How do you deal with a suicidal girl?
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Re: How do you deal with a suicidal girl?
Why did you get involved with her in the first place if you're not serious? this is what happens when losers lead on naive girls and make them fall for them, and then when they got what they wanted just leave them like a piece of trash.
Ilaahy ha sahlo inanta.
My advice is tell her parents the pple who care most about her so they can pick up the pieaces of her broken heart.
Ilaahy ha sahlo inanta.
My advice is tell her parents the pple who care most about her so they can pick up the pieaces of her broken heart.
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Re: How do you deal with a suicidal girl?
^This, definitely. They need to know, if they don't already. But those who are close are sometimes unaware.
Re: How do you deal with a suicidal girl?
Did she tell you why she was feeling suicidal? She must really trust or feel close to you to tell you that.
Re: How do you deal with a suicidal girl?
No bro, not the same Alchemist from somalilife.Alphanumeric wrote:Firstly, as Alchemist (same Alchemist?) put it, you have a responsibility to this girl, and leaving her in the time she needs help the most, is unkind, to say the least. Now, how do you address her problems? I wish I knew exactly. Perhaps clearing her mind, that it isn't you she needs. Maybe there's something she's missing in her life, and you happened to fill that void for a short period. Maybe she's faced some abandonment in the past. Maybe she genuinely cared for you, and now doesn't know what to do with the emotions she puts out. I think such a drastic emotional change is unhealthy. This is why dating is wrong (assumingly speaking). What you can is try to make it clear to her how little you really mean. This will take some time. Being an actual friend is important right now, but don't let her get attached in the same way as before. Don't touch her. I think that'll only do more harm. Speaking calmly but sternly is what I suggest. Towards the end of the process, give her strength by compliments.
When you rely so much on one person as a source of emotional stability, and they decide you're no longer worth their time, shit really hits the fan. You have a duty to her, and I hope you fulfill it.
Re: How do you deal with a suicidal girl?
Just ignore her. She is definitely not the first dumb b!tch.
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Re: How do you deal with a suicidal girl?
samadoon-waaxid wrote:who is telling you if you dont get bk with her,life has no meaning to her and even admits to you the thought of suicide crossed her mind and she is serious about it.how do you leave her without making her go suicidal?your sincere input is appreciated as a human life might depend on this.
p.s:this is a pretty serious question,only serious answers are appreciated.
Tell her your gonna fuck the life out of her, I bet she will like that.



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Re: How do you deal with a suicidal girl?
If she wants to jump, open the window. 

Re: How do you deal with a suicidal girl?
Leila25 wrote:Tell her to stop watching Bollywood films and get a life. Is she a teenager?


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Re: How do you deal with a suicidal girl?
Why would any woman end her life for a man? Who can simply leave her for another woman, people are so spoiled wallahi, this makes me sick, there are women, children, men dying everyday of hunger and other diseases who still want to live but are dead, This girl needs a f-king reality check. She's clearly delusional.
Re: How do you deal with a suicidal girl?
suicidal girl? thats not too bad, look at the bright side, a suicidal girl is a lot easier to deal with than a homicidal girl.
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Re: How do you deal with a suicidal girl?
Xelwaay You always take the words right out of my mouth walle..HELWAA wrote:Why did you get involved with her in the first place if you're not serious? this is what happens when losers lead on naive girls and make them fall for them, and then when they got what they wanted just leave them like a piece of trash.
Ilaahy ha sahlo inanta.
My advice is tell her parents the pple who care most about her so they can pick up the pieaces of her broken heart.

Re: How do you deal with a suicidal girl?
Samatr wrote:samadoon-waaxid wrote:who is telling you if you dont get bk with her,life has no meaning to her and even admits to you the thought of suicide crossed her mind and she is serious about it.how do you leave her without making her go suicidal?your sincere input is appreciated as a human life might depend on this.
p.s:this is a pretty serious question,only serious answers are appreciated.
Tell her your gonna fuck the life out of her, I bet she will like that.![]()
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Re: How do you deal with a suicidal girl?
Helwaa and westlandshawty;where do you guys get the idea that the concerned brother is "loser" and tht "he got wha he wanted from her then treated her like a trash"? judgemental much?
to the rest,I'm not the concerned fella,but a really close friend of mind.I already told him somthing along the lines of what rabshoole,alpha,nabz an others said.stick through it,till she hates you.and mind you he only knew her for two weeks,then didnt talk for another two weeks and then she pulls this suicide card on him.some people lead an empty life walle
Samtr:wtf
taas oo kale ninka ku ciyaara,inkaar baa ku dheceesa walle 

to the rest,I'm not the concerned fella,but a really close friend of mind.I already told him somthing along the lines of what rabshoole,alpha,nabz an others said.stick through it,till she hates you.and mind you he only knew her for two weeks,then didnt talk for another two weeks and then she pulls this suicide card on him.some people lead an empty life walle

Samtr:wtf




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Re: How do you deal with a suicidal girl?
Some somali dudes are commitment phobes and as soon as the relationships gets serious..they leave the girls emotionally bleeding. Why do Farahis think that jaceel is disposable?..huh ( "Use this one and move on to the next one"). Stop playing pre calculated games lamos.
Well, tell ur friend to comfort the girl until she batchs her broken heart together. Damn this is really sad
Well, tell ur friend to comfort the girl until she batchs her broken heart together. Damn this is really sad

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Re: How do you deal with a suicidal girl?
i disagree with you,i know quite few commitment phobe females too.however, how can you attach that hard to a guy that you knew for only two weeks only ? maybe some people are genetically predisposed to being suicidal i would wagerSmile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE wrote:Some somali dudes are commitment phobes and as soon as the relationships gets serious..they leave the girls emotionally bleeding. Why do Farahis think that jaceel is disposable?..huh ( "Use this one and move on to the next one"). Stop playing pre calculated games lamos.
Well, tell ur friend to comfort the girl until she batchs her broken heart together. Damn this is really sad

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