many wives does your dad have?
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BlackVelvet wrote:Granpa how many wives does your dad have?
One
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grandpakhalif wrote:
BlackVelvet wrote:Granpa how many wives does your dad have?
One
I am curious, why do you feel like you have to constantly advocate polygamy marka seeing as you were raised in a monogamous household?
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BlackVelvet wrote:
grandpakhalif wrote:
BlackVelvet wrote:Granpa how many wives does your dad have?
One
I am curious, why do you feel like you have to constantly advocate polygamy marka seeing as you were raised in a monogamous household?
BlackV, I am not a greedy man but wish to be a mercy to this world. I see many young single mothers struggling and living pay cheque to pay cheque, they need a helping hand and If I have the financial means to do so I will marry her. If my first wife is not willing to accept this there are many women who will not hesitate.
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So you will divorce your first wife and make her a garoob so that you can go and marry another garoob, or 2. Assuming you will have enough money to raise 2/3 families have you considered using that money to build a system that finds the solution to the whole problem instead of helping just 2 single mothers. Perhaps funding counselling for single mothers so that they can get back with the father of their children or introduce widows to widowers? There are many ways of solving a problem. But on the bright side at last you don't seem to want to use Islam as an excuse to go around marrrying a string of virgins.
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Maybe you are right BV, thanks for the compliment you are now my favourite forumer :clap:
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BlackVelvet wrote:Perhaps funding counselling for single mothers

:lol:
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grandpakhalif wrote: BlackV, I am not a greedy man but wish to be a mercy to this world.
Lord have mercy!

its raining "grandpakhalif" hallelujah

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zulaika wrote:
grandpakhalif wrote: BlackV, I am not a greedy man but wish to be a mercy to this world.
Lord have mercy!

its raining "grandpakhalif" hallelujah

:mrgreen:
:lol:

He wants to spread himself around :mrgreen:
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Shirib wrote:I don't know why men think its fun or cool to marry more than one wife. Its a big time masuuliyad, and men walk into it without thinking of that
Men walk into lots of things without thinking, Shirib. :mrgreen:
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