Would you marry someone

[Navy9]

Yes

[Kukri]

salool sound very cynical which is confusing in regards to her general attitude, which is one filled with iimaan.

what gives abaayo?

[salool]

Caruurta Ilaah baa haya but if I love (though I am losing faith in the term time after time) them why not? Children are important part of marriage but so is love.

What about if you have children with someone but you don't love them and had to stay with them for reasons beyond your control (like you married them for a wrong reason [may be for wealth, status or looks whatever], had children with them & you got stuck etc)? And let's say, the children you had from that relationship are caaq. Is that better?

Caaq wa maxay

As for ur Q wa iska qoraal.Qofka waxaad ka tagi uun marku calafkiino kala dhamaado, ta labaad how many somalis get married because of love?..i doubt there are many walle.Because simply most of them cant see the diff between love and lust

[salool]

salool sound very cynical which is confusing in regards to her general attitude, which is one filled with iimaan.

what gives abaayo?

Abaayo aa
Excuse me, what part of Allah is the best planner you dont agree with?

[Mondey]

Isn't the main reason to get married and put up with someons dhuuso for the rest of ur life to have children?
If you already have kids why not but if you dont i doubt that marriage will last unless you marry onther xalimo ofcourse.

im not sure if the purpose of marriage is having kids who said that? we marry bcoz it equals half of our religion and to satisfy our sexual desires in a halaal way.

Many pple do that of that main reason only and once they've it the marriage is over.The few who do it out of love the love wont last foever.It will fade just like any other feeling and once the attraction is gone the man will look around for his next victim thinking this time this feelin it wil last forever.Aduunkan wax isku dheeli tirin ma jirto wax kastana wa iska calaf iyo qoraal.It's not about ur choices or plans...ur whole life is already planned before you were even born.So why even bother, personally i dont, i just take the day as it come.

if ppl marry for settling down and finding some peace and love why would marriage end when they just started to have that? .. yes your life was already written and planned but since you don't know what it hides for you every step you take is a choice you make.

[arabmtu]

you love but cannot have children say for medical issues?

If she's ok with me marrying another one, yes.

[Nabeela]

Yes.

[salool]

I'm suprised that only the ladies, are willing to do such a huge sacrifice for a man who will probably break their heart.

[Nanees]

salool sound very cynical which is confusing in regards to her general attitude, which is one filled with iimaan.

what gives abaayo?

Abaayo aa
Excuse me, what part of Allah is the best planner you dont agree with?

Ditto. Children aren't a gaurantee

[ManD333q]

NO. A mothers love for her child is unconditional and last forever I don't think u can ever love a man like that.
anything can happen he can leave u if he wants...but your children are yours whatever happens

[Cumar-Labasuul]

salool, I know a woman (and older woman a bit older than my mother) who was married to her oday for 30+ yrs and they haven't got any children waa wax ilaahay uu qoray and wallahi they are as happy now as they were when they got married. Odayga doesn't chew or smoke and they go everywhere together (shopping holidays etc). marka waa ilaahay qadarkiisa.

runtii I don't know how I would react if I found out she couldn't have kids

[BlackVelvet]

What are you going to do when you fall out of love?

[Cumar-Labasuul]

What are you going to do when you fall out of love?

same thing those who have children do when they fall out of love -> divorce (only with children it's more complicated)

[Nabeela]

What are you going to do when you fall out of love?

Look at the bright side atleast there aren't any kids holding you together, you can walk out the door with no guilt or hesitation, but what if you have kids and fall out of love, you have no choice but to stay and be miserable for the rest of your life.

[Nanees]

What are you going to do when you fall out of love?

Look at the bright side atleast there aren't any kids holding you together, you can walk out the door with no guilt or hesitation, but what if you have kids and fall out of love, you have no choice but to stay and be miserable for the rest of your life.

you guys are such defeatists.

I would hate it even more if i fell out of love with somebody but had to stay for kids. Love isnt a mood, it's a commitment.