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Re: DIVORCE
Posted: Fri Oct 08, 2010 11:38 am
by DisplacedDiraac
Now that you gave us the full story.. I take that back.
But did he abuse her and their baby? if NOT.. why on earth did she call the cops on him for?
I think its pretty sad getting a third party (in this case the police) involved in their business.. waa ceeb
ps. the 'waan kufuurey' word is nothing to mess around with.. its serious! even in a situation like this were she basically pushed him to it.. he should have stayed calm..
Re: DIVORCE
Posted: Fri Oct 08, 2010 11:49 am
by HELWAA
hanad_mn wrote:Helwaa,
There is a an ayah of the Qur'an that was revealed by Allah just for this " hooyadeey baad iga tahay word".
In short, That is just his words but the woman is not divorced. a divorce goes something like " waad iga furantahay, Waan kufuray, waan kala tagnay"
so, Ninkaas naagta maqabo laakiin hada hafuro hadii ay police ugu wacday. Policeka haguursado.
Naag waxkasto waa loogu dulqaataah Laakiin maalintii ay police wacdo, waa in ay qaaligii warqada ufuurinka u qorilahaana wacdaah.
I agree.

...naag police ku qaraacdey wax lala jooga maaha.
west
When he refused to look after the baby, She took the baby and throwed at him..ilmihi dhulka ayuu ku dhacay markasu madaxy dhúlka ku dhuftey.It left scar on his face.My relative got angry and pushed her against the wall and picked up the baby.When she saw how angry he was she called the police and acused for child abuse and that he abused her too.There is is no witnesses so it's her words against him.

Re: DIVORCE
Posted: Fri Oct 08, 2010 11:55 am
by Hyperactive
if this is what happened, then let him make sure ino naagta sa o walan ilmahesa ka qaato.
otherwise, she may hurt the baby to revenge from him.
Re: DIVORCE
Posted: Fri Oct 08, 2010 12:00 pm
by HELWAA
Hyper
The baby is only one year old...It's hard to take a baby from his mother till she is proven unfit.Naagtan ilmaha naxariis uma hayso...sheekadi marba hadey poliska gashay iyo child services waa khalaas.

Re: DIVORCE
Posted: Fri Oct 08, 2010 12:06 pm
by Dhaga Bacayl
HELWAA wrote:Dhaga Bacayl wrote:I was laughing at the reason. She called the cops because he was not gonna babysit. His responds were funny too….”hooyaday baad iga tahay”. I think he was so emotionally abused by this woman and the SYTEM that supports her that he didn’t know what to say.
BV. I heard yaa walaal. I guess Somalis have multiple ways of doing divorce.
Waan ku furay baa ka fulin. People do it thorough text msging these days too...
text messge ?
Yes, ninkan wey ka adkaatey...can you imagin he used to cook, clean, take care of the baby as long he was home..feed him change the diapers...waxaan oo nikaasi oo qaban jirin ma jirtu.He used to stay up all night and take care of him and guess what he had work the day after.And she have the nerve to call the police on him

In lawada shaqaystaa ma xuma but it seems that she was taking advantage of him. Guess what though? He allowed it to happen. There is time and place for everything. If I have to get up early in the morning to support your ass you better be waking up in the middle of the night to feed or change that baby. Hawsha ino qaybi xaliimooy hadi kale faareaxani gurigii hooyadii buuu iska noqoni doonaa….that is my attitude.
Ninka naagu way lagdatay markaasay ka kici wayday. NACAS caga wayn weeyaan
Re: DIVORCE
Posted: Fri Oct 08, 2010 12:07 pm
by SultanOrder
wow you guys are idiots, obviously she wanted him to divorce her.

Re: DIVORCE
Posted: Fri Oct 08, 2010 12:10 pm
by Hyperactive
Perfect_Order wrote:wow you guys are idiots, obviously she wanted him to divorce her.

lol o may se aayar ah e fur ko tirahdo, maha police keney.lol
Re: DIVORCE
Posted: Fri Oct 08, 2010 12:11 pm
by SultanOrder
hyper you innocent naive kid, ALL WOMEN ARE CRAZY!!!!
AM I RIGHT PEOPLE
Re: DIVORCE
Posted: Fri Oct 08, 2010 12:14 pm
by Hyperactive
lol i dont know man. Allah sahla.
Re: DIVORCE
Posted: Fri Oct 08, 2010 12:19 pm
by BlackVelvet
HELWAA wrote:hanad_mn wrote:Helwaa,
There is a an ayah of the Qur'an that was revealed by Allah just for this " hooyadeey baad iga tahay word".
In short, That is just his words but the woman is not divorced. a divorce goes something like " waad iga furantahay, Waan kufuray, waan kala tagnay"
so, Ninkaas naagta maqabo laakiin hada hafuro hadii ay police ugu wacday. Policeka haguursado.
Naag waxkasto waa loogu dulqaataah Laakiin maalintii ay police wacdo, waa in ay qaaligii warqada ufuurinka u qorilahaana wacdaah.
I agree.

