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Re: What age do you expect yourself to be Married?
Posted: Sat Apr 07, 2012 7:07 pm
by Nomand
around 26 to 28 inshallah.
Re: What age do you expect yourself to be Married?
Posted: Sat Apr 07, 2012 7:10 pm
by KingMJ
fighter wrote:KingMJ wrote:fighter wrote:30-35. And that ain't guaranteed
Fam are you serious why this late though? Unless you mean 30 on the dot.
Mid 30s lol. I want to be financially stable. My two brothers regret getting married so early.
I've seen with my eyes that its a bad idea
But I'll happily marry a woman back home now to get children. But over here, hell no lol
Yh but bro you can be financially stable at 27 at least then no need to wait until mid 30's.
LOOL@ one back home for kids
Re: What age do you expect yourself to be Married?
Posted: Sat Apr 07, 2012 7:16 pm
by metamorphosis
Around 20 to 22 but thats not going to happen.
Re: What age do you expect yourself to be Married?
Posted: Sat Apr 07, 2012 7:18 pm
by fighter
KingMJ,
You're right. I guess I'm scared of family commitments.
I'll do the wife back home idea. I'll send them $200 a month and they can live on a farm. I'll come once a year to spread my seed.
That's a lot of money back home you know
Re: What age do you expect yourself to be Married?
Posted: Sat Apr 07, 2012 7:25 pm
by Estarix
Lol @ all these persons saying that they'll marry in their 40s, they dont know what their doing is preparing themselfes for a future of sorrow and regret.
I'll get married once i'm financially secure insha'lah.
Re: What age do you expect yourself to be Married?
Posted: Sat Apr 07, 2012 7:33 pm
by KingMJ
fighter wrote:KingMJ,
You're right. I guess I'm scared of family commitments.
I'll do the wife back home idea. I'll send them $200 a month and they can live on a farm. I'll come once a year to spread my seed.
That's a lot of money back home you know
What about when she tries to force you to bring her to the west?
Re: What age do you expect yourself to be Married?
Posted: Sat Apr 07, 2012 7:40 pm
by HilaacHills
In 10 years time when I've finished college and have started a career, insh'Allah.
Re: What age do you expect yourself to be Married?
Posted: Sat Apr 07, 2012 7:42 pm
by Estarix
For those who clicked "not marrying at all".
Id like to know what kind of alternative to marriage that you desire and consider.
Re: What age do you expect yourself to be Married?
Posted: Sat Apr 07, 2012 7:43 pm
by fighter
KingMJ wrote:fighter wrote:KingMJ,
You're right. I guess I'm scared of family commitments.
I'll do the wife back home idea. I'll send them $200 a month and they can live on a farm. I'll come once a year to spread my seed.
That's a lot of money back home you know
What about when she tries to force you to bring her to the west?
I'll tell her that there's a war here and the gunmen are targeting Africans.
If she doesn't believe it, I'll ignore her phone calls from then on.
But they are getting crafty... those Somalis back home be using those North American numbers. If she tried that I'll start speaking in English hoping she'll think its a wrong number and that my number changes
No way she coming here dude
Re: What age do you expect yourself to be Married?
Posted: Sat Apr 07, 2012 7:53 pm
by Colonel
fighter wrote:KingMJ wrote:fighter wrote:
But I'll happily marry a woman back home now to get children. But over here, hell no lol
I have to second this, it's too difficult to get married in the West especially with the crazy financial expectations of the girl & her family.
Go back home, get a cultured young xalimo = win.
Re: What age do you expect yourself to be Married?
Posted: Sat Apr 07, 2012 7:59 pm
by KingMJ
fighter wrote:KingMJ wrote:fighter wrote:KingMJ,
You're right. I guess I'm scared of family commitments.
I'll do the wife back home idea. I'll send them $200 a month and they can live on a farm. I'll come once a year to spread my seed.
That's a lot of money back home you know
What about when she tries to force you to bring her to the west?
I'll tell her that there's a war here and the gunmen are targeting Africans.
If she doesn't believe it, I'll ignore her phone calls from then on.
But they are getting crafty... those Somalis back home be using those North American numbers. If she tried that I'll start speaking in English hoping she'll think its a wrong number and that my number changes
No way she coming here dude
Rageedi you got it all planned out
Re: What age do you expect yourself to be Married?
Posted: Sat Apr 07, 2012 8:05 pm
by fighter
Yessir
Re: What age do you expect yourself to be Married?
Posted: Sat Apr 07, 2012 8:19 pm
by Ladyyonelove
17
inshallah