Nikah vs. Marriage Ceremony

[Lord Diplock]

Hadeyba gaal ku dhaheen waan is furney, they're divorced and every child that is born after that date is basically a bastard.Subxanallah..somali lacag bey ku waashen.




Lord d

You're wlc in our section as long you dont attack us. [/quote]

lol...I have never attacked anyone, in fact I always defend our women folks.

[Leila25]

Gaal been loo sheegay been ma'aha attitude maskaxda dadka ka gashey. All their kids are born outside a legally recognised marriage waa foolxumo

How does this affect the children? The children consider their parents to be married when they are together, whether you are divorced or married is irrelevant for benefit purposes, what matters is that you are separated. Marriage is relevant to the government in terms of inheritance, tax etc for the spouses.

[BlackVelvet]

Is she for real? She is a young student from UK and does not know what constitutes an official marriage in her country? The government should not interfere in people's affairs if they choose to be in unregistered marriages/polygamous. Syed Warsi doesnt think so.

You're right it's something she should have known so obvioulsy there are women out there who need to be given more information about these matters. Same applies to Muslim women who marry a second time after getting an Islamic divorce and get charged with bigamy because they didn't go through the proper legal channels during their divorce.

If someone willingly goes into a relationship with a polygamous male then that's up to them however one of these women will be the 'registered' wife and she would get infinitely more rights than the others and that doesn't seem fair or logical but to each her own I guess.

[BlackVelvet]

Gaal been loo sheegay been ma'aha attitude maskaxda dadka ka gashey. All their kids are born outside a legally recognised marriage waa foolxumo

How does this affect the children? The children consider their parents to be married when they are together, whether you are divorced or married is irrelevant for benefit purposes, what matters is that you are separated. Marriage is relevant to the government in terms of inheritance, tax etc for the spouses.

How does pretending to be divorced or seperated from the father of your children so that you can get more of the tax payers money affect your children? I guess it doesn't, as long as there is enough to pay the duksi teacher all is well. But all is twisted too and that was my point.

[Leila25]

Lying is simply lying and it does not matter who you lie to. What i meant is Somalis are not avoiding to register their marriages for any fraud purposes, you can be married and claim to be separated. Registering marriage does not give them extra benefits, just like many couples who cohabit.

[qoraxeey]

the nikkah (islamic marriage) have to be registred also .. otherwise is not marriage

[BlackVelvet]

Lying is simply lying and it does not matter who you lie to. What i meant is Somalis are not avoiding to register their marriages for any fraud purposes, you can be married and claim to be separated. Registering marriage does not give them extra benefits, just like many couples who cohabit.

If you insist.

[BlackVelvet]

the nikkah (islamic marriage) have to be registred also .. otherwise is not marriage

Make sure you do a civil marriage as well as the nikah