divorcing my wife SERIOUS TOPIC

[Hyperactive]

war hadey sheekado tahay , i want to manage your money and help me with house shores. that's not a big deal. let her be responsible of home financial. unless you're well off, salary is nothing and let her take all the headacheand worries from you. women happened to better than us managing money. about cleaning the washroom, if you guys do not have maid, then you use that washroom as much she does, so make agreement, to take turns. one thing i would never do is using dirty washroom. gloves intaad hirato clean it before you use and after you done. that will solve problems.

divorce isnt solutionor shouldnt be an option in your case.

[CoolPoisons]

ninyaho aniga waxa lagu ii so koriyey

that i pay for everything

she does house chores and cooks

laakin if she wants me to pay for everything

and DO house chores and cooking

then why the fock am i paying for everything

[TheLoFather]

sxb before you got hitched did you not anticipate this and discussed with her who is going to play which role in this relationship? if yes, tell us who has broken the agreement and then we may advice accordingly.

[Xamud.]

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[Hyperactive]

waha lakuugo so kariyey iyo arinta maanta taagan are two different things. waha laka yaaba in iyada na si kale laku so koriyey.

marka as somalis say: saladu sidey kugu qabata loo tukada. get to the program and forget what you used to do or how you were rased.

meel an meeshi ko so kortay baad jookta. your problems are nothing o la isku furo.

[zingii]

ninyaho aniga waxa lagu ii so koriyey

that i pay for everything

she does house chores and cooks

laakin if she wants me to pay for everything

and DO house chores and cooking

then why the fock am i paying for everything

Soomaali waxay tiri (salaada maqrib iyo naag xunba waa la dadajiyaa).

1st xumaanteda iyo wanaageda is barbardhig.
2nd xumanta haday badato wanaaga u jeedi
3rd haday diidana (part ways).

[Xamud.]

waha lakuugo so kariyey iyo arinta maanta taagan are two different things. waha laka yaaba in iyada na si kale laku so koriyey.

marka as somalis say: saladu sidey kugu qabata loo tukada. get to the program and forget what you used to do or how you were rased.

meel an meeshi ko so kortay baad jookta. your problems are nothing o la isku furo.

Adeer hyper, adeerow I will tell you one thing, naag haday affarahod so gasho oo ay ku tiraahdo lacagta aniga mamuulayo, guuriga aniga mamulayo, haadi aadan yelin waxan ku daho, ma kula hadlayi.

Markas oo kale waa layska fuura, I think coolpoisen is to whipped to realize that his wife is the alpha male in the house.

[zingii]

waha lakuugo so kariyey iyo arinta maanta taagan are two different things. waha laka yaaba in iyada na si kale laku so koriyey.

marka as somalis say: saladu sidey kugu qabata loo tukada. get to the program and forget what you used to do or how you were rased.

meel an meeshi ko so kortay baad jookta. your problems are nothing o la isku furo.

Salaada maqrib iyo naag xunna waa la dadajiyaa.

keep that in mind.

[CoolPoisons]

Soomaali waxay tiri (salaada maqrib iyo naag xunba waa la dadajiyaa).

1st xumaanteda iyo wanaageda is barbardhig.
2nd xumanta haday badato wanaaga u jeedi
3rd haday diidana (part ways).

ninyaho madaame isku xaalad nahay, how did U solve it?

[ahmedbrant]

The main issue is that u as the guy should have the final say.
If she challenges ur final say, you will have many more problems in future.
She needs to accept that no means no and nothing else.

[Meru]

she saves the money for emergency stuff like moving house or something.

when did moving house become an emergency,are you a rent dodger ??

Foolish is the notion of divorce. Let me share a story. Time was before I got married when I dated a babe from whom terrifying odours radiated like heat from a stove.

Trying to dissuade a lass reared on smelly food is a futile endeavour like counting the grains of sand on a beach. Fuhggedaboutit. I speak from long and hard experience. I am a veteran of lethal fumes, a survivor of curry adventures. One must simply put a peg on his nose when taking off the panties of such women. There is no helping it. What milk is to babies, noxious breath was to her, the very life blood and soul of her culinary tastes. It was reekingly potent, it was satanic in strength, it stands quite alone. That's before we even reach the curry-laden flatulence that blew my hair right back.

But if the price one paid for dancing between a beauty's thighs was to inhale a lungful of halitosis one notch below mustard gas, let a guy order a gas mask.

ENCORE ENCORE YOU ARE JUST THE BOMB BIG UP

[Hyperactive]

lol xamud. brother divorce is worse, specially ninkan has a kid with her. wallah i would give her all my salary and even bank account card. anikaaba subah walba pocket money weydiisan laha naagteyda wah an kala qarsaneyno baba jirin. wah walba ayada o deeb and you see they're better managing.

hadad iska jeeb gaaban tahayna, she will tell you: war ika hoo wahan, i cannot manage it.

my father doesnt even buy anything for him even socks . my mom manages money and ayada omba la wala, keen this and keen that. she fed up and i hear her always say: sheikhow mas'ooliyadan mad ika qaadid.

[CoolPoisons]

nimanyaho

problemka waxay keenaya THE FOCKING WEST

gabdaha somalida got their priorities wrong

feminist eyee is moodeen

IT PISSES ME OFF

[zingii]

Soomaali waxay tiri (salaada maqrib iyo naag xunba waa la dadajiyaa).

1st xumaanteda iyo wanaageda is barbardhig.
2nd xumanta haday badato wanaaga u jeedi
3rd haday diidana (part ways).

ninyaho madaame isku xaalad nahay, how did U solve it?

If she dont work and you the one who works full time to pay the bills,
on top of that she expects you to clean the house and at times cook?
As a wife she should have more respect for you breh.

As for me, all i can say is (a plan is on the works).

[Beans]

With a kid that young,u r in position to make divorce as the last resort yet. Talk to her and find a solution. I dont understand why she wants the headache of being the money manager.

I really do think the wives are better household financial managers.