Marriage

[Hyperactive]

Allah khair ka ka bariday haku seeyo. do not ask Allah certain wish, make your dua proud. maybe that certain thing isn ot good for you.

saltul lail tuko, koley anoga wahban ka arkay o khair badan ah. woke up around 3 am. or even earliar.

[AbdiWahab252]

Good luck but you need to become more mature

[Barwaaqoiyobashbash]

Some ppl will have a hard time,looking for a spouse,waakuay I elfeay suuri afar them.

[TeAmo]

Barwaaqo what does that mean?

Hyper thanks insha'Allah I'm going to starting waking up for salatul layl and not because I want a husband to be honest men are everywhere I can grab one and be married tommorrow but I want the right one.

AbdiWahab I am mature, I might troll a lot on Snet but in real life I'm very mature for my age.

[jalaaludin5]

His beard looks too clean and he looks ciyal Allahu a'lam. I like rough men with nice beards

How about him? His rough, his got the beard, his eyes are red from roughness and his a wadaad.

[BlackVelvet]

In here before Waryaa


You should sign up to our Somali Singles section, there are a lot of eligible wadaad and non-wadaad Somali men, I am sure you will be able to find someone suitable! Good luck



How did I do?

[TeAmo]

@ black velvet. I don't think I'd ever resort to Somalinet singles

Aweys is actually handsome, minus the red eyes and the extreme ideology. If he wasn't extreme, didn't have red eyes and wasn't married I'd marry that any day

[AmalJaber]

Teamo, no offense, but i think it would be ok to follow AW advice. Why do you want to get married? Loneliness? Sex? Children? I'm a Christian but i understand, doctrinally, divorce is much easier in Islam than in Christianity; however that doesn't make it any less painful.

Your desire to get someone who's spiritually mature when you have not matured half as him presents a problem..why haven't you been able to learn your deen? Is it because you don't have the resources? Iguess not. I Think it's because you've not had the passion and you think (wrongly in my opinion,) that this Sheikh will push you to learn. It may work in the first few months but after you stay with him and realize that he's not what you expected from a sheikh, you may get frustrtaed to realize that he can be cross, selfish, and as carnal as any somalinetter. Furthermore, it can be very difficult for him to run with you, when you are moving like a car and he's moving like a jet on spiritual matters.

Another very important question; why do you want an older man? If it's men grow slower than women so i nid someone who's mentally mature to measure up with my high mental age, then i think that's ok. But if you want an older man so that you can be the baby and cry on his chest, you're gravely mistaken. You may crave that when you are 19, but what happens when you're 26?

Let me ask you, how angry do you get? If you are the angry, angry type, you're probably still immature and the sheikh will get tired of you within three months. The kind of nonsense that a 16 year old boyfriend can tolerate is very different from what a 25 year old man can take, especially if he knows that he can divorce and come to Africa and pick a "well-bred" somali woman.

My .2

[Barwaaqoiyobashbash]

Teamo, no offense, but i think it would be ok to follow AW advice. Why do you want to get married? Loneliness? Sex? Children?

Your desire to get someone who's spiritually mature when you have not matured half as him presents a problem..why haven't you been able to learn your deen? Is it because you don't have the resources? Iguess not. I Think it's because you've not had the passion and you think (wrongly in my opinion,) that this Sheikh will push you to learn. It may work in the first few months but after you stay with him and realize that he's not what you expected from a sheikh, you may get frustrtaed to realize that he can be cross, selfish, and as carnal as any somalinetter. Furthermore, it can be very difficult for him to run with you, when you are moving like a car and he's moving like a jet on spiritual matters.

Another very important question; why do you want an older man? If it's men grow slower than women so i nid someone who's mentally mature to measure up with my high mental age, then i think that's ok. But if you want an older man so that you can be the baby and cry on his chest, you're gravely mistaken. You may crave that when you are 19, but what happens when you're 26?

Let me ask you, how angry do you get? If you are the angry, angry type, you're probably still immature and the sheikh will get tired of you within three months. The kind of nonsense that a 16 year old boyfriend can tolerate is very different from what a 25 year old man can take, especially if he knows that he can divorce and come to Africa and pick a "well-bred" somali woman.

My .2

[TeAmo]

I'm sorry Amal but I haven't read all of what you wrote it's too much for me. Anywho I have managed to study the deen and know a fair amount. I want someone who knows more than me. Plus how do you know I'm not mature enough? You don't know me in real life therefore you can't come up with such a conclusion.

[caburiye1]

Teamo,

I know a very nice sheikh from Al-azhar university. Only 24yrs old. Wanna me to hook you up? You are in the Uk though Correct?

I was hoping a little more older than that. I don't want an immature guy I want someone who is patient and has dulqaad. Is the brother hafeez AlQuran? And did he go to Cairo to study or does he live there as in not from the U.K, America and other western countries. Coz I was hoping its not someone I have to bring here and keep visiting, that's a trek for me I just want to be able to see the person everyday.

He lived and studied in Cairo then came to america. Yes, He teaches dugsi in our local mosque. He is well versed in the quraan and hadith. Are you in the America or UK horta? wuxuu rabaah gabar joogto USA oo uu dhaqsi udaliiqo.

[SelfD]

Teamo,

I know a very nice sheikh from Al-azhar university. Only 24yrs old. Wanna me to hook you up? You are in the Uk though Correct?

I was hoping a little more older than that. I don't want an immature guy I want someone who is patient and has dulqaad. Is the brother hafeez AlQuran? And did he go to Cairo to study or does he live there as in not from the U.K, America and other western countries. Coz I was hoping its not someone I have to bring here and keep visiting, that's a trek for me I just want to be able to see the person everyday.

He lived and studied in Cairo then came to america. Yes, He teaches dugsi in our local mosque. He is well versed in the quraan and hadith. Are you in the America or UK horta? wuxuu rabaah gabar joogto USA oo uu dhaqsi udaliiqo.

She's in the UK i believe. Brother im sure there's lots of good sisters in your masjid that he can choose from. Does he even know that your doing this for him on Snet. Would he be comfortable with that?

[TeAmo]

Looooool

[AbdiWahab252]

Amal jaber.

Are you married _

[PrinceDaadi]

Amal made sense this tyme.