qabiil before love

[afisoone]

Naa heedhe nin aad lasocotay 5 years nin ma aha.. Adiguna naag matihid.. Sidee naag caado leh ula socdaa 5 years. yaab badanaa...


Naa guurso ama iska fadhi..... koleyba ilma lee dhali laheed. Waa maxay caqligaan jeans adag ku huban...

[UlteriorMotive]

Naa heedhe nin aad lasocotay 5 years nin ma aha.. Adiguna naag matihid.. Sidee naag caado leh ula socdaa 5 years. yaab badanaa...


Naa guurso ama iska fadhi..... koleyba ilma lee dhali laheed. Waa maxay caqligaan jeans adag ku huban...

[qoraxeey]

Naa heedhe nin aad lasocotay 5 years nin ma aha.. Adiguna naag matihid.. Sidee naag caado leh ula socdaa 5 years. yaab badanaa...


Naa guurso ama iska fadhi..... koleyba ilma lee dhali laheed. Waa maxay caqligaan jeans adag ku huban...

[gemini07]

I really really REALLY love this guy been secretly with him for over 5 years but my family will disapprove of him and now I am on the verge of loosing the love of my life or moving on with him to get married without my families blessings this is the worst position to be put in please someone anyone advice me on what to do?

abayo you put yourself in this position. who told you to date for 5 years much less date a man you know your parents would never approve of? the biggest mistake you can ever make is to run off with him because disobeying your family in this manner will only lead to worse things happening to you. what if this guy mistreats you? who will you turn to then? your parents are not only your parents, they are there to protect you. once you disobey them, you're all on your own and you leave yourself open for mistreatment.

if the choice is between some guy and your family, pick your family. there are billions of men in the world and you will find "love" again.

[Rabshoole]

Naa heedhe nin aad lasocotay 5 years nin ma aha.. Adiguna naag matihid.. Sidee naag caado leh ula socdaa 5 years. yaab badanaa...


Naa guurso ama iska fadhi..... koleyba ilma lee dhali laheed. Waa maxay caqligaan jeans adag ku huban...

[hipsterrunoff]

I really really REALLY love this guy been secretly with him for over 5 years but my family will disapprove of him and now I am on the verge of loosing the love of my life or moving on with him to get married without my families blessings this is the worst position to be put in please someone anyone advice me on what to do?

abayo you put yourself in this position. who told you to date for 5 years much less date a man you know your parents would never approve of? the biggest mistake you can ever make is to run off with him because disobeying your family in this manner will only lead to worse things happening to you. what if this guy mistreats you? who will you turn to then? your parents are not only your parents, they are there to protect you. once you disobey them, you're all on your own and you leave yourself open for mistreatment.

if the choice is between some guy and your family, pick your family. there are billions of men in the world and you will find "love" again.

best advice i've ever heard on this forum. good job

[James Dahl]

This is the 21st century, your dad can't just decide your life. People have to find their own happiness in this world, if you live for your parents you are not doing anyone any favors.

If you're really scared that your dad will try and kill you, buy a can of bear spray.

[hipsterrunoff]

This is the 21st century, your dad can't just decide your life. People have to find their own happiness in this world, if you live for your parents you are not doing anyone any favors.

If you're really scared that your dad will try and kill you, buy a can of bear spray.

Woah, dude. We are NOT the type to do honor killings. She'll be fine.

[James Dahl]

You never know what the actual situation is, I mean people go crazy over things like this even in quite laid back countries like Denmark or Australia.

[Lillaahiya]

Rando < family.

[Colonel]

It was narrated that Abu Moosa said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "There is no marriage without a guardian."

(Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 1101; Abu Dawood, 2085; Ibn Maajah, 1881. Classed as saheeh by Shaykh al-Albaani (may Allaah have mercy on him) in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi, 1/318)

Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "There is no valid marriage without a wali and two witnesses."

(Narrated by Ahmad)

Know that if you get married without your father's approval then you'll be committing zina every night.

This is the 21st century, your dad can't just decide your life. People have to find their own happiness in this world, if you live for your parents you are not doing anyone any favors.

If you're really scared that your dad will try and kill you, buy a can of bear spray.

White boy, this is not the way us Muslims & Somalis work so kindly keep your dreadful advice to yourself.

[hipsterrunoff]

You never know what the actual situation is, I mean people go crazy over things like this even in quite laid back countries like Denmark or Australia.

Yeah, I know what you mean. But, I'm saying Somalis don't do this honor killing that you see Afghans, Pakistans etc do.

Sidenote: The famous James Dahl replied to me

[hipsterrunoff]

It was narrated that Abu Moosa said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "There is no marriage without a guardian."

(Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 1101; Abu Dawood, 2085; Ibn Maajah, 1881. Classed as saheeh by Shaykh al-Albaani (may Allaah have mercy on him) in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi, 1/318)

Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: "There is no valid marriage without a wali and two witnesses."

(Narrated by Ahmad)

Know that if you get married without your father's approval then you'll be committing zina every night.

This is the 21st century, your dad can't just decide your life. People have to find their own happiness in this world, if you live for your parents you are not doing anyone any favors.

If you're really scared that your dad will try and kill you, buy a can of bear spray.

White boy, this is not the way us Muslims & Somalis work so kindly keep your dreadful advice to yourself.

[ManD333q]

cool story..now wth where u doing with him for 5 years

[Ladyyonelove]

I said I was gonna go on with the marriage thing to sound tuff really thou Wallahi I wouldn't abandon my family for a guy although its been 5 years Nd why are some of you making this a big woof of the 5 years for the record we didn't get to qabiils until the third year anywho I am breaking it off inshallah