Onther marriage hit the dust!

[PrinceDaadi]

in that case come we stay together is better.

[Richfarax]

Men marry because they are tired and women marry because they are curious.

Tired? Curious? Does not compute..

[HELWAA]

Men marry because they are tired and women marry because they are curious.

Now that sounds like a recipe for disaster.

I think the main problem with this is that most people know their options and clearly the world has so many to offer.In more ancient times,marriage was more sacred and was considered worth a heck a lot and people tried to resolve their issues before thinking of separation.

People just dont wanna work hard for it now,too many take the easier route to exit.

Yep, it's easier to just leave and move on to ur next victim.

But why do most men never keep in touch with their kids? it's like they wipe out the memory of their old family and just focus on the new woman

[MizHargeysa]

I think its because most somalis dont know how to communicate to each other , instead of talking about and discussing their problems they choose to ignore it hoping it will go away and then eventually when the problems continue they just decide to take the easy route out .. divorce.

[Beans]

Men marry because they are tired and women marry because they are curious.

Now that sounds like a recipe for disaster.

I think the main problem with this is that most people know their options and clearly the world has so many to offer.In more ancient times,marriage was more sacred and was considered worth a heck a lot and people tried to resolve their issues before thinking of separation.

People just dont wanna work hard for it now,too many take the easier route to exit.

Yep, it's easier to just leave and move on to ur next victim.

But why do most men never keep in touch with their kids? it's like they wipe out the memory of their old family and just focus on the new woman

I have always wondered the same for a while runtii. Raggu,dumarka wey ka beer adag yihiin i guess.Maybe there is not enough attachment to begin with.Chances are he never held that kid and only knows he has one.

Anyone can be a sperm donor but it a heck more to being a good father.

[Richfarax]

Yep, it's easier to just leave and move on to ur next victim.

But why do most men never keep in touch with their kids? it's like they wipe out the memory of their old family and just focus on the new woman

I have always wondered the same for a while runtii. Raggu,dumarka wey ka beer adag yihiin i guess.Maybe there is not enough attachment to begin with.Chances are he never held that kid and only knows he has one.

Anyone can be a sperm donor but it a heck more to being a good father.

Ladies and gentlemen, there he goes our resident superhero. Beans, the great defender but today why have you not defended men?
You seem to attack Somali men but defend people who don’t need defending.
Your priorities seem to be mixed up sir.

[Beans]

Yep, it's easier to just leave and move on to ur next victim.

But why do most men never keep in touch with their kids? it's like they wipe out the memory of their old family and just focus on the new woman

I have always wondered the same for a while runtii. Raggu,dumarka wey ka beer adag yihiin i guess.Maybe there is not enough attachment to begin with.Chances are he never held that kid and only knows he has one.

Anyone can be a sperm donor but it a heck more to being a good father.

Ladies and gentlemen, there he goes our resident superhero. Beans, the great defender but today why have you not defended men?
You seem to attack Somali men but defend people who don’t need defending.
Your priorities seem to be mixed up sir.

I am glad i have u to keep a score of everything i do on this site.Still having difficulty with my opinions?

[Twist]

Yep, it's easier to just leave and move on to ur next victim.

But why do most men never keep in touch with their kids? it's like they wipe out the memory of their old family and just focus on the new woman

I have always wondered the same for a while runtii. Raggu,dumarka wey ka beer adag yihiin i guess.Maybe there is not enough attachment to begin with.Chances are he never held that kid and only knows he has one.

Anyone can be a sperm donor but it a heck more to being a good father.

Ladies and gentlemen, there he goes our resident superhero. Beans, the great defender but today why have you not defended men?
You seem to attack Somali men but defend people who don’t need defending.
Your priorities seem to be mixed up sir.

