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Re: will you trust your spouse?

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Why would marry someone u dont trust.

Total and random strangers get hold of my phone and never worried beyond " Will they make a long distance call and get stuck with a huge bill"
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If your spouse has a password on their phone and makes a point of hiding it then yeah you probably shouldn't trust them. No one will look through a phone that is always left around the house, unless the person is a nutcase.
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BlackVelvet wrote:If your spouse has a password on their phone and makes a point of hiding it then yeah you probably shouldn't trust them. No one will look through a phone that is always left around the house, unless the person is a nutcase.
Does having a password on the phone mean hiding something tho?
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Tuushi wrote:
BlackVelvet wrote:If your spouse has a password on their phone and makes a point of hiding it then yeah you probably shouldn't trust them. No one will look through a phone that is always left around the house, unless the person is a nutcase.
Does having a password on the phone mean hiding something tho?
Only if he hides the password.
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hell nah

trust is for idiots
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BlackVelvet wrote:
Tuushi wrote:
BlackVelvet wrote:If your spouse has a password on their phone and makes a point of hiding it then yeah you probably shouldn't trust them. No one will look through a phone that is always left around the house, unless the person is a nutcase.
Does having a password on the phone mean hiding something tho?
Only if he hides the password.
Hide how? Like u ask and he says "why do u need that for?" :lol:

Would u demand it?
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:lol: Well it depends, if you say "what's your password" then that would probably be the answer you'd get. Lakin if you needed to use his phone and he gave that answer...alarm bells should be going off.

I wouldn't demand it, I would ask why he has a password and why he feels uncomfortable letting me use his phone. His answer would probably determine whether that would be the end of that relationship.
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fighter wrote:I will not show my phone and my private stuff to my future wives. If they don't like it, they can take a hike.
but i thot u was gay tho
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Agah! Are you serious? Whats the point of committing to a lifelong marriage with a person if you do not trust them?
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igotkatzngingersnapz wrote:
fighter wrote:I will not show my phone and my private stuff to my future wives. If they don't like it, they can take a hike.
but i thot u was gay tho
They see you trollin... they hatin....
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Re: will you trust your spouse?

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Haddaana? or Ofcourse!

But it should be mutual..If he is willing to share everything with me I will share every thing with him. Having said that, sometimes certain things are too much..One may talk/chat to an old schoolmate/collegue at work/aquaintances or distant relative , there shouldn't be any jeolousy envolved with those kind of innocent encounters. I have seen a women who would laugh and chat with many men some of them were men whom she dated but she will get crazy if her husband talks to any women..That kind of attitude is sickening.. :down:
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Re: will you trust your spouse?

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BlackVelvet wrote::lol: Well it depends, if you say "what's your password" then that would probably be the answer you'd get. Lakin if you needed to use his phone and he gave that answer...alarm bells should be going off.

I wouldn't demand it, I would ask why he has a password and why he feels uncomfortable letting me use his phone. His answer would probably determine whether that would be the end of that relationship.
Maybe he working on a surprise for u? A good one :lol:

I hear u.

I am not too sure but i dont think i would care too much.Sometimes,knowing everything abt a person isnt that great.Let him have something besides us.
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Re: will you trust your spouse?

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sahal80 wrote:do they have the right to check eachothers mobile? also going out without saying where to? dealing with the different gender( your friends, her kinsmen, businessmen and forth )
No. A wife or husband is entitled to a certain privacy.
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Re: will you trust your spouse?

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fighter wrote:
igotkatzngingersnapz wrote:
fighter wrote:I will not show my phone and my private stuff to my future wives. If they don't like it, they can take a hike.
but i thot u was gay tho
They see you trollin... they hatin....
now u kno thats a lie
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Re: will you trust your spouse?

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Mobile phones ruin a good relationship :( I personally don't think two couples should hide things from each other. Plus if you trust each other there's no reason to go through each others phones. Why would you even marry a person if you don't trust them enough to not go through their phone?
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