Advice: Helping A Sister Out of a Marriage

[Lamagoodle]

Hell no unless she is penniless.

Basically, Abdiwahab is using us to come up with a solution so that he could take home the bounty! Yaa u sheega; there is no free lunch! I therefore retract my earlier propositions.

He should have called the thread" Isbaaro in progress"

[waryaa]

Hell no unless she is penniless.

Basically, Abdiwahab is using us to come up with a solution so that he could take home the bounty! Yaa u sheega; there is no free lunch! I therefore retract my earlier propositions.

He should have called the thread" Isbaaro in progress"

lol - yep i took back mine too my revision: dear awali, it is haram to intervene in other ppls' marital problems unless you are a well qualified and knowledgeable sheikh (which u r not by the way) who is there ONLY to salvage the the virtuous bond the couple has been enjoying before the great satan started to work his magic on them... and yes, u should stay away from them and tell her to stick with her man, life is short. Any kind of interaction with married women is not something a muslim man should be doing unless it is necessary and work/business related.

[daiman]

Naag kala tashaneysa her marital problems with a non-mahrah man we were ''friends'' ku lahaa
In my opnion, you can talk to your brothers, father, grand-fathers, real uncles about your marriage problems when things real get very bad and the guy refuses to divorce you. But talking this kind of stuff to a friend? a male friend? acuudu bilaah.

Anyway, I come across cases where women were into other men and were trying to make sure that they were secure with the other relationship before they divorce their husbands. But that just shit, immoral and unethical. It is very rare though. But men do that quite often. More than few men said to me that they would divorce their wives for me .
I respect those who say ' do not talk about my wife....do you want to marry me or not' . Anyway, anyone who wants to divorce someone for another would do the same. What goea round comes around.

and I dislike men who take friends with married women. That is just not right. The minutes I get married, I will cut off every male firend.

[Lamagoodle]

Waryaa,

My new message is this;

"Bismillahi Raxmaani Raxiim, akhi Abdiwahab, we are muslims and as such we should try to ensure that divorce is the last way out; according to a hadith, our prophet SAW is reported to have said " divorce should be the last resort". I will also remind you that it is the man who has the power of divorce. If the woman is unhappy tell her "qoof rabak" and that she should please her husband. Tell her that Jannah is at his feet. Beg him, feed him, love him, cherish him and you will be happy.

[waryaa]

lama awahab will be all over us whn he wakes up in the morning.

daiman, u are one very unique person with high moral standards

[daiman]

Waryaa, thanks walalo. that is just basics, I think, for a married woman.

But I can be very strange on my own ways....may be you missed my posts about my non-Muslim ....we are still human.

Anyway, enough said here....

[Cirwaaq]

There is a technical loophole and i have witnessed it being deployed in a similar circumstance.

Relativity is a beautiful a concept when one understand it's mechanics. Any woman not satisfied with the performance of her man in bed has the right to escape that marriage. Performance in bed a relative concept as there is no set standard as such for comparison and therefore there is a 100% success rate in winning this arguement without question.

If the prick does not respect her request she has the right to evoke the blessed escape clause of "Insufficient in bed".

Sorry men, the poor dude it happened had to migrate out of this city and move far away and never recovered and eventually died Allah rest his sole and forgive my use of his experience in this format.

Respect their choice and they will respect your manhood

[waryaa]

...may be you missed my posts about my non-Muslim ....

link? lol

cirwaq ppl get separated for a host of other reasons. besides designer dildos have been on sale for god knows how long. It is not like the camel herding years

[Substance]

How is the guy a prick? Can you explain further?

[Hyperactive]

Any tips ? She is insisting on a divorce and he is refusing out of spite. What can she do ? Any way of dissolving the union ?

i didnt read rest of comments. is she your sister? if not you have no bussiness. even if was my sister kuma dagdageen arin family matter ah.

[salool]

There is a technical loophole and i have witnessed it being deployed in a similar circumstance.

Relativity is a beautiful a concept when one understand it's mechanics. Any woman not satisfied with the performance of her man in bed has the right to escape that marriage. Performance in bed a relative concept as there is no set standard as such for comparison and therefore there is a 100% success rate in winning this arguement without question.

If the prick does not respect her request she has the right to evoke the blessed escape clause of "Insufficient in bed".

Sorry men, the poor dude it happened had to migrate out of this city and move far away and never recovered and eventually died Allah rest his sole and forgive my use of his experience in this format.

Respect their choice and they will respect your manhood

Yup

The same story happend to a man here as well, he refused to give her divorce and she humiliated him in the whole town, saying: mesha waxba kuma hayo ninku.Poor guy got crazy and ended up in a mental hospital.

Naag aan ku rabin waxa la isugu dhadhajiaba waa khalad.

[BlackVelvet]

I never understood this phenomenon. If a woman does not want to be married to a man and he refuses to divorce her (naag ii fur dhahdey horta maxa leysku dha dhajina?) If it was me I would just move out, wait for the prescribed period and then move on with my life. This is jiid jiid is just ugly.

[Rightwing]

Hell no unless she is penniless.

Basically, Abdiwahab is using us to come up with a solution so that he could take home the bounty! Yaa u sheega; there is no free lunch! I therefore retract my earlier propositions.

He should have called the thread" Isbaaro in progress"

Absolutely

[AbdiWahab252]

Lamagodle,

Abti, so you came here to stir ish up What happened to our kinship ?


Waryaa & Rightwing,

Are you easily being mislead by the dubious Sheik Lamagodle ? I always thought you were an indepedent thinkers. Or has the story hit close to home.


Substance,

He is verbally abusive. He ignores her and does not show up @ home for weeks. He also sees other women on the side.

Cirwaaq,

Thanks bro !

[Fey]

He is verbally abusive. He ignores her and does not show up @ home for weeks. He also sees other women on the side.

I would just leave.