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mody21 wrote:

Beans wrote:

mody21 wrote:its funny if a man did the same to his wife he would be considered midgaan , xaasid, cold heart-ed or controlling. when a women does it its is independent and her money is her money. if I were in his shoes wallahi I would divorce her, and got at the world as a single man learn a trade makes some money even if it isnt much and never look back. no man should be subject to this BS.

Where in the world is a woman glorified for demeaning and disrespecting her spouse?

you know what I mean women arent held to the sam elevel as men, if a man did this there would be more of un uproar than if a women did.

Men do this and worse every day to their spouses.They do not represent all men.

Financial independency should be for every one.It is a massive shackle.

I just watched the segment Where does he need to get permission to buy chips? And I didn't think she was condescending/authoritative towards her husband.

Stingy is such an ugly trait both on males and females.

1) Kirk needs to look outside his former career. 2) Kirk needs to stop leaving all the h ... o Latosha.3) Kirk needs to stop his selfish purchasing. 4) They both need to stop buying ANYTHING not a necessity to actually survive.

I didnt watch but from this quote it seems there is more to the story than meets the eye. If it was reversed, he worked all day and came home to do all the house chores and parenting, he or the marriage wouldn’t survive.

I have reported the last 3 posts.

Reason: the promotion of ways which are alien to Somali culture.

Colonel wrote:I have reported the last 3 posts.

Reason: the promotion of ways which are alien to Somali culture.

XaliimoFarax wrote:Stingy is such an ugly trait both on males and females.

1) Kirk needs to look outside his former career. 2) Kirk needs to stop leaving all the h ... o Latosha.3) Kirk needs to stop his selfish purchasing. 4) They both need to stop buying ANYTHING not a necessity to actually survive.

I didnt watch but from this quote it seems there is more to the story than meets the eye. If it was reversed, he worked all day and came home to do all the house chores and parenting, he or the marriage wouldn’t survive.

Women handle stress better. And yes, there's always more to the story.

And stinginess = savings. Nothing wrong with it.

Colonel wrote:I have reported the last 3 posts.

Reason: the promotion of ways which are alien to Somali culture.

lol@colonel

Alphanumeric wrote:Women handle stress better. And yes, there's always more to the story.

And stinginess = savings. Nothing wrong with it.

That’s not an excuse, woman handle stress better. He should be doing more to help his wife and the family in this time of need.

There’s savings and there’s stinginess. Permission to buy chips? (from advo’s comment).

XaliimoFarax wrote:lol@colonel

Alphanumeric wrote:Women handle stress better. And yes, there's always more to the story.

And stinginess = savings. Nothing wrong with it.

That’s not an excuse, woman handle stress better. He should be doing more to help his wife and the family in this time of need.

There’s savings and there’s stinginess. Permission to buy chips? (from advo’s comment).

Ah, I see it might read like I was making it out to be an excuse. No, just putting it out there.

We can't assume what he doesn't do from this clip. Only finance is discussed.


I don't remember anything about permission to buy chips.

Yes it does read like that.

I haven’t watched the video so only relying comments from the video and this thread. Hence my stingy comment.

Advo wrote:Look what this guy has to go through, dude even needs permission to buy chips SMH

Colonel wrote:I have reported the last 3 posts.

Reason: the promotion of ways which are alien to Somali culture.

Get with the times mate ...

House Husbands are all the rage

jalaaludin5 wrote:

mody21 wrote:its funny if a man did the same to his wife he would be considered midgaan , xaasid, cold heart-ed or controlling. when a women does it its is independent and her money is her money. if I were in his shoes wallahi I would divorce her, and got at the world as a single man learn a trade makes some money even if it isnt much and never look back. no man should be subject to this BS.

BS!

And it doesn't make sense.

If you were in his shoes, you would be fat, depressed and on a leash just like he is

the saying is true "people treat you how you want to be treated"

even back in the day when I was much heavier than I am right now, I never took any crap from the xaalimos I was dating, from teh get go you have to draw lines in the sand. this poor nigga is too ashamed of leaving his wife for financial reason, I would tell her to fuck of , I dont care if I get a job at mcdonalds.

fact: somali women would never make more money than men.

miskeen86 wrote:fact: somali women would never make more money than men.

If it helps u sleep at night waa runtaa.

This reminds me of a Somali middle aged couple, they both work and mashallah to the mother, she is really hardworking and pushes her family. One day the husband for whatever reason decides to cut back on his work, the wife was not happy and she QUITS her work all together and becomes a full time stay home mother. This forces the husband to go back to work.

Moral of the story: Their insecurities make them think ur competing with him when actually u want the best for ur family. So don’t overwork urself ladies enjoy life.

mody21 wrote:its funny if a man did the same to his wife he would be considered midgaan , xaasid, cold heart-ed or controlling. when a women does it its is independent and her money is her money. if I were in his shoes wallahi I would divorce her, and got at the world as a single man learn a trade makes some money even if it isnt much and never look back. no man should be subject to this BS.

divorce costs a lot of money