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BV, that is the problem though, sex education iyo asking these type of questions is a taboo in our culture, but it shouldn't be, the parents should sit down with the kids and ask them if they have any questions regarding sex and clarify any misconceptions they have, that would make a difference, it's funny how the parents freak out because their teenager son impregnated some girl, and never did anything to stop it.

I hate it when people ask questions that makes Islam look backwards because of their ignorance.

Stuff to do with jini, with dealing with non muslims, with magic, asking ridiculous questions like can you have a baby with a jiini.
I heard once someone ask a sheikh what the ruiling was if you go to hajj on the back of a jinni, the shaykh replied ask me again when it happens.

I remember once offering my two cents on intrauterine devices (IUD's) as a very reliable mode of birth control when all of a sudden Helwaa was lecturing me about not corrupting the forum girls and encouraging promiscuity. Soomaalida are very selective about what they prioritize and practice, either through intentional or unintentional ignorance. And we often times mix our cultural norms and the religion, this probably explains why most Somalis jump down anyone's throat that dares to suggest a birth control.

Nabeela wrote:BV, that is the problem though, sex education iyo asking these type of questions is a taboo in our culture, but it shouldn't be, the parents should sit down with the kids and ask them if they have any questions regarding sex and clarify any misconceptions they have, that would make a difference, it's funny how the parents freak out because their teenager son impregnated some girl, and never did anything to stop it.

Yep, it deffo is taboo...not once did my mum talk to me about sex, or anything tbh .

Nabeela yeah that should be the parent's role and even if they were never told surely they could ask them or others or read or google or even go to the sheikh in the mosque, calling in live about certain things is just so madax adeeg

My mom gave me the talk, that was the most embarrassing conversation of my life but she did her job.

Imagine Somalis discussing save sex at the dinner table, PRICELESS.

I use to be to embarrassed when the sex scenes would come on the tele, I use to quickly change it

Now I don't even watch it alone.

My dad once talked to us about masterbating and the punishments for it

HalfDzed wrote:I remember once offering my two cents on intrauterine devices (IUD's) as a very reliable mode of birth control when all of a sudden Helwaa was lecturing me about not corrupting the forum girls and encouraging promiscuity. Soomaalida are very selective about what they prioritize and practice, either through intentional or unintentional ignorance. And we often times mix our cultural norms and the religion, this probably explains why most Somalis jump down anyone's throat that dares to suggest a birth control.

Lool IUDs are reliable but its loooooong...u have to get it inserted in u (ouch) and then go back to a health proffesional to take it out .

Perfect_Order wrote:I use to be to embarrassed when the sex scenes would come on the tele, I use to quickly change it

Now I don't even watch it alone.

My dad once talked to us about masterbating and the punishments for it

SAY WALAHI?? HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
THAT IS BLOODY JOKES!!! SOMALI PARENTS TALKING ABOUT MASTERBATION...UR DAD WA KHATAR :/

Nabeela wrote:Imagine Somalis discussing save sex at the dinner table, PRICELESS.

Perfect_Order wrote:I use to be to embarrassed when the sex scenes would come on the tele, I use to quickly change it

Now I don't even watch it alone.

My dad once talked to us about masterbating and the punishments for it

Are you serious dude, I have to change the channel for kissing, I never had the talk I learned sex and stuff in Health class.

PO,

In my house hold, we pretend sex doesn't exist, let alone watch love scenes on T.V with my dad, are you kidding me, I'd be karbashed with feelo.

Its 100 % halaal with birth controll pills iyo condoms. I wish that more somali couple use it in the future instead of having 10 kids they cannot take care of!

grandpakhalif wrote:

Perfect_Order wrote:I use to be to embarrassed when the sex scenes would come on the tele, I use to quickly change it

Now I don't even watch it alone.

My dad once talked to us about masterbating and the punishments for it

Are you serious dude, I have to change the channel for kissing, I never had the talk I learned sex and stuff in Health class.

P.S.H.E

Ka darag wrote:

grandpakhalif wrote:

Perfect_Order wrote:I use to be to embarrassed when the sex scenes would come on the tele, I use to quickly change it

Now I don't even watch it alone.

My dad once talked to us about masterbating and the punishments for it

Are you serious dude, I have to change the channel for kissing, I never had the talk I learned sex and stuff in Health class.

P.S.H.E

I remember when my gr 6 teacher took a pen and started moving it up and down on paper to show us the procedure