So how do i protect myself

gemini_snake · Post by **gemini_snake** » Mon Feb 14, 2011 6:59 pm

Leila25 wrote:Time heals everything, even a broken hymen.

WTF

Complicated19 · Post by **Complicated19** » Mon Feb 14, 2011 6:59 pm

Du$ty wrote:Coeus You f-king Queer

WTF

ibrahimcw · Post by **ibrahimcw** » Mon Feb 14, 2011 7:01 pm

if you was a hoe in the past why do you think your different now ?

by the way, you should not be worried about marriage, instead think about the hell fire that you could be in when you die.

Complicated19 · Post by **Complicated19** » Mon Feb 14, 2011 7:02 pm

^^people change.... Don't be so ignorant

DisplacedDiraac · Post by **DisplacedDiraac** » Mon Feb 14, 2011 7:04 pm

ibrahimcw wrote: by the way, you should not be worried about marriage, instead think about the hell fire that you could be in when you die.

Allah is all forgiving.. If she repents and she means it.. Than waa caadi..

She doesn't need approval from humans!

KD -

The truth shall set us all free..

Complicated19 · Post by **Complicated19** » Mon Feb 14, 2011 7:05 pm

Wax la qariyo qurun baa ku jira

ibrahimcw · Post by **ibrahimcw** » Mon Feb 14, 2011 7:06 pm

West, exactly she should not worry about humans but the almighty when she goes down under

yaa allah, what is worse is she is here talking about how she can hide her dirty secrets and trick a maskiin honest guy in to marriage, cajiib badanaa.

gemini_snake · Post by **gemini_snake** » Mon Feb 14, 2011 7:10 pm

so somaliqueen, was the story about your cousin and his wife really about you and your husband? is he starting to dig into your past?

DisplacedDiraac · Post by **DisplacedDiraac** » Mon Feb 14, 2011 7:13 pm

Complicated19 wrote:Wax la qariyo qurun baa ku jira

Nice one.. I'm ganna use that line from now on..

I remember a few years ago.. Some guy posted a topic on here and he basically said he was getting married to this girl and she told him about her past *how she slept with over 10 madow guys, & how she was beyond wild but she has been on the right path for a few years now etc etc* Anyway the guy said he respects her for being honest with him and he still wanted to marry her..

This shows that the truth will set us all free..

Ibrahim - I'm not chatting about this sister.. I'm talking in general, If someone asks for forgiveness from our Lord and they are sincere & vow never to do it again.. Marka we as humans cant judge! The Almighty has forgiven them so why cant humans..

SomaliQueen123 · Post by **SomaliQueen123** » Mon Feb 14, 2011 7:16 pm

gemini_snake wrote:oh shit! were you talking about yourself this whole time???

here are your options:
- marry a revert
- marry a muslim from another background
- marry a somali with an equally questionable past
- be honest with the man you want to marry.. if he accepts you and your past, then great. if not, go back to options 1,2, and/or 3.

when you are dishonest or untruthful, your potential hubby will send the FBI squad on you and trust me we will find out EVERYTHING there is to know about you.

No i wasn't talking about myself. But since my cousin is going through the same problem with his wife and kind of scared. What if it also happens to me as well? You said it yourself that no matter what you will find out and im being honest here sis, i havent been the best or well behaved somali girl in the world, i want to know what my options are and what i can do to protect myself.

- marry a revert , I will never marry anyone who isn't somali
- marry a muslim from another background- no i refuse to marry anyone other than a somali
- marry a somali with an equally questionable past- only after we get each other check for stds or other diseases
- be honest with the man you want to marry.. if he accepts you and your past, then great. if not, go back to options 1,2, and/or 3.- i will never do this because only idiots tell on themselves.

Complicated19 · Post by **Complicated19** » Mon Feb 14, 2011 7:20 pm

WestLdnShawty wrote:
Complicated19 wrote:Wax la qariyo qurun baa ku jira
Nice one.. I'm ganna use that line from now on..

I remember a few years ago.. Some guy posted a topic on here and he basically said he was getting married to this girl and she told him about her past *how she slept with over 10 madow guys, & how she was beyond wild but she has been on the right path for a few years now etc etc* Anyway the guy said he respects her for being honest with him and he still wanted to marry her..

This shows that the truth will set us all free..
Ibrahim - I'm not chatting about this sister.. I'm talking in general, If someone asks for forgiveness from our Lord and they are sincere & vow never to do it again.. Marka we as humans cant judge! The Almighty has forgiven them so why cant humans..

The truth

Yeah I first heard that line from my dad

SomaliQueen123 · Post by **SomaliQueen123** » Mon Feb 14, 2011 7:20 pm

gemini_snake wrote:so somaliqueen, was the story about your cousin and his wife really about you and your husband? is he starting to dig into your past?

I already told u that it's not about me. I'm just scared about it happening it to me is all. Right now im 25, right at marriagable age and im not looking to get married but when i do i'm just scared about the consequence.

Complicated19 · Post by **Complicated19** » Mon Feb 14, 2011 7:25 pm

SomaliQueen, like Westie said , you shouldn't be seeking acceptance from anyone but the Most High. Lying to him means you are seeking acceptance ... You don't want him to know the real you . Even though your sins should be kept to yourself , if your potential husband asks about your past , he has a right to know . We are all humans ... We all make mistakes ..., we all stray from the straight path , but theres hope for us all ... Don't let anyone else tell u otherwise !!!

SomaliQueen123 · Post by **SomaliQueen123** » Mon Feb 14, 2011 7:27 pm

Complicated19 wrote:SomaliQueen, like Westie said , you shouldn't be seeking acceptance from anyone but the Most High. Lying to him means you are seeking acceptance ... You don't want him to know the real you . Even though your sins should be kept to yourself , if your potential husband asks about your past , he has a right to know . We are all humans ... We all make mistakes ..., we all stray from the straight path , but theres hope for us all ... Don't let anyone else tell u otherwise !!!

I don't understand, should i or shouldn't i tell him?

Complicated19 · Post by **Complicated19** » Mon Feb 14, 2011 7:30 pm

SomaliQueen123 wrote:
Complicated19 wrote:SomaliQueen, like Westie said , you shouldn't be seeking acceptance from anyone but the Most High. Lying to him means you are seeking acceptance ... You don't want him to know the real you . Even though your sins should be kept to yourself , if your potential husband asks about your past , he has a right to know . We are all humans ... We all make mistakes ..., we all stray from the straight path , but theres hope for us all ... Don't let anyone else tell u otherwise !!!
I don't understand, should i or shouldn't i tell him?

Tell him cos he has a right to know about ur past .

What don't u understand ?

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