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Re: question to the ladies here...

Posted: Sat Sep 15, 2012 6:24 pm
by FarhanYare
YouDontHaveToGo wrote:Areesa sounds awfully like Idol.
for someone who joined somalinet a week ago you know alot :lol:

Re: question to the ladies here...

Posted: Sat Sep 15, 2012 6:25 pm
by zulaika
Areesa wrote:Since I'm going to have a career, I will sometimes cook for him. But don't expect me to slave in the kitchen after work. I would rather take a bath while he cooks dinner and feeds me afterwards massage my feet.
i see u are a work in progress...in many ways.

good luck with the career.

Re: question to the ladies here...

Posted: Sat Sep 15, 2012 6:26 pm
by YouDontHaveToGo
faraaxoos1 wrote:
YouDontHaveToGo wrote:Areesa sounds awfully like Idol.
for someone who joined somalinet a week you know alot :lol:
Sxb didn't you get the information package when you joined? It has all the information you need.

Since Australia are sending refugees to Narau. When will New Zealand start doing it too?

Re: question to the ladies here...

Posted: Sat Sep 15, 2012 6:27 pm
by Areesa
zulaika wrote: i see u are a work in progress...in many ways.

good luck with the career.
No offence but I'm not a 40 year old woman who is trying her best to keep a man. I don't need to cook and clean to keep my husband happy.

Re: question to the ladies here...

Posted: Sat Sep 15, 2012 6:28 pm
by FarhanYare
YouDontHaveToGo wrote:
faraaxoos1 wrote:
YouDontHaveToGo wrote:Areesa sounds awfully like Idol.
for someone who joined somalinet a week you know alot :lol:
Sxb didn't you get the information package when you joined? It has all the information you need.

Since Australia are sending refugees to Narau. When will New Zealand start doing it too?
:lol: :lol: ok this has to be fighter

Re: question to the ladies here...

Posted: Sat Sep 15, 2012 6:29 pm
by FAH1223
Areesa wrote:
zulaika wrote: i see u are a work in progress...in many ways.

good luck with the career.
No offence but I'm not a 40 year old woman who is trying her best to keep a man. I don't need to cook and clean to keep my husband happy.
I think Zulaika was like you years ago, she got married and has changed :smugfavre:

Re: question to the ladies here...

Posted: Sat Sep 15, 2012 6:30 pm
by FarhanYare
Zulaika,
Modern day xalimo's with ego = recipe for divorce

Re: question to the ladies here...

Posted: Sat Sep 15, 2012 6:31 pm
by zulaika
FAH1223 wrote:
Areesa wrote:
zulaika wrote: i see u are a work in progress...in many ways.

good luck with the career.
No offence but I'm not a 40 year old woman who is trying her best to keep a man. I don't need to cook and clean to keep my husband happy.
I think Zulaika was like you years ago, she got married and has changed :smugfavre:
ok now i'm offended :mrgreen:

Re: question to the ladies here...

Posted: Sat Sep 15, 2012 6:31 pm
by YouDontHaveToGo
faraaxoos1 wrote: :lol: :lol: ok this has to be fighter
You are mistaken sxb. I don't know what you are talking about.

Re: question to the ladies here...

Posted: Sat Sep 15, 2012 6:32 pm
by Areesa
zulaika wrote:
ok now i'm offended :mrgreen:
I should be the one offended, He is trying to say I am going to be a 40 year old betty downer, who got married to a guy just because he can have a maid in the house.

Re: question to the ladies here...

Posted: Sat Sep 15, 2012 6:34 pm
by zulaika
Areesa wrote:
zulaika wrote:
ok now i'm offended :mrgreen:
I should be the one offended, He is trying to say I am going to be a 40 year old betty downer, who got married to a guy just because he can have a maid in the house.
now i'm happy!!!

Re: question to the ladies here...

Posted: Sat Sep 15, 2012 6:35 pm
by FAH1223
Girls talk big about being independent but then when they find that nigga to marry, they do whatever for 'em. Fact of life

:steviej:

Re: question to the ladies here...

Posted: Sat Sep 15, 2012 6:41 pm
by YouDontHaveToGo
Areesa


Re: question to the ladies here...

Posted: Sat Sep 15, 2012 6:43 pm
by zulaika
FAH1223 wrote:Girls talk big about being independent but then when they find that nigga to marry, they do whatever for 'em. Fact of life

:steviej:
independent and single = doing it(hustling) alone

vs

school(check)
career(check)
man with money/marriage(check)

= doing it better than ever!!

you're right huuno, these impressionable chicks coming up the mill have their nickers in a not about this so called independence bru-ha

Re: question to the ladies here...

Posted: Sat Sep 15, 2012 6:52 pm
by Jam Street
Bleachedhime wrote:Didn't he marry me so that i would cook, clean, take care of the kids etc for him in the first place? Markaan kitchenka isaga ku xaraynayo, maxaan anigu ku maqanahay? :lol:
Hadaay gabadhi gurigeeda maamulkiisa ka soo bixi kari waysay, then obviously markeedii horeba waxay ahayd goonbaar baali ah. :|
There is hope as long as we have women who have the same mindset as you do. But i have to stay the situation looks bleak because the ratio of dumb/disrespectful xaliimos and good/raaliyo ones is very disproportional in favour of team caraweelooyin.

zulaika

Walaahi there seem like there is a big misunderstanding. These ghetto women are so used to seeing good for nothing men, whether it is their former husbands or fathers who do nothing other than chew khaat the whole night and sleep on the day so they are led to believe all men are like that. Hence they saying the household work should be shared equally. In that regard they are right, it should be shared but if a guy is capable of financially providing for his family you can't expect him to wear your baati and get him in the kitchen.