Lone child. .

[Murax]

Bad mother in-law complaints really are overrrated. Most Somali Hooyooyin are not that bad.

[salool]

Walls not being thick enough.

That is legit concern.

See there Salool,not all sodoh`s are bad.Some would rather have their own privacy as well.

What i just really dislike is when some women make their husbands make a choice.Why? She is his mother,she is her and u r u.

Runtii in all seriousnes, markay caruur mesha timaado ayeeydood inay ag joogta wax ka fiican ma jiran.personally,I've fond memories of my ayeeyo and even though she was only living with us in few yrs, the things i've learned from her are gold worth.She was and still is a remarkable lady.I still remember all those crazy stories she used tell us and scare us to death every night before we went to bed. When i went backhome few yrs ago and met her again i hugged her so hard and kissed her..we were both crying of joy..i felt like a kid again.She will always have a special place in my heart.
No one can fill ayeeyos place or share so much wisdom..cid xikmad ku gaadhi karta ma jirto, so ladies put ur pride on the side and give ur children that experience.
I Wish to meet her again before death happen to any of us.

[salool]

Most women dont get along with their mother inlows and the husband always sides with his mother.Islaamo dhib badan ba jira.
My advice to you ladies never marry a guy who have only one or 0 sibilngs.

I know a few females who avoid men with no siblings.. I guess they have more experience in this type of stuff and want to avoid it by all means.. But personally I couldn't do it..

My asian mates have sort of put me off living with a MIL.. The stories they tell me is pretty shocking to say the least..
From what I've seen in our community MIL dont seem to be that 'bad'.. All the MILs I know are rather sweet to their daughter inlaws.. My sister loves her MIL as she treats her just like her daughters or even better marmar ..

Asians are quite diffrent then us, first it's arranged marriage the parent set up and then the bride must move in with her inlows who calls all the shots.Dhaqan adag bey layhiin

[BlackVelvet]

Walls not being thick enough.

That is legit concern.

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[Beans]

Walls not being thick enough.

That is legit concern.

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Soundsproof the whole house? Now i am just pushing it.

Salool. That is what i mean.The support,wisdom and love the kids get from their ayeeyo is priceless.

It is mainly a problem when she still wants her little son.

[Saraxnow]

Runtii in all seriousnes, markay caruur mesha timaado ayeeydood inay ag joogta wax ka fiican ma jiran.personally,I've fond memories of my ayeeyo and even though she was only living with us in few yrs, the things i've learned from her are gold worth.She was and still is a remarkable lady.I still remember all those crazy stories she used tell us and scare us to death every night before we went to bed. When i went backhome few yrs ago and met her again i hugged her so hard and kissed her..we were both crying of joy..i felt like a kid again.She will always have a special place in my heart.
No one can fill ayeeyos place or share so much wisdom..cid xikmad ku gaadhi karta ma jirto, so ladies put ur pride on the side and give ur children that experience.
I Wish to meet her again before death happen to any of us.

Same

[BlackVelvet]

Beans it's not just the mother in-law though, you're going to have kids and perhaps guests once in a while. Marka tartiib in aa u sheqesatid baro waye ama make sure the walls are very thick before you move in

[Beans]

Why am i the subject.

Soundproof rooms.

U r making it sound like meesha inaan orgy party ku qabanayno.

[BlackVelvet]

It's a general "you", waa bina adam dhan halihi Ilaahey oo abuuray.


Using the argument of "thin walls" can end very badly if turned on you walle, if you (general) don't want your mother in-law living with you wax kale in laga fikiro waaye

[Sealion]

Not checking for him in the case.

[Beans]

It's a general "you", waa bina adam dhan halihi Ilaahey oo abuuray.


Using the argument of "thin walls" can end very badly if turned on you walle, if you (general) don't want your mother in-law living with you wax kale in laga fikiro waaye

Who in their right mind will use that as an argument? That is just embarrassing.

Aniga,i am not against the mother in law wanting to live with her only son when she has no one else to take care of her.With being said,some general rules will be put down and some adjustments made.

[BlackVelvet]

The thing is though you can't "tali" to your mother in-law, you can't set groud rules and make your fall in rank like a kid because she's the waalid. It has to come from her, she needs to be the kind of person who gets it.

[Beans]

The rules are not for her.God forbid a daughter in law tries to tell her what to do.That is a recipe for a very bad revolution.

I meant for the family before she joins.

[BlackVelvet]

What kind of rules?

[Beans]

Nothing i have in specific now.