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Re: guys who stay single all their lives
Posted: Fri Dec 09, 2011 9:41 pm
by Rabshoole
Beans wrote:Rabshoole wrote:That's unheard off!!, everyone at some point needs luv, otherwise, something is seriously wrong with you mentally or your erectile dysfunctional, its one or the other.
It is alright if u cant understand how someone would be just content with their life like tht but dont label them just cause.
Aisha yeah. He really amazed me.
I do understand, at the end of the day, its a personal choice, mashallah to your adeer
he's one of a kind.
Re: guys who stay single all their lives
Posted: Fri Dec 09, 2011 9:54 pm
by metamorphosis
Nothing wrong wit dat.
Nocturnal emission.
Re: guys who stay single all their lives
Posted: Fri Dec 09, 2011 10:01 pm
by Alphanumeric
Some don't want it, some feel they can't do it, some have hormonal imbalances/issues.
To each his own.
Re: guys who stay single all their lives
Posted: Fri Dec 09, 2011 10:13 pm
by Nanees
I feel like those men are all punishing themseles for something, in some depressive twisted way it's self penance for something, as though they've decided they don't deserve It.
Re: guys who stay single all their lives
Posted: Fri Dec 09, 2011 10:25 pm
by yungnfresh
I feel like an asshole for laughing through that entire video, especially from 0:55-1:00
Re: guys who stay single all their lives
Posted: Fri Dec 09, 2011 10:35 pm
by Lillaahiya
fighter wrote:I know this one 40-50 year old man who loved a woman and were supposed to get married. But the war broke out and they had to flee. They lost contact for 15-20 yeats.
The man never wanted to marry any woman but her.
Long story short, we ends up finding the woman through the somali grapevine and she ends up being in sweden
He tells her "I missed u, I never wanted to marry any woman other than u. U r my everything"
She says "I loved u too but I'm married with 4 kids. My father had a man for me to marry because he wanted to see his daughter get married before he did since he was very ill and thought he was going to die"
The guy fainted and is a lonely dude and sips coffee at the tim hortons all alone very depressed
Very sad wallahi, and her dad got better and eventaully lives to this day (the only good thing to come out of this)
Ah, now that's qadr.
And yeah, I know a couple men, mostly relatives, that never gotten married. One has an OCD and two others have mental illnesses. The rest, I have no idea as to why they're still single. Looma qorin I suppose.
Re: guys who stay single all their lives
Posted: Fri Dec 09, 2011 10:43 pm
by Xamud.
This distant adeer of mine is in his 60s and he`s never been married as far as we know, he is religious now but he is very outgoing and I have been told that females have always liked him, even now, he will talk and joke with them like it aint no thing. He don`t like people asking him questions about why he`s never been married, or telling him that he should get married now.
Me personally, I don`t think it`s healthy to stay single your whole life, but then again waa calaf.
Re: guys who stay single all their lives
Posted: Sat Dec 10, 2011 12:08 am
by Advo
You guys have to understand some guys have no sexual desires being impotent and all etc.
I also heard of somali shiek who got castrated by habasha at a young age and never remarried.
Re: guys who stay single all their lives
Posted: Sat Dec 10, 2011 12:21 am
by BanadirBeauty
fighter wrote:I know this one 40-50 year old man who loved a woman and were supposed to get married. But the war broke out and they had to flee. They lost contact for 15-20 yeats.
The man never wanted to marry any woman but her.
Long story short, we ends up finding the woman through the somali grapevine and she ends up being in sweden
He tells her "I missed u, I never wanted to marry any woman other than u. U r my everything"
She says "I loved u too but I'm married with 4 kids. My father had a man for me to marry because he wanted to see his daughter get married before he did since he was very ill and thought he was going to die"
The guy fainted and is a lonely dude and sips coffee at the tim hortons all alone very depressed
Very sad wallahi, and her dad got better and eventaully lives to this day (the only good thing to come out of this)
indeed a very sad story. I think I would have the courage to do the same if I were in her shoes. but anyway, it's good to know that the father is still alive and kicking.