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Re: Broke dudes and marriage

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And you guys say men are backward :down:

I support all marriages regardless who pays.
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Perfect_Order wrote:And you guys say men are backward :down:

I support all marriages regardless who pays.
Shirking responsibility doesn't make you a modernist dude.
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Coeus wrote:Image
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Marriage in the West is very expensive. Its above 10k euros.
Iam thinking of getting a wife from africa whose parents will only ask for 2.311.591 somali shilling. :up:
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There is no complusion in marital expenses.

No two couples are experiencing the same path through life.

Each to their own i say, there is no standard formula that would work for everyone and yield a happy marriage. If she knows he has no money why would she still have the expectation to hold an expensive extraganza?

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BlackVelvet wrote:Dgurl Somali women must suffer from some form of complex. Always making excuses for men, upholding customs that hurt women, giving sons preferrential treatment...
Not just somali women, but most women suffer from some form of complex. Most of them are attracted to low lives because they are hoping to "fix" them and make them into family men.I've seen so many xalimos marrying these good for nothing dudes and whine about them later on. I say mac sonkor. :D
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Who put you in upholding anything for the female race. These girl are adults, isn't freedom what everyone wants for woman. But freedom limited to what you want for them. Give them freedom to make their own "bad" choices.
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Perfect_Order wrote:Who put you in upholding anything for the female race. These girl are adults, isn't freedom what everyone wants for woman. But freedom limited to what you want for them. Give them freedom to make their own "bad" choices.



I agree, unless you are having that problem I don't see why you should waste your energy on it.
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Perfect_Order wrote:Who put you in upholding anything for the female race. These girl are adults, isn't freedom what everyone wants for woman. But freedom limited to what you want for them. Give them freedom to make their own "bad" choices.

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OliveOil wrote:I must say that I agree with you BV!!! One of my friends actually doesn't mind in helping him pay for everything...her excuse is that he attends uni and only has a part time job...pathetic soul indeed! :|
This sounds like a very good trend..May it long continue :P
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Wait wait, why does HE has to pay for everything? why cant she buy the furniture and pay the rent? I mean meeting half way makes more sense then calling the dude broke for failing to pay for everything.
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Its these damn cultured Xaliimos with they dreams of "Independence" and shit. With their nac nac stories and romantic novels!! This chicks need a reality check breh
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Advo wrote:Wait wait, why does HE has to pay for everything? why cant she buy the furniture and pay the rent? I mean meeting half way makes more sense then calling the dude broke for failing to pay for everything.

Some female logic- man pays for everything but I am independent
Never worked a day in my life but expect a man to pay for a 20k wedding and nice apartment, oh yeah doesnt mean I am being irrational, its just the mans responsibility :lol:
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*Nobleman* wrote:Some female logic- man pays for everything but I am independent
Never worked a day in my life but expect a man to pay for a 20k wedding and nice apartment, oh yeah doesnt mean I am being irrational, its just the mans responsibility :lol:
When you say some you been 95% homie. These chicks "Independent" Xaliimos have been brainwashed for too long they think life is like one of their nac nac romantic novels. They think a man is a plaything which they run, we need to educate these chicks saaxiib
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Brotha nobleman, I cant believe they have the nerve to call the guy broke for failing to pay so called $30,000 wedding :lol: , shouldnt it be the other way around, like u want the most balling ass wedding, so u come up with the money. indha adeeg. :lol:
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I advice the blokes, do not marry a woman richer than you...trust me. :up: marry a woman that has less money than u but has good qualification/aqoon. However its not like we can select our spouses, let just love take u where ever, its not like DIVORCE doesn't exist. For those that need advice on divorce, pm me.
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