[Twist]

Twist

Dhalinyarada badankooda ma yaqaanan diinta, last weekend i was listning to this show baarabaar or somthing like that on universaltv.Anyway the topic was about guurka and they invided a great imam and pple was asking him QS.Wuxu ka hadleyey dhalinyarada siday degdega isugu guursadan iyaga oo waxba ka ogayn waajibadkooda iyo xuquuqdoda.Wuxu kula talinayey inay marka hore dintooda bartaan intaaney guurba ka fakarin.The fundation of every houshold should be the deen.
Wuxu ka hadleyey oo kale sababaha dadka iska hor keena like diffrent backgrounds and not having anything incommon.
They funny thing is they asked women who called in why they go for ajnabis and they said nimanka ajnabiga way hadal macaan yehiin, maanta dhan ninka xabiibti xayaati bu ku guraya, nimanka soomalida wa xajar, hadal macaan ma yaqaanan.I was amazed over the stupidity of these women who called in.Nacadasha way na ceebyen.

That's really sad! Dhab ahaantii qof walba meeshuu calafkiisa ku jiro Ilaah baa og. Marka uu qof go'aansado in uu ruux kale la aqal galo oo ay nolol guur wadaagaan waxaa haboon in ay waaqaca ku base-gareeyaan sababaha ay u doorteen lamaanahooda nolosha ee ma aha in ay ku war-wareegtaan waxyaabo khuraafaad iyo maalaa-yacni ah.

LOL @ nimanka ajnabiga way hadal macaan yihiin. Yaa Ilaahi, goormey hadal macaaniduna qowmiyad gashay? Soomaalidaa waxay ku maah-maahdaa, "Hal diidaysaa geed ay ku xoqoto ma waydo." Dee haday ayadu jeclaatay nin ajnabi ah oo dabeecaddiisa ay ka heshay, taas macnaheedu ma aha in nin walboo ajnabi ah uu dabeecad wanaagsan yahay ama uu hadal macaan yahay.

But why would I be surprised with her, I've seen great number of Faaraxs lamenting about how unromantic and bad our girls are. The problem is, such people had some bad experiences in the past and just want project their issues on whole people. Doqonnimo 101.

[HELWAA]

I have always wondered the same for a while runtii. Raggu,dumarka wey ka beer adag yihiin i guess.Maybe there is not enough attachment to begin with.Chances are he never held that kid and only knows he has one.

Anyone can be a sperm donor but it a heck more to being a good father.

Yep it takes one hell of a man to take care of his children.


You're right the person who always took care of the children is the mother, most somali men have 0 attachment to their kids.Because if you dont connect with ur kids at young at age the bond is lost forever.

[Richfarax]

I have always wondered the same for a while runtii. Raggu,dumarka wey ka beer adag yihiin i guess.Maybe there is not enough attachment to begin with.Chances are he never held that kid and only knows he has one.

Anyone can be a sperm donor but it a heck more to being a good father.

Ladies and gentlemen, there he goes our resident superhero. Beans, the great defender but today why have you not defended men?
You seem to attack Somali men but defend people who don’t need defending.
Your priorities seem to be mixed up sir.

Are you trying to state that beans is actually male?

[Talo alle udaa]

I have always wondered the same for a while runtii. Raggu,dumarka wey ka beer adag yihiin i guess.Maybe there is not enough attachment to begin with.Chances are he never held that kid and only knows he has one.

Anyone can be a sperm donor but it a heck more to being a good father.

Yep it takes one hell of a man to take care of his children.


You're right the person who always took care of the children is the mother, most somali men have 0 attachment to their kids.Because if you dont connect with ur kids at young at age the bond is lost forever.

110% agree, Real fathers are close to their children-the somali men is simply absent most of the time.
I have experienced it myself in my own life, I have also observed happen were men have little or no attachment to their children. Even back home the father is suppose to show no affection for his children, that is why its uncommon to see a Somali father kissing his children, it seems almost un natural.

[HELWAA]

^^T

The root of all problems teenagrs face today is because of the lack of their fathers presence.Atleast back home kids had so many roll models like uncles, abtis, and grandfathers who filled the space.They always had someone to talk to and someone who corrected them whenever they fell of the track.I always liked that african proverb ' it takes a village to raise a child'.
Nimanka somalida badankooda waxay oo haystan inay shaqadooda tahay uun inay reerka oo so shaqeyan oo biilkooda ka fuudh yelan.

