SomaliNet Forums

Why do Somali chicks marry a kat addict in the first place? Because the girls are told, you have to marry only Somali man..and most of them chew kat..Specially in places like England. Not only that, the girls are larger in number then men which does not help that much choice..

Kat is number 1 cause of family break-ups..When the guy uses most of the money with kat, trouble starts, when he sleeps most of the day because of Qaaddiro and stuff, then there is a problem...When he couldn't even perform his manly duty, then there is a problem too..
You can't count the problems of kat... Kat

This is why i like this thingy......to socialize with your fellow brothers......about life....ok....serously what do you want as to do...drink alchohol....

[youtube]A81UKiu2I74&feature[/youtube]

abdisamad3 wrote:

HELWAA wrote:

LivingToSucceed wrote:waa ruunta, but i would love to chew khat with my husband for ONLY one night.

why would you do that?

abdisamad3 wrote:lol helwaa I was about to say khat when I sow the title...

Så det är samma problem i Danmark också?

Jag fattar inte varför folk tycker om den här shiten

jo helwa det gør det også her i DK they mix khat iyo khamri together some of them are soo skinny that they look like a TB patient walahi.

khamri... ...det är ju värre..akhas

She loves me, she loves me not...

Enlightened~Sista wrote:I don't think chewing is the main cause of divorce.The main reason is they fall out of love those who are 40+ and for the older generation of Somali women and the ones back home I've noticed have this idea that Woman only has worth haday wax dhali karto.If she's past the child bearing age then naf ma leh. Maxaa lugu falayyaa. Even if they enjoy sex somewhat they tend to think it's ceeb { whatever their age!), thats only for men.So when menopause hits, they become depressed they think way gaboobeyn, not desirable anymore..there is no life.And how does the husband respond? Mid kale o half his age or even younger ayuu Somalia ku guursadaa!

....waxan yaa kugu sheekeyey....if ur teori is true why do i see old xalimos get married all the times.sex ceeb kuye..

kambuli wrote:Why do Somali chicks marry a kat addict in the first place? Because the girls are told, you have to marry only Somali man..and most of them chew kat..Specially in places like England. Not only that, the girls are larger in number then men which does not help that much choice..

Kat is number 1 cause of family break-ups..When the guy uses most of the money with kat, trouble starts, when he sleeps most of the day because of Qaaddiro and stuff, then there is a problem...When he couldn't even perform his manly duty, then there is a problem too..
You can't count the problems of kat... Kat

Indeed.

And if the marriage is arranged it's hard to know about his addictions.Soomalida badankoodna jaadka caadi bey oo arkaan.

Paddington Bear wrote:

She loves me, she loves me not...

so you chew miyaa...ilayen mushkiladaadi isaga kugu wacna.

HELWAA wrote:

Paddington Bear wrote:

She loves me, she loves me not...

so you chew miyaa...ilayen mushkiladaadi isaga kugu wacna.

I only chew on Eid, family weddings and Funerals, HELWAA. I couldn't this Eid because it was a Tuesday.

P.S.
Mushkilaad ma jirto. Hadaan ciyaal sooq ahaan laha..err..een...dee naga daa.

Funerals? . you celebrate someones death...is that ur way remembring yoma al aakhira miya?

Helwa

Have you seen qaad in sweden?

My entire life I have only seen qaad like once or twice, i doubts its the main reason for broken families, but deffo part of it.

HELWAA wrote:Funerals? . you celebrate someones death...is that ur way remembring yoma al aakhira miya?

What's better than a long chewing session where I can talk about their good deeds and endlessly make duca for them?

Now lets get serious and let me give you (and all the young ones here) a piece of advice. I usually never come across broken homes, fueding families and hopeless kids. I think (and I am most probably correct) that the circles I move in are all decent families with respect and values. I only read about bad stories online. So, if such families do truly exist and you (all of you) happen to come across them all the time, my advice to you is to change the circles you move in.

Fananka yedhi "Dadka ha iska weyneyn" ma maqashay? He was wrong. Is weynay ilaa aad cirka martid.

Executive wrote:Helwa

Have you seen qaad in sweden?

My entire life I have only seen qaad like once or twice, i doubts its the main reason for broken families, but deffo part of it.

Du såg ingen jaad för att do bodde i en liten hålla och all dina grannar var svenskar...problemet har blivit mer nu på senare år för att antalet somalier har fördubblats.

أم الشر



Not only does it destroy lives, it makes everybody lazy because stupid somalis eat it all night.

Paddington Bear wrote:

HELWAA wrote:Funerals? . you celebrate someones death...is that ur way remembring yoma al aakhira miya?

What's better than a long chewing session where I can talk about their good deeds and endlessly make duca for them?

Now lets get serious and let me give you (and all the young ones here) a piece of advice. I usually never come across broken homes, fueding families and hopeless kids. I think (and I am most probably correct) that the circles I move in are all decent families with respect and values. I only read about bad stories online. So, if such families do truly exist and you (all of you) happen to come across them all the time, my advice to you is to change the circles you move in.

Fananka yedhi "Dadka ha iska weyneyn" ma maqashay? He was wrong. Is weynay ilaa aad cirka martid.

Well it's not about being in same circles as these pple...somalis talk and all they talk about is about other pples problems.you know hebel ba halkan ka boodey..heblaaya hebel soo tuurtey.

Waa isla taladii. Is weynay, xanta jooji.