zulaika wrote:today i walked into an elevator thick with the scent of a woman's perfume(cocco chanel mademoiselle to be exact)..thought to myself, the woman that left this scent needs to lighten up on the perfume. and just as i was thinking that.. a somali guy walked into the elevator with few other people. when we got to the lobby, somali guy pulled me to the side, said salaams..and seen as i'm dressed modest i should also stop wearing perfume in public for i have caused him distraction and discomfort. I said, how do u know i'm the one wearing the perfume, he said you're the only woman in the elevator...
so i bear the dambi of another woman....cajiib.
you are a good person, and at the same time little hasid. that poor guy now thanbi bo galay for assuming. could be with good intentions but assumption is haraam. you should take him a side and give him little lesson and told him. " seef la bood nimada la ma amaneyn". ajir bad ka heli laheyd. he wouldnt assume again.
wallah i love people who correct me.even if i dobt show them, niyadan oka dueeya. wadadaduna wey o badanyihiin seef la boodnimada.