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fisabililah wrote:Assalamu aleykum,

'Half of all somali children born in the country are born outside of marriage'

What i find more disturbing is that, so many somali's have basicaly annulled their marriage by telling the system they aint married. They are living a life of zina, which is much worst then stealing money from the system. Imagine a scenario where the welfare guys nock on your door, and when they ask you, your reply is 'This is not my wife we are separted, but i still have kids with her every year'. Its not a suprise to find so many disfunctional somali families when so many of the children are born out of wedlock.

May Allah(swt) save us from such weakness, ameen

+ Haraam money.

Somali men are so work shy it's so embarrassing wallahi.I suspect that must be because of two factors

Coming from a geelgire nomadic background, moving from place to place not paying any rent, electricity, water bills.

Remittances from family abroad created a dependency syndrome.I think this is a very good move by the Norwegian government however embarrassing it is.

^^Its aint somali mens fault. Its cos everyone thinks its cool to steal money frm the government for messing up somalia thats whys they do it. Not cos they work shy mali men are always working even shitt jobs

Bullets, ofcourse it is Somali men's fault.Married men are supposed to work and provide for their families and the only ones who are running away from that responsibility are Somali men.


Marriage to them means SEX and Children.Nowadays it's more about SEX than anything else.

Enlightened~Sista

Its the fault of both parents. They are doing this for economic benefit. These men work plus get the benefits of a single parent and having the rent paid for. If they didn't work there would be no benefit of claiming to be separate. The people that got arrested are working men, otherwise the benefit fraud would not work out.

Enlightened~Sista wrote:Bullets, ofcourse it is Somali men's fault.Married men are supposed to work and provide for their families and the only ones who are running away from that responsibility are Somali men.


Marriage to them means SEX and Children.Nowadays it's more about SEX than anything else.

So all the fault is somali men? What about da women why cant they work there the ones complaining about the house and wanting more money so who wants da free house and welfare money the women! All that money gets spend by women anyway so its there fault. Yes SEX and children is the most important thing in marriage what else is there money for women?

They should have less children then. { smaller house, smaller rent , smaller shopping etc etc }

dadku eeb so oma dintan!!!! Ya Allah sida hano eebeynin.

Enlightened~Sista wrote:Somali family is a patriarchal family..the women stay at home and focus on the children and the men are supposed to be the breadwinners.Ofcourse this is soon changing with women becoming more educated and thus venturing into the world of employment.Somali husbands on the other hand are proud of their idle lazy geeljire irresponsible ways.

Look at this walahi somali women are changing acting like they r superior to men when u should be looking up to us. There will always be more educated and more breadwinners then women just because some of you r getting loud in the community doesn't mean ur better than us. Just stay at home and we do wat we do best k

Bullets what do you think about my edited post?

Less children but somali women of da old generation used to handle lots of kids and didn't used 2 chat back. Why can't we go back 2 them women?

looool are you for real?

I heard the story of Somali woman who went to the welfare place and when the gaal at the office tried to shake her hand she said it was against her religion. At the same time she was stating that she needed food and money to pay rents for her kids who she claims that they have different fathers whom she has no idea who he is, because she had one night stand.

These bitches are known as the “Thee Holy whores”

By the way for those who are blaming the men, why would a woman be pregnant every year for a dude who can not support her and her children? Of course the problem is both parents, but I blame more on the woman. Fuck it…… keep your legs crossed and stop getting knocked up by some loser.

Wallahi I saw this woman who got married to this dude was not able to support his kids from previous marriage. She will have the audacity to blame on men for all her bad choices.








Well Done Norway. All welfare paying countries need to do this.

Enlightened~Sista wrote:looool are you for real?

Yh look at da chicks today feminists westernised after money. Talk back, think they everything. Not down with 4 wifes how do we get rid of these gals

^Dude write in proper english kumaan fahminey!