question for girls.

[1nemansquad]

i agree with patriot women are compassionate and will forgive their men no matter what.

really? women don't play when it comes to cheating, trust me i know.

[eyes-only]

He didn't just cheat on her but denied it until the facts were proven. He seems like a nasty piece of work, you shouldn't waste another 5years on someone like that. I personally would not be able to forgive him, I'd get a divorce immediately. Laakin 'd still allow him to have contact with his child.

@ Hannah....I somehow doubt you'd be as rational if it happened to you.

[HELWAA]

So let see if i get this stright..not only he cheated and betrayed me but he even risked my health by not using a simple condom? inaalilaah 5yrs bad tidhi ee hadaan 10sano i qabiy lahaa waan isaga tagi lahaa xoolaha.

[Enlightened~Sista]

Okay..I need more information, did he cheat on his wife or was this baby from a relationship prior to marriage?

[SultanOrder]

Okay..I need more information, did he cheat on his wife or was this baby from a relationship prior to marriage?

your slow, five min into your marriage you hubby has a baby, you tell me if it is beforeor after your marriage.



The guy is a sleeze ball, obviously he wanted another girl but wasn't man enough to marry her, and wanted easy access without the hassle, he was just unlucky to have a baby, so he got caught. Sad if anyone would stay with him.

[DisplacedDiraac]

If my husband did this, I would forgive him eventually.....I've put too much into this to let it go for a mistake he's made.
It wouldn't be all chocolate raindrops and and rainbows, but I'd get over it.
Happy men don't cheat.....i think somali women are a bit pretentious. Especially if we had kids by then. I would never deprive my children
of their father. I grew up in a house with my mother and father , so I know the importance of having both parents.


Hopefully this never happens to me,

Mistake ahh...
Which bit was the mistake?
Him getting in contact with his ex? or him meeting up with his ex behind your back? or him looking outside the marriage for intercourse? or him impregnanting her? or you finding out about it?

[Warsan_Star_Muslimah]

^^ The bit where you married him was the mistake.

DIVORCE, what other option do I have? I can't trust this guy definitely. It is simply a matter of health.

So let see if i get this stright..not only he cheated and betrayed me but he even risked my health by not using a simple condom? inaalilaah 5yrs bad tidhi ee hadaan 10sano i qabiy lahaa waan isaga tagi lahaa xoolaha.

[zulaika]

If my husband did this, I would forgive him eventually.....I've put too much into this to let it go for a mistake he's made.
It wouldn't be all chocolate raindrops and and rainbows, but I'd get over it.
Happy men don't cheat.....i think somali women are a bit pretentious. Especially if we had kids by then. I would never deprive my children
of their father. I grew up in a house with my mother and father , so I know the importance of having both parents.


Hopefully this never happens to me,

yeah i hope it never happens to you huuno, but i must say you're indeed a special woman to take back a man who committed the ultimate no no

i don't think i would be that forgiving....i love my husband dearly but he KNOWS!!!! full well that i am an extremely jealous female by nature and f#cKing another woman(xalaal, xaraam whatever) is simply NO NO, and to have a child with that woman?...well there will be consequences and repercussions

[Advo]

So what he had a child by another women, sh!t happens you know.

she probably has a kid that's not his too. It happens.

[Somaliman%]

I see lots of different view points here. Most of the females say they would file for divorce, however perhaps if you were in the situation, it will be whole different ball game. I think Hannah might be only one telling the truth. also like patriot said woman are weak, and they will forgive him no matter what. and about male relatives beating him up, why would they he cheated on his wife, he didnt beat her or anything as such, its a matter for his wife to deal with, family can only advice.

As for this case this mans wife acted crazy and kicked him out and all that sh!t but is now going to give him second chance, i think this is properly not the right choice, and people need to be punished for their mistake.

advo the wife, is a nice girl, would never cheat. not to mention extremely beautiful young girl.

[BlackVelvet]

It's disrespectful, it's disloyal, it's dishonest. How can you build a family with such a person?

I wouldn't have him beaten up and I wouldn't stop him from seeing his kid but I wouldn't have him as a husband because he proved incapable.

[AbdiWahab252]

Hmmm.... condoms are quite cheap. Why have sex without condoms ?

Moral of the story, guys always wear condoms because bitches be vindictive


Pregnancy => the no. 1 trap used by heifers to nab a Farax.

[ms.naliaa]

This is just a scenario. imagine you were married to a guy for 5 years, a good marriage so far and you have 1 child. However you then you find out he got a girl pregnant and she has a child for him, which he continually denied, but finally admitted when the child was born and it was the spitting image of him. this woman is also his ex girlfriend that he was dating before his actual wife, and she has been pursuing him for years. So what would you do if you were in this situation, would you forgive him since you been together for 5 years and for the sake of your child, or would you get divorce?

No brainier...divorce him and take him to the cleaners..forget half...I want it all!