...naag police ku qaraacdey wax lala jooga maaha.
west
When he refused to look after the baby,
She took the baby and throwed at him..ilmihi dhulka ayuu ku dhacay markasu madaxy dhúlka ku dhuftey.It left scar on his face.My relative got angry and pushed her against the wall and picked up the baby.When she saw how angry he was she called the police and acused for child abuse and that he abused her too.There is is no witnesses so it's her words against him.


It's not a teddy bear. I think she needed a break from child care, holiday in ey aado aa loo qaatey

Re: DIVORCE
Posted: Fri Oct 08, 2010 12:23 pm
by HELWAA
Dhaga Bacayl wrote:HELWAA wrote:Dhaga Bacayl wrote:I was laughing at the reason. She called the cops because he was not gonna babysit. His responds were funny too….”hooyaday baad iga tahay”. I think he was so emotionally abused by this woman and the SYTEM that supports her that he didn’t know what to say.
BV. I heard yaa walaal. I guess Somalis have multiple ways of doing divorce.
Waan ku furay baa ka fulin. People do it thorough text msging these days too...
text messge ?
Yes, ninkan wey ka adkaatey...can you imagin he used to cook, clean, take care of the baby as long he was home..feed him change the diapers...waxaan oo nikaasi oo qaban jirin ma jirtu.He used to stay up all night and take care of him and guess what he had work the day after.And she have the nerve to call the police on him

In lawada shaqaystaa ma xuma but it seems that she was taking advantage of him. Guess what though? He allowed it to happen. There is time and place for everything.
If I have to get up early in the morning to support your ass you better be waking up in the middle of the night to feed or change that baby. Hawsha ino qaybi xaliimooy hadi kale faareaxani gurigii hooyadii buuu iska noqoni doonaa….that is my attitude.
Ninka naagu way lagdatay markaasay ka kici wayday. NACAS caga wayn weeyaan
Waa runta, hadiiba naagtu guriga joogta iney iyada ilmaha oo kacdo weyaan.
Naagtan cashar bey oo dhigtey, i doubt he wil be so nice to woman again.Qof kasta waa waxa ishiisa la arko.Wey ku dul socotey socotey..nabsigiisuna wuu ku dhici doona aakhirka.Ilmaha yar uun baan ka baqaya iney gaaladu gacanta ku qabato.Sagagardan marku sida waraaqdeeda oo siiyo balan baan ugu qaadney inaan luuq ku rifnu nacalada
Horta maxay maahmaahdi aheed..nacastu ka ay ku istaagtu kama kacdo ma aheed

Re: DIVORCE
Posted: Fri Oct 08, 2010 12:28 pm
by HELWAA
Perfect_Order wrote:wow you guys are idiots, obviously she wanted him to divorce her.

hyperactive wrote:
lol o may se aayar ah e fur ko tirahdo, maha police keney.lol

exactly...maxaa is jiidjiidasho keenay.Hadaanan qofka rabin..walaal waraaqdeeda farta iga saar ba ku filan.
bv
Not ever woman can be a mother.But sadly most xalimos have kids because it expected of them.No man ask the wife..ilmu ma rabta

Re: DIVORCE
Posted: Fri Oct 08, 2010 12:37 pm
by Dhaga Bacayl
[quote="HELWAA
Yes, ninkan wey ka adkaatey...can you imagin he used to cook, clean, take care of the baby as long he was home..feed him change the diapers...waxaan oo nikaasi oo qaban jirin ma jirtu.He used to stay up all night and take care of him and guess what he had work the day after.And she have the nerve to call the police on him

[/quote]
In lawada shaqaystaa ma xuma but it seems that she was taking advantage of him. Guess what though? He allowed it to happen. There is time and place for everything.
If I have to get up early in the morning to support your ass you better be waking up in the middle of the night to feed or change that baby. Hawsha ino qaybi xaliimooy hadi kale faareaxani gurigii hooyadii buuu iska noqoni doonaa….that is my attitude.
Ninka naagu way lagdatay markaasay ka kici wayday. NACAS caga wayn weeyaan[/quote]
Waa runta, hadiiba naagtu guriga joogta iney iyada ilmaha oo kacdo weyaan.
Naagtan cashar bey oo dhigtey, i doubt he wil be so nice to woman again.Qof kasta waa waxa ishiisa la arko.Wey ku dul socotey socotey..nabsigiisuna wuu ku dhici doona aakhirka.Ilmaha yar uun baan ka baqaya iney gaaladu gacanta ku qabato.Sagagardan marku sida waraaqdeeda oo siiyo balan baan ugu
qaadney inaan luuq ku rifnu nacalada
Horta maxay maahmaahdi aheed..nacastu ka ay ku istaagtu kama kacdo ma aheed

[/quote]

Re: DIVORCE
Posted: Fri Oct 08, 2010 12:40 pm
by Hyperactive
helwaa wa gangester walaah.lol
helwaa kolba hadu furo diba ma jiro inshallah, maha ka rabta od o rifi? lol
Re: DIVORCE
Posted: Fri Oct 08, 2010 1:01 pm
by HELWAA
Hyper
So iyada mey oran abuse ba la igi sameeyey..we just want to show her what real abuse is..somali style.It was not my idea but his sisters who showerd her with gold ayaa raba
