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Re: snet ..i need some serious advice... (depressing thread)

Posted: Tue Jan 18, 2011 4:20 am
by omar07
Complicated19 wrote:
omar07 wrote:you need a professional help , I suggest you ask someone close to you for help.

throwing things on the net hoping that things will be better for you it won't change anything.

Too much computer usage is depressing

go learn quran make friends and spend time outside instead of on the computer... :up:
Ur forgetting im in somaliland...the only think i have is the f-king computer.. its either that or sleep...

make friends ? :s

i think your not grateful of what you have in life...

Re: snet ..i need some serious advice... (depressing thread)

Posted: Tue Jan 18, 2011 9:05 am
by sexy-kitten
To be honest kiddo, we all have our own specific problems. Over time, we've all learned how to deal with them. Give yourself time and you'll overcome whatever it is you're going through. I'm sure you've got relatives at a different country in Europe, like I said before go to a different place where you know people and work there for a few months or even a year. It'll be a life experience and you'll get to cool your head. :mrgreen:

Do you have relatives in Dubai or the states? If so, it'll be much prettier and a lot easier to get around.

BTW, you don't want to harm yourself. You don't want to go to hell now do you? :geek:

Re: snet ..i need some serious advice... (depressing thread)

Posted: Tue Jan 18, 2011 9:07 am
by Complicated19
sexy-kitten wrote:To be honest kiddo, we all have our own specific problems. Over time, we've all learned how to deal with them. Give yourself time and you'll overcome whatever it is you're going through. I'm sure you've got relatives at a different country in Europe, like I said go to a different place where you know people and work there for a few months or even a year. It'll be a life experience and you'll get to cool your head. :mrgreen:

Do you have relatives in Dubai or the states? If so, it'll be much prettier and a lot easier to get around.
But the UK is my home, and tbh I know myself better than anyone else, if im not gnna be happy in the UK, i aint gonna be happy anywhere else.

Yeah ive got relatives in the states and carabta..but i aint looking to move.

Re: snet ..i need some serious advice... (depressing thread)

Posted: Tue Jan 18, 2011 9:11 am
by saransoor
What do you do fun..... :?

Re: snet ..i need some serious advice... (depressing thread)

Posted: Tue Jan 18, 2011 9:13 am
by qoraxeey
im un-happpy too :cry: :cry: :cry:

laakiin i know the solution of my problem ---- lacag badaan :(

Re: snet ..i need some serious advice... (depressing thread)

Posted: Tue Jan 18, 2011 9:14 am
by sexy-kitten
Complicated19 wrote:
sexy-kitten wrote:To be honest kiddo, we all have our own specific problems. Over time, we've all learned how to deal with them. Give yourself time and you'll overcome whatever it is you're going through. I'm sure you've got relatives at a different country in Europe, like I said go to a different place where you know people and work there for a few months or even a year. It'll be a life experience and you'll get to cool your head. :mrgreen:

Do you have relatives in Dubai or the states? If so, it'll be much prettier and a lot easier to get around.
But the UK is my home, and tbh I know myself better than anyone else, if im not gnna be happy in the UK, i aint gonna be happy anywhere else.

Yeah ive got relatives in the states and carabta..but i aint looking to move.
I didn't say move, just work or go to school elsewhere. You'll make new friends, your family is going to introduce you to new people. You can still go and visit your family. When 1 or 2 yrs are up, you can come back! I'm not talking Hargeisa, I'm sure it's a cute city or whatnot but it's still not Dubai or the states, or Europe! Ya feelz me?

Re: snet ..i need some serious advice... (depressing thread)

Posted: Tue Jan 18, 2011 9:20 am
by abdisamad3
Complicated19 wrote:
sexy-kitten wrote:To be honest kiddo, we all have our own specific problems. Over time, we've all learned how to deal with them. Give yourself time and you'll overcome whatever it is you're going through. I'm sure you've got relatives at a different country in Europe, like I said go to a different place where you know people and work there for a few months or even a year. It'll be a life experience and you'll get to cool your head. :mrgreen:

Do you have relatives in Dubai or the states? If so, it'll be much prettier and a lot easier to get around.
But the UK is my home, and tbh I know myself better than anyone else, if im not gnna be happy in the UK, i aint gonna be happy anywhere else.

Yeah ive got relatives in the states and carabta..but i aint looking to move.
if you cant be happy anywhere then how can we help you..you need to be happy allah gave you everything you need..and you said no body understand you in hargeeysa,well I think thats bullshit its you who dont want them to understand you..just becouse they are in Somalia and you grew up in britain you think they wont understand you..what about if you first try to understand them go out among the people and try to enjoy your self try to understand them and socialise with your people and you wont feel all alone and depressed alright.. :up:

Re: snet ..i need some serious advice... (depressing thread)

Posted: Tue Jan 18, 2011 9:21 am
by abdisamad3
qoraxeey wrote:im un-happpy too :cry: :cry: :cry:

laakiin i know the solution of my problem ---- lacag badaan :(
:lol: :lol: who doesnt need more lacag.