A daughter who never had her fathers love or attention will end up looking for a father figure and which husband want be a father to his own wife.As for the sons you know what they say, like a father like son, every son will follow the footsteps of his own father and continue his tradition by abonding his own kids.If his own father never cared about him why would he.

Parents are our teachers, you learn how to love,care and show affection at young age by receiving it.Naxariis markaad ku so kortid baad adna dadka oo naxariisaneysa.

Respect to all fathers who spend time with their kids and shower them with love and affection.

[Talo alle udaa]

^^T

The root of all problems teenagrs face today is because of the lack of their fathers presence.Atleast back home kids had so many roll models like uncles, abtis, and grandfathers who filled the space.They always had someone to talk to and someone who corrected them whenever they fell of the track.I always liked that african proverb ' it takes a village to raise a child'.

I do not know about having "someone to talk to" but it is true, when we were growing up in places like Garrissa, most kids went to dugsi, then school, then back to dugis before going to sleep. Little time to wander around to do some bad things, even though we sometimes did as kids. My point is, I agree about having more ppl around to spread the responsibility of parenting, from the home to the dugsi to the school, etc

Nimanka somalida badankooda waxay oo haystan inay shaqadooda tahay uun inay reerka oo so shaqeyan oo biilkooda ka fuudh yelan.

Hadey intaas tahey khayr bey ahaan laheyd, laakiin maanta waxey taagantahey, in lagu tartamo lacag uruuris iyo shaqo ayadoo laga yaabo ninku in uu kalaho caruurto jiifa, soona rawaxo ayagoo jiifa sidaana ay week dhan isku waayaan. Tusaale ahaan, Ragga soomaalida, siiba kuwa la dhaho reero bey dhaqdaan wa tagsiilayaahsa oo maalinkii sida dameerka u shaqeeya, habeenkiina sida bakhtiga u seexda ayagoo daba ordaya lacag, aduun, iyo mashruucyo kale.

A daughter who never had her fathers love or attention will end up looking for a father figure and which husband want be a father to his own wife.As for the sons you know what they say, like a father like son, every son will follow the footsteps of his own father and continue his tradition by abonding his own kids.If his own father never cared about him why would he.

Indeed, the point you raise is very important. When yoru kids do not trust you enough to tell you their secrets, or to share with you their concerns, you have failed as a parent. As they say, if you don't know who your childs friends are, you dont know your child.

Respect to all fathers who spend time with their kids and shower them with love and affection.

Indeed

[HELWAA]

Hadey intaas tahey khayr bey ahaan laheyd, laakiin maanta waxey taagantahey, in lagu tartamo lacag uruuris iyo shaqo ayadoo laga yaabo ninku in uu kalaho caruurto jiifa, soona rawaxo ayagoo jiifa sidaana ay week dhan isku waayaan. Tusaale ahaan, Ragga soomaalida, siiba kuwa la dhaho reero bey dhaqdaan wa tagsiilayaahsa oo maalinkii sida dameerka u shaqeeya, habeenkiina sida bakhtiga u seexda ayagoo daba ordaya lacag, aduun, iyo mashruucyo kale.

Taasi wa mushkilah wayn, nimco kasta nus qaan bey leedahy.wadamadan gaalada labada qof hadayna shaqayn qof uun bu coleyski ku dhacaya.Somali lacag siday oo baacsaneyan bey dhinac kasta seegen, meshan lacagi kuu dhigmi mayso ee iyaga uun ba ku dhamaan.Wax kasta wa imaanka, intey is leyhiin ka si badi uun ba xabaasha lagu ridi.
Maxaa ugu wacan isfuritaanka beenbeenta ah iyo dawlada lacagta laga khiyaameneyo wa lacag uun so kordhi.Caruur xaaran laga dhargiyey may hagaagiy bey kula tahay, i dont think so.

Ilaahy ha oo sahlo.