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abakar20 wrote:teamo, if you're having problems with it then don't go ahead. qof aad ku kalsoon tahay oona mashaqo kuu keenayn ayaa la guursada. ive known a case where a girl born and bred from muqdisho married a young lad from boorame, yarta intaa waqooyi loo kaxeeyey ayaa la yiri cidaada xamar joogta uma tagi kartid, iney kuu yimaadaan maahane.

Yeah that's what I don't want if I ever go back home to live I want to be in xamar or other places like marka or somewhere not in Hargeysa or where isaqs live I don't want to be bullied by isaaqs heard they are very tribalistic to people from the south.

Ultimately, you'll end up with whomever Allah wills. Just pray that whoever you get makes your path to jannah easier.

Colonel wrote:2 hours ago you was saying that you had enough of faraxs and was planning on marrying ajnabi congolese

I have, if this one doesn't work out no more faraxs for me unless a sexy shiekh one comes out of nowhere

Since some of ur family members are married to different tribes I am sure they are not gonna have problem welcoming him to the family...as well. Mixed clan families dont discriminate. I hope ur not trolling


Btw, is this the same guy who broke up with u for qabil reasons..if so..than i suggest u to revise

Unoriginal trolling.

Keyblade wrote:Unoriginal trolling.

Te Amo i think its best you listen to your parents

More details before we are able to advice you. Laakiin sometimes waad iga yaabisaa. how old are you? i think i read somewhere that you are 19? aniga when i was 19 i was really really exicited with life and the West and everything.....i had not time for qabiil bashing.
You finished with hawiye and now with isaaq


how long did you know him? does he want to marry you? do you want to marry him? do you discuss this with him? and your family?

haduu jaceyl jiro ma aragtaa all those questions go out of the window. but may be you do not love him?

haja huuno waa maxey this would be the last somali to consider

i personally think it is better to marry a somali than a non-somali. qabiilka qofka is not really a problem......as long as he loves you you would be his priority over his clan. ibtilo waa markuu ku naco

TeAmo wrote:Hi guys, I'm seeing this guy he is gorgeous, smart, witty but theres one problem: he's issaq. I don't think my parent's like issaq people so I can't bring him home. But, i really like him. what should I do? No one in my family is married to an isaq their married to all sorts of tribes except isaq so I'm guessing they won't agree to it. I mean I can marry him if I want my parents won't disown me if I do, but it will cause problems and I know they won't be happy with it. So should I just go ahead with it? or leave it for their sake because I want my family to be friends with my husbands family.

Don't do it, he's gonna teach you how to speak Somali properly and then you won't be able to understand your parents.
bad move.

TeAmo wrote:Hi guys, I'm seeing this guy he is gorgeous, smart, witty but theres one problem: he's issaq. I don't think my parent's like issaq people so I can't bring him home. But, i really like him. what should I do? No one in my family is married to an isaq their married to all sorts of tribes except isaq so I'm guessing they won't agree to it. I mean I can marry him if I want my parents won't disown me if I do, but it will cause problems and I know they won't be happy with it. So should I just go ahead with it? or leave it for their sake because I want my family to be friends with my husbands family.

Red flags everywhere. For the sake of Allah, please do it

TeAmo wrote:

abakar20 wrote:teamo, if you're having problems with it then don't go ahead. qof aad ku kalsoon tahay oona mashaqo kuu keenayn ayaa la guursada. ive known a case where a girl born and bred from muqdisho married a young lad from boorame, yarta intaa waqooyi loo kaxeeyey ayaa la yiri cidaada xamar joogta uma tagi kartid, iney kuu yimaadaan maahane.

Yeah that's what I don't want if I ever go back home to live I want to be in xamar or other places like marka or somewhere not in Hargeysa or where isaqs live I don't want to be bullied by isaaqs heard they are very tribalistic to people from the south.

Lol?, considering your a Somali from the west you'll be treated like me and any other abroad person and be called 'Carab', Hargeisawi Isaaqs are not tribalistic these rumours you get are disgusting, Isaaqs are infact the most civilized of Somalis, regarding your issue with your Isaaq boyfriend ask his sub clan if he's Sacad Muse consider yourself lucky because they are the wealthiest Isaaqs , if your parents disagree, disagree with them, aren't you past 21+?, i got aunts who married hawiye men and i have habar gidir cousins marka you started BULLSHIT.

Issaq r nt trabalistic just that the reer xamar cant handle kaftaan ...

Women take the tribe of thier kids ... So u should base your decision on this and wat your parents want ...

AbuukarSubeer wrote:

TeAmo wrote:

abakar20 wrote:teamo, if you're having problems with it then don't go ahead. qof aad ku kalsoon tahay oona mashaqo kuu keenayn ayaa la guursada. ive known a case where a girl born and bred from muqdisho married a young lad from boorame, yarta intaa waqooyi loo kaxeeyey ayaa la yiri cidaada xamar joogta uma tagi kartid, iney kuu yimaadaan maahane.

Yeah that's what I don't want if I ever go back home to live I want to be in xamar or other places like marka or somewhere not in Hargeysa or where isaqs live I don't want to be bullied by isaaqs heard they are very tribalistic to people from the south.

Lol?, considering your a Somali from the west you'll be treated like me and any other abroad person and be called 'Carab', Hargeisawi Isaaqs are not tribalistic these rumours you get are disgusting, Isaaqs are infact the most civilized of Somalis, regarding your issue with your Isaaq boyfriend ask his sub clan if he's Sacad Muse consider yourself lucky because they are the wealthiest Isaaqs , if your parents disagree, disagree with them, aren't you past 21+?, i got aunts who married hawiye men and i have habar gidir cousins marka you started BULLSHIT.

Dude my friend went to Hargeysa for holiday back in 2010 summer I don't know why she decided to go there since she isn't from hargeysa, I don't know her tribe either all I know is she's not isaq and she told me how people were being qabilist to her when they found out she's from the south she said they called her dirty xamari coz she's from xamar. That put me off living there I'd never wanna go Somaliland or Puntland I'm fine with down south where I fit in and if my future husband who may be from those areas don't want to live down south then don't think it would work out. As for this isaq guy I'll see what my family says it's not my father who would say no but rather my uncle he is the qabilist in the family and whatever he says goes.

daiman wrote:More details before we are able to advice you. Laakiin sometimes waad iga yaabisaa. how old are you? i think i read somewhere that you are 19? aniga when i was 19 i was really really exicited with life and the West and everything.....i had not time for qabiil bashing.
You finished with hawiye and now with isaaq


how long did you know him? does he want to marry you? do you want to marry him? do you discuss this with him? and your family?

haduu jaceyl jiro ma aragtaa all those questions go out of the window. but may be you do not love him?

haja huuno waa maxey this would be the last somali to consider

i personally think it is better to marry a somali than a non-somali. qabiilka qofka is not really a problem......as long as he loves you you would be his priority over his clan. ibtilo waa markuu ku naco

I'm not qabil bashing I didn't qabil bash Hawiye just said my opinion and the opinion of many and I'm not qabil bashing isaqs. Well I've been in this dull country for over 10 years so I'm not so fascinated by the west. I discussed it with him not my family yet. I don't love him, I really like him I don't believe in love before marriage.