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Ladyyonelove wrote:Sometimes for someone its not about golddigging., who wants a man who doesn't have any money? Surely not moi. He has to be making money and is financially stable cause as a woman who does her thing and makes her own money she wouldn't want a man who will be golddigging her.

But he makes the money for his own living and well being, not for a woman. Nothing worse than a woman who asks for money or gives hints of wanting to be bailed out of something. It just kills the appetite for even seeing her face again. On the other hand, if she is worth, I would pay for anything on her behalf. As long as she is not greedy, selfish, and into me for my money, she is cool. I hate women who want guys for their money.

BlackVelvet wrote:Hence why you is a wasteman

I'm not a waste man I just don't wanna waste all the money I made on a girl. If she wants something she can buy it herself

GeoDesic wrote:

Ladyyonelove wrote:Sometimes for someone its not about golddigging., who wants a man who doesn't have any money? Surely not moi. He has to be making money and is financially stable cause as a woman who does her thing and makes her own money she wouldn't want a man who will be golddigging her.

But he makes the money for his own living and well being, not for a woman. Nothing worse than a woman who asks for money or gives hints of wanting to be bailed out of something. It just kills the appetite for even seeing her face again. On the other hand, if she is worth, I would pay for anything on her behalf. As long as she is not greedy, selfish, and into me for my money, she is cool. I hate women who want guys for their money.

And I wasn't speaking about a woman golddigging him I was speaking about him having his own money because if I am making money I wouldn't go for a man who doesn't make as much or more then I do because here where I live especially they are all about golddigging. Hooyo taught me well no need to get money from a man when I can make my own, and woman who go for a mans money well I guess that's all they have ever known

Yes a women who makes money is great. Then she can buy her own stuff, working wife

Ladyyonelove wrote:

GeoDesic wrote:

Ladyyonelove wrote:Sometimes for someone its not about golddigging., who wants a man who doesn't have any money? Surely not moi. He has to be making money and is financially stable cause as a woman who does her thing and makes her own money she wouldn't want a man who will be golddigging her.

But he makes the money for his own living and well being, not for a woman. Nothing worse than a woman who asks for money or gives hints of wanting to be bailed out of something. It just kills the appetite for even seeing her face again. On the other hand, if she is worth, I would pay for anything on her behalf. As long as she is not greedy, selfish, and into me for my money, she is cool. I hate women who want guys for their money.

And I wasn't speaking about a woman golddigging him I was speaking about him having his own money because if I am making money I wouldn't go for a man who doesn't make as much or more then I do because here where I live especially they are all about golddigging. Hooyo taught me well no need to get money from a man when I can make my own, and woman who go for a mans money well I guess that's all they have ever known

You are right in some regard. No one wants a bum. What do you mean as much or more than you make? high income or low income is not a yardstick for one's worth as a person really. Just because a guy makes as much money as you make, or more doesn't make him the ideal husband for you. He has to have more than paper-money, something money can't buy. You are worht more than the paper money you make, so is everyone else who is self-respecting human being. Set those materialistic goggles aside little one.

Mj I agree with u and sometimes it wouldn't be wrong to spoil her nooh wink wink

Ladyyonelove wrote:Mj I agree with u and sometimes it wouldn't be wrong to spoil her nooh wink wink

And she could spoil her husband sometimes too wink wink

I was never that good at deciphering the logic behind gold-digging. Yes, its an anectode to self-preservearance and possibly an innate trait found in the female species, one might argue its a survivalist instict. But, I can't comprehend what would prompt a grown woman who had potentials of self-advancement wanting to sit on her ass, while waiting for another man's hard earned pennies. A man who poured sweat and blood in to his earnings, in the process losing more than some hair follicles. Spent countless nights at the library/office when he could've just as easily been asleep in his warm bed. There's simply no excuse for it in this era and my pride would probably never permit me to even entertain such lunacy. Treating a lady is all fine & dandy, but I never had any qualms with saying no to lazy women.

You are right in some regard. No one wants a bum. What do you mean as much or more than you make? high income or low income is not a yardstick for one's worth as a person really. Just because a guy makes as much money as you make, or more doesn't make him the ideal husband for you. He has to have more than paper-money, something money can't buy. You are worht more than the paper money you make, so is everyone else who is self-respecting human being. Set those materialistic goggles aside little one.[/quote]

Ofcourse I agree with you on that there's nothing wrong with a man who makes low income but as for me there are a lot of things that I look for in a guy not just money wise because we are all living in this dunya you can't take money with you in the after life money part can be stretched thou its also important because the number cause for divorce's now is divorce.

Nomand wrote:i am ok with a gold digger as long as she is a 10/10.

You Should Get A Female Escort

GoldDiggers They Dont Like Me

Du$ty wrote:

Nomand wrote:i am ok with a gold digger as long as she is a 10/10.

You Should Get A Female Escort

GoldDiggers They Dont Like Me

Female excort lol. What ever happened to that guy, who found a somali excort in that dump London?

HalfDzed wrote:I was never that good at deciphering the logic behind gold-digging. Yes, its an anectode to self-preservearance and possibly an innate trait found in the female species, one might argue its a survivalist instict. But, I can't comprehend what would prompt a grown woman who had potentials of self-advancement wanting to sit on her ass, while waiting for another man's hard earned pennies. A man who poured sweat and blood in to his earnings, in the process losing more than some hair follicles. Spent countless nights at the library/office when he could've just as easily been asleep in his warm bed. There's simply no excuse for it in this era and my pride would probably never permit me to even entertain such lunacy. Treating a lady is all fine & dandy, but I never had any qualms with saying no to lazy women.

Well put. I think helping a woman you like is manly when she needs financial help for necessities, or buy her a gift. The code of conduct is,

A- she she doesn't ask for the help but you volunteer to help.
B- You already established and know she loves you not for your money but for who you are without money.


If these two points are present in a relationship, All is perfect, she can break my bank then

GeoDesic wrote:Well put. I think helping a woman you like is manly when she needs financial help for necessities, or buy her a gift. The code of conduct is,

A- she she doesn't ask for the help but you volunteer to help.
B- You already established and know she loves you not for your money but for who you are without money.


If these two points are present in a relationship, All is perfect, she can break my bank then

Ok but horta, walal. How do I get away with not paying or paying very little?

VanHersi wrote:

Du$ty wrote:

Nomand wrote:i am ok with a gold digger as long as she is a 10/10.

You Should Get A Female Escort

GoldDiggers They Dont Like Me

Female excort lol. What ever happened to that guy, who found a somali excort in that dump London?

Oi Eurotrash, I Think He Got Banned

"A Woman looks at you with one eye, but she looks at your pocket with two"

Du$ty wrote:Oi Eurotrash, I Think He Got Banned
"A Woman looks at you with one eye, but she looks at your pocket with two"

Why you lying warya, I know how you fish and chip guys do. You do things fast, you got her number warya. All you say in england is link this, link that. Did you link her sxb.

Wait, english women have 3 eyes? Not only are they ugly, drunk, untanned, yellow teeth, fat, but they are mutated with 3 eyes. Alhamdulilah I'm in Amsterdam where the women are sexy, sexy and sexy.