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herndonhomer wrote:i have seen somali guys successfully convert women to islam and keep a long healthy marriage but not the other way around.
yeah I know a guy who came to the US in the early 1980s and has been married to an cadaan lady for nearly two decades, she's Muslim and is also a PhD holder and he's a Public Health professional with an MPH from GWU.
Advo wrote:
Lmaooooo she bought be one of his many single moms.
My home boi got an older sister like that, we make fun of her dumbass all the time, she cried before Ramadan
the biggest mistake any young woman in the world whos looking for creating a family could make is to think she can engage in a serious relationship with a black african man.
thats just wrong!
i wonder if these half jamaican babies even tell people they're part somali. i bet they just tell people they're black with no consideration for nationalities.
Mondey wrote:the biggest mistake any young woman in the world whos looking for creating a family could make is to think she can engage in a serious relationship with a black african man.
thats just wrong!
that's just racism. There are good brothers out there. I disagree with trying to convert someone for marriage, they aren't saying shahada for the right reasons
FAH, sad but true. I know another girl who married a guy in a low key wedding and then when her kid was like 3 she found out he had another family and that it wasnt business trips he was making. I know to watch out for low key weddings now.
With regards to men 'keeping women Muslim' I know that is complete bullshit too. I know someone who divorced her husband and HATES Islam now, her kids are also atheists. Its all qadar Allah really, those guys must have found someone who wanted to convert anyway. I have seen my fair share of men who dont act on the diin and the wife leaves with the kids and either stays devout (if she was in the first place) or goes back to her old ways.
Mondey wrote:the biggest mistake any young woman in the world whos looking for creating a family could make is to think she can engage in a serious relationship with a black african man.
thats just wrong!
that's just racism. There are good brothers out there. I disagree with trying to convert someone for marriage, they aren't saying shahada for the right reasons
What's wrong with "jareer kids"? they're not ugly wtf. I know someone with two half-black kids. Wallahi they're beautiful. And my aunt's neighbour has a half-black kid. She'll be really beautiful when she grows up ma sha Allah their dads ducked out quick though.
I know this half Jamaican girl her dad is a revery. He reverted before he met her mum anyway yeah she was born her dad wanted a 2nd wife the mum asked for a divorce, she left the kids to him, moved on. The kids 3 of them grew up with their muslim jamican dad and he was strict as hell they used to come to my mosque. He would always tell me off for wearing make up and when he sees me on the streets lecture me about why I'm not dressed islamically (this is like 2 years ago) Anyway he was too strict on the girls they werent allowed to put on make up or wear coloured headscarfs or nice shoes because of attracting attention, they nearly finished the Quran and were grade A* students. Anyway the girls grew up the oldest one got fed up and started dressing nicely the dad didn't aprove. They had an argument, she left the house went to her grandparents, her dads parents, they aren't Muslims they whispered in her ears and told her to live with them and leave the dad and then she was still Muslim she lived with her granparents 2 months later the girls gone wild she aint Muslim. Her little sister does the same about 4 months later. Then a year later her little brother follows them. They're all no longer Muslims. Then the dad realises fxck and losens up and lets his other kids that he has with his Muslim Eastern European wife have a bit of freedom he even went to the extend of letting his youngest daughter bring a guy 'friend' in the house coz he is scared the same might happen with the others but atleast their mum lives with them and keeps them in check. And his son the half Euro one smokes weed and goes crazy and these kids were kids who finished the Quran and is dating my younger cousin I told her bitch you best stay away from these jamaicans. But she won't listen anyway now they're no longer dating.
Funny thing is the dad always used to compare me to his daughters and say I was a bad child blah blah I have no respect for the deen, blah blah why I'm I wearing make up blah blah. Now he sees me with my Abaya and headscarf and thinks damnn while this girl and others changed and became better my daughters have become non Muslims.
Last edited by TeAmo on Thu Aug 30, 2012 3:40 pm, edited 1 time in total.
Yo, wagwan.
Marka hore, waxaan ku talinaya in af soomaali lagu hadlo marka arimahan oo kale laga hadlayo. Liana forumkan dad badan oo aan soomaali ahayn baa akhriya.
as for this topic this guy will become tyrone ibn abu hafsa for a few months then he will go back to been tyrone ibn jermaine when he does his deed. this girl is stupid.
OMG TeAmo. Thats every Muslim parents worst nightmare. But London is crazy like that, too much free access to weed, parties and dating. He should move the younger ones to a Muslim country because the older ones will entice them further. I am so happy alxamduliAllah that my whole family are Muslim. Even when I was not practising I never thought of leaving Islam. SubxanaAllah.
Instead of marrying reverts they should marry Pakistani (normal ones who arent going to kidnap and kill you), Fulani and other Muslim born people from the UK. No freshies and no reverts. Both make for bad marriages.
and he's a Public Health professional with an MPH from GWU.
damn, you niggas are ruthless
that's just racism. There are good brothers out there. I disagree with trying to convert someone for marriage, they aren't saying shahada for the right reasons
