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Re: I FINALLY FIND A GUY BUT...
Posted: Sat Jun 09, 2012 10:36 pm
by sexy-kitten
Advo wrote:
Good 1!

Re: I FINALLY FIND A GUY BUT...
Posted: Sat Jun 09, 2012 10:39 pm
by Twist
Advo wrote:
Troll, it's OK to troll but can you please leave out the "Insha Allah, God, Pray to Allah" & similar phrases? Thanks in advance.
Re: I FINALLY FIND A GUY BUT...
Posted: Sat Jun 09, 2012 10:50 pm
by eliteSomali
wax waalan badanaa. bal tan hada miyeey fiyoowdahay?

Re: I FINALLY FIND A GUY BUT...
Posted: Sat Jun 09, 2012 10:50 pm
by 1_londoner
Re: I FINALLY FIND A GUY BUT...
Posted: Sat Jun 09, 2012 11:02 pm
by Turbulence
I don't think there is anything wrong with wanting to marry someone from your clan. Honestly with the same Somalis currently are it is a smart thing to do.

To do otherwise is to ignore reality. And to ignore reality is to court delusion.
Re: I FINALLY FIND A GUY BUT...
Posted: Sat Jun 09, 2012 11:09 pm
by nomadicwarlord
sugacoat wrote:nomadicwarlord wrote:sugacoat wrote:As you guys are all familiar with my search of Mr.Right I think I might have found him. He's smart, intelligent, educated, has a decent job, his looks are good for eyes, respectful, full of compassion and does what God want out of him. Sadly, Unfortunately, unluckily He is a hawiye. I am bumped right now, I am in distress, sad BECAUSE I am a woman and I know my kids will never have the same blood line as I nor my name unless barzaq life, the grave life is brought into term. And I really don't wanna marry out of my circle of people.
Yes he had to be a hawiye. I think I am being tested. But I'll close my eyes, pray to Allah and let this wonderful man go.
If he was a Muslim Jamaican, you would say Mashallah, lucky me.
How did you know what I would say or feel about marrying a Muslim jareer, are you some kind of psychic? You know what, don't answer that.

I'm a psychic, I see dreadlock-kids in your future. A lot of chillum sessions in your household. Don't marry a Muslim, rastafarianism is the way forward

Re: I FINALLY FIND A GUY BUT...
Posted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 9:46 am
by sahal80
sugacoat wrote: Sadly, Unfortunately, unluckily He is a hawiye. I am bumped right now, I am in distress.
wich one is working for you the right chemistery or the right clan? let me just tell you what i read:there are somali 500 divorced women in the west, they all get divorced by their tribemen. so, if you have this tribal mentality keep your kids within your clan and get ready to be like one of these women.
i do believe one thing wich is being within the deegaan. i have been to djbouti and in my first day i heard all saying anigaa wazo, dee waz them. i was 12 years old and shocked this is not common in my southren religious degaan.
Re: I FINALLY FIND A GUY BUT...
Posted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 10:08 am
by Alshabaibe
Lets be real people!! In as much as we all want to overcome the whole inter-clan marriage, I actually think she's justified in her concern. These things are never talked about, but they actually exist. If given a choice I think parents would always pick the closer person over the shisheeye.(I would too) Granted there are those that are religious mashallah and don't really give a damn, but majority fall under the afore mentioned category.
TBH I also cringe when I think my future kids inshallah could be any other qabil other than mine. Serious. Its not a matter of looking down on the other qabils I just want my kids to be my qabil. Don't get me wrong, I wouldn't want this at the expense of his deen. I always make ducaa that I get a God fearing guy from my qabil.
Re: I FINALLY FIND A GUY BUT...
Posted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 10:59 am
by DisplacedDiraac
This is getting ridiculous..
Someone needs to iron handle these trolls.. It's just becomin' real sad now..
We need a Admin dictator asap!
Re: I FINALLY FIND A GUY BUT...
Posted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 11:26 am
by SultanOrder
This shit is just old, every troll comes with the same bs

Re: I FINALLY FIND A GUY BUT...
Posted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 1:08 pm
by FarhanYare
Bleachedhime wrote:/Reads thread
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Re: I FINALLY FIND A GUY BUT...
Posted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 1:13 pm
by Methylamine
Advo wrote:
loool