Re: snet ..i need some serious advice... (depressing thread)

Posted: Tue Jan 18, 2011 9:26 am
by Nabeela
Nothing I could say will take away your depression, it needs to be treated with medication, I will pray for you inshallah.

Re: snet ..i need some serious advice... (depressing thread)

Posted: Tue Jan 18, 2011 9:33 am
by Cirwaaq
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Alhamdullilah Allah was more then generous for all we have. It was a miracle to have made it this far already, of the billions of eggs and sperm that could have given birth a billion other personalities we were given the chance.

We are already born winners... the rest of our life is appreciating this opportunity and forever growing our imaan, adaab, akhlaak, etc to show graditude to our creator.

Billion^Billion other individual were declined so each of us could be born ;)

What if you break your kneck tomorrow and for the rest of your life you can't move anything below your neck?

If you are ment to live to the age of 60 even you can't change that destiny.

Re: snet ..i need some serious advice... (depressing thread)

Posted: Tue Jan 18, 2011 9:37 am
by Complicated19
Cirwaaq wrote:Image

Alhamdullilah Allah was more then generous for all we have. It was a miracle to have made it this far already, of the billions of eggs and sperm that could have given birth a billion other personalities we were given the chance.

We are already born winners... the rest of our life is appreciating this opportunity and forever growing our imaan, adaab, akhlaak, etc to show graditude to our creator.

Billion^Billion other individual were declined so each of us could be born ;)

What if you break your kneck tomorrow and for the rest of your life you can't move anything below your neck?

If you are ment to live to the age of 60 even you can't change that destiny.
Trust me, i see that shit everyday in Hargeisa..it doesn't make me feel like im lucky ...cos that guy is physically ill and im mentally ill...i just wish i didnt think or feel emotions walahi.

Re: snet ..i need some serious advice... (depressing thread)

Posted: Tue Jan 18, 2011 9:45 am
by Cirwaaq
Go buy some khat... it will give you temperary relieve as it boosts the brain endorphine levels i read some where. Or easily go to a local chemist and buy some prozac only a few dollars a pack.

Otherwise if you like the state and how it feels because you think you deserve some level of punishement...

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Close the curtains please

Re: snet ..i need some serious advice... (depressing thread)

Posted: Tue Jan 18, 2011 9:47 am
by Complicated19
Cirwaaq wrote:Go buy some khat... it will give you temperary relieve as it boosts the brain endorphine levels i read some where. Or easily go to a local chemist and buy some prozac only a few dollars a pack.

Otherwise if you like the state and how it feels because you think you deserve some level of punishement...

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Close the curtains please
Again, this is a temporary solution and prozac...fuck antidepressents....ill probably end up taking the whole pack
okay...ill close the curtains. .

Re: snet ..i need some serious advice... (depressing thread)

Posted: Tue Jan 18, 2011 10:02 am
by MujahidAishah
Sis self harmin ain't gonna do fuk plus I'm upset at u for sayin I'm slowly loosing faith in Allah never ever say those things. Allah is putting you through a test . I was depressed like you I isolated my self from my family and friends that isn't going to help walal it makes you more depressed.it's like you don't want to speak to anyone but trust me these ppl will understand they have been through more than you know so give them a chance.

Hun u wanna cure your depression buy a sheep and slaughter then distribute it to the poor And pray especially when it's raining as Allah accepts dua wen it rains the 7 heavens open this has gotten me out of serious situations allxamduillah.
remeber Allah said have patience and I will reward you, after every hardship there is ease, :up: so keep your head up

Re: snet ..i need some serious advice... (depressing thread)

Posted: Tue Jan 18, 2011 10:10 am
by Complicated19
AishahWaqooyi wrote:Sis self harmin ain't gonna do fuk plus I'm upset at u for sayin I'm slowly loosing faith in Allah never ever say those things. Allah is putting you through a test . I was depressed like you I isolated my self from my family and friends that isn't going to help walal it makes you more depressed.it's like you don't want to speak to anyone but trust me these ppl will understand they have been through more than you know so give them a chance.

Hun u wanna cure your depression buy a sheep and slaughter then distribute it to the poor And pray especially when it's raining as Allah accepts dua wen it rains the 7 heavens open this has gotten me out of serious situations allxamduillah.
remeber Allah said have patience and I will reward you, after every hardship there is ease, :up: so keep your head up
Im losing faith in him cos these last few months have been the darkest period of my life..i cant deal with this anymore..i want it to go away. Theres only so much I